Don't think about having any children until you have an emergency fund of at least 1 year of expenses in the bank. Give yourself the option to be a stay at home mother because it will save you TONS in daycare and stress. Still have another care provider on hand on a part-time basis for days when you need a moment to yourself or even if you get a part time job. As long as working is an option and not a necessity.
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Don't think about having any children until you have an emergency fund of at least 1 year of expenses in the bank. Give yourself the option to be a stay at home mother because it will save you TONS in daycare and stress. Still have another care provider on hand on a part-time basis for days when you need a moment to yourself or even if you get a part time job. As long as working is an option and not a necessity.
I'm good on the money front, and I can do my job from anywhere.
Unless my birth control all of a sudden stops working, I won't be having a child anytime soon.
Off from work with an acct filled with extra money. 
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Imma go from one website to the next filling up carts and not buying shyt today. Online window shopping ftw!
.Imma go from one website to the next filling up carts and not buying shyt today. Online window shopping ftw!
Off from work with an acct filled with extra money.
Imma go from one website to the next filling up carts and not buying shyt today. Online window shopping ftw!
Baaalliinn!!!
I had some extra money last pay and I went on a little spree. It feels good doesn't it?
Off from work with an acct filled with extra money.
Imma go from one website to the next filling up carts and not buying shyt today. Online window shopping ftw!
Aint nothen better
ANewClassic
All Star
Do it!!! I want to loc mine sooooo bad. I'm just afraid I'll look crazy.
I think your hair would look fly loc'd. I have a friend that loc'd her hair when it was long and it looks good. She has alot of hair though so it's probably heavy. I don't want heavy hair nor long hair for that matter. Ear length and I would be chill.
awkwardblackgirl
Shakara
My hair is growing in, thank god. It's almost been a year without any relaxers. I'm about that natural life now.
Just seeing the curls I have now...my mom really fukked my hair with that shyt when I was young.
Welcome to the club
My hair is growing in, thank god. It's almost been a year without any relaxers. I'm about that natural life now.
Just seeing the curls I have now...
I transitioned for a yr and Ihave been natural for a yr and some change now and believe me... it gets easier.
I transitioned for a yr and Ihave been natural for a yr and some change now and believe me... it gets easier.
I can't wait. Right now I'm at a bun stage but by the summer I hope it grows out a little more.
Any hair products I should use, tips? (getting some ideas for my mom to buy me a bday gift)
Did you transition and then do a big chop? I just cut mine off a little at a time; the twa wasn't for me.I transitioned for a yr and Ihave been natural for a yr and some change now and believe me... it gets easier.
dora_da_destroyer
Master Baker
[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i72_uXkiOiw"]Immature-Feel The Funk - YouTube[/ame]
Immature has been on my mind recently, so I've been watching their videos on YouTube. Half of yall on here was probably five or younger when they were at their height of popularity 94-99, but I used to love these nikkas LOL
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