Essential Official Random Thoughts Thread (Ladies only)

[Sandy_Cheeks]

All couples argue and all couples have a first argument. If you think you're going to be in a relationship without argument you might as well dip now.

This is true and I don't mind that, but he's already showing me that he's inconsiderate, selfish, and who knows what else. I know nobody is perfect, and I don't expect such, I just expect him to try and understand me. Try to learn how I am and not just say shyt as if I don't have emotions. I can't stand people who feel as though if something doesn't bother THEM then it shouldn't bother you.

 

[Rawtid]

This is true and I don't mind that, but he's already showing me that he's inconsiderate, selfish, and who knows what else. I know nobody is perfect, and I don't expect such, I just expect him to try and understand me. Try to learn how I am and not just say shyt as if I don't have emotions. I can't stand people who feel as though if something doesn't bother THEM then it shouldn't bother you.

Did you tell him it bothered you? The same thing you told me, you should have told him. But not yelling...a calm talk, just some chill conversation. A relationship is nothing without communicating. Even if yall disagree over something. Even if you get mad. As long as at the end of the day you guys understand each other and realize you're not going to agree on everything.

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

Did you tell him it bothered you? The same thing you told me, you should have told him. But not yelling...a calm talk, just some chill conversation. A relationship is nothing without communicating. Even if yall disagree over something. Even if you get mad. As long as at the end of the day you guys understand each other and realize you're not going to agree on everything.

Hell yea I did and he hit me with the face. He has tons of shyt to say allll day long but the moment I have a problem his ass gets mute. I hate that ish. I am such a communicator but it's so difficult when the other person aint trying to be about that life or doesnt know how.

Yea, we agree that we wont agree on everything and for the most part things are fine. it's just that when I display any type of emotions other than "happy" he doesnt know how what to do or how to handle them.

 

[Rawtid]

Hell yea I did and he hit me with the face. He has tons of shyt to say allll day long but the moment I have a problem his ass gets mute. I hate that ish. I am such a communicator but it's so difficult when the other person aint trying to be about that life or doesnt know how.

Yea, we agree that we wont agree on everything and for the most part things are fine. it's just that when I display any type of emotions other than "happy" he doesnt know how what to do or how to handle them.

Then tell him how you want him to react.

"When I'm having a bad day, I want you to do xyz". Some people need to be hand held through things like that. Especially if he's close to his mother he may have never seen her cry so "happy" is the only way he's sees women to be. I don't know.

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

Then tell him how you want him to react.

"When I'm having a bad day, I want you to do xyz". Some people need to be hand held through things like that. Especially if he's close to his mother he may have never seen her cry so "happy" is the only way he's sees women to be. I don't know.

Girl, Idk either. Unfortunately he has a terrible/non existant relationship with the majority of his family. I don't mind holding his hand, helping, guiding, ect. He's so macho and alpha male and is probably disconnected from all things emotional lol I have no clue. We have been texting a little bit so hopefully everything smooths out. I just get so frustrated that I be like... mannn... fukc this shyt lol

I need more patience.

 

[HarlemsOwn]

i wonder if the women i deal with talk about me like that lol

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

It's Girl Scout cookies season and Ima try my hardest to resist .

 

[Cappy77]

It's Girl Scout cookies season and Ima try my hardest to resist .

Good luck. I always have to get those shortbreads even if I have to make a box last a week.

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

Good luck. I always have to get those shortbreads even if I have to make a box last a week.

They are calling me already

 

[Amy Traphouse]

It's Girl Scout cookies season and Ima try my hardest to resist .

Good luck. I always have to get those shortbreads even if I have to make a box last a week.

My daughters sell cookies for their troop and I always buy 20 boxes of shortbread from em to last through the year although I never eat ALL of them. By October I'm giving em away or letting my cousins have em.

 

[yeahisaidit]

I'm reading the Miguel thread over on LHCF and they drug Morethan1's thirsty ass!

 

[Cappy77]

I'm reading the Miguel thread over on LHCF and they drug Morethan1's thirsty ass!

Let me go check that out. Lol

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

I'm reading the Miguel thread over on LHCF and they drug Morethan1's thirsty ass!

They are going in

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

So this is where that thick lipped nikka came from? hmmm....

 

[CaliCali]

Is Morethan1 a troll over here or is he well liked? He is pathetic... saving a bunch of strangers on his computer to jack off to, all those text messages with those hookers..ugh. From the looks of him its no wonder he has to pay to get any attention. Ugly ass