Essential Official Random Thoughts Thread (Ladies only)

[Rawtid]

-The contracting company I work for does a tuition reimbursement that pays up to $2500 for education/training. The drawback is that you owe the company 9 months or else you'll have to pay part of the money back (Each month you owe a lesser percent of money). So we have a service rep (I guess what's what you can call him) who meets with me and kind of asks how I'm doing and all that and I told him I wanted to get some Certifications. He told me about the tuition program and I told him I didn't want to use that because I didn't want to owe them any time or money.

He looked at me like I had two heads. I'd rather just save up my own bread and use it and be able to make moves when I can instead having to worry about staying for 9 months or needing to pay some money back.

 

[AZBeauty]

-The contracting company I work for does a tuition reimbursement that pays up to $2500 for education/training. The drawback is that you owe the company 9 months or else you'll have to pay part of the money back (Each month you owe a lesser percent of money). So we have a service rep (I guess what's what you can call him) who meets with me and kind of asks how I'm doing and all that and I told him I wanted to get some Certifications. He told me about the tuition program and I told him I didn't want to use that because I didn't want to owe them any time or money.

He looked at me like I had two heads. I'd rather just save up my own bread and use it and be able to make moves when I can instead having to worry about staying for 9 months or needing to pay some money back.

Did you plan on looking for work elsewhere after getting the certifications?

 

[Rawtid]

Did you plan on looking for work elsewhere after getting the certifications?

I don't really know. I follow through on job opportunities presented to me now, like if I get an email from a recruiter or I browse and see other jobs closer to home or offering more money. I'm just afraid that if I use their reimbursement money, I'll find something and then have to pay them back. I could not find anything better and not be obligated for anything but I like having the option if that makes sense.

 

[colicolicoli]

Woke up this morning in a dancing mood...

 

[ANewClassic]

:blessedo:

Spoiler

But u got a man tho...save some love for us fatties

You always hear dudes talk about not wifing a "thick"/fat/chubby chick because they blow up after child birth. I do not have any friends that are in that aforementioned category that are single but all you hear is dudes talkin about how they don't want to be seen with that.

My rant was make your actions match your words. You can't say you want a girl that's in the gym like you are and eats right, but every time I see you, you with a girl that's a McDouble away from obese

So I've come to the conclusion that most guys do not date/marry bigger girls because they believe it is socially unacceptable, not because they are not attracted to them.

Spoiler

Works out and eats right regardless
My bf loves the way I look

 

[yeahisaidit]

Every time I see Fast Five, I get mad. There's no way Vin Diesel is beating The Rock () in a one-on-one.

 

[Ooh Marty]

You always hear dudes talk about not wifing a "thick"/fat/chubby chick because they blow up after child birth. I do not have any friends that are in that aforementioned category that are single but all you hear is dudes talkin about how they don't want to be seen with that.

My rant was make your actions match your words. You can't say you want a girl that's in the gym like you are and eats right, but every time I see you, you with a girl that's a McDouble away from obese

So I've come to the conclusion that most guys do not date/marry bigger girls because they believe it is socially unacceptable, not because they are not attracted to them.

Spoiler

Works out and eats right regardless
My bf loves the way I look

men say a lot of things that they don't mean

But I guess it depends on where u go cus most of the men that I know that are in shape and hit the gym on a regular are either with in shape/petite/slim women, I rarely see 8 pack having dudes with real thick/plus size women (except for my ex i got it like that)

 

[ANewClassic]

men say a lot of things that they don't mean

But I guess it depends on where u go cus most of the men that I know that are in shape and hit the gym on a regular are either with in shape/petite/slim women, I rarely see 8 pack having dudes with real thick/plus size women (except for my ex i got it like that)

I was at the grocery store and just glancing at the basket I could see what was hers and what was his. It was funny because I saw him first on an aisle by himself and he smiled as we crossed paths. I later saw him with his, I'm assuming, girlfriend and he tried to hide behind her as if not to be seen.

I later talked to one of my guy friends about this and he was saying that he's attracted to bigger women, but he would never be seen with/date/marry one. This was confusing to me because I think you should just date what you like

 

[Ooh Marty]

I was at the grocery store and just glancing at the basket I could see what was hers and what was his. It was funny because I saw him first on an aisle by himself and he smiled as we crossed paths. I later saw him with his, I'm assuming, girlfriend and he tried to hide behind her as if not to be seen.

I later talked to one of my guy friends about this and he was saying that he's attracted to bigger women, but he would never be seen with/date/marry one. This was confusing to me because I think you should just date what you like

I agree that he shouldnt be ashamed but hey, what u expect from a hypocritical b*stard that fake it just to impress the general public?

 

[CoolazzFemale]

MJ Rememberance on BET

 

[AZBeauty]

My married brother is such a whore. If I liked his wife more than I do, I'd probably tell on him. She's a bytch though so I will not be involving myself. He needs to learn a lesson though.

 

[.༼-◕_◕-༽.]

i think i have a fantasizing about sex addiction. is that a thing? i need treatment

on an unrelated note, do you all think i could seduce this man?

sexy taye diggs looking psychology phd having motherfukker


bet he only date white women

 

[Lana Kane]

So I have max posts per page and the stupidity never ends

Hope everyone is having a good Monday.

 

[TallFrenchy]

I later talked to one of my guy friends about this and he was saying that he's attracted to bigger women, but he would never be seen with/date/marry one. This was confusing to me because I think you should just date what you like

I find that men like to be with women they can flaunt. At least that's what I've been told. And since being big is seen as a bad thing, some men are embarassed to admit that's what they're into. But that goes for everything. A friend of mine was dating this girl who was pretty, intelligent, and nice, but he said he was embarassed to bring her around because she had bad fashion sense and didn't particularily take care of herself (no nailpolish, earrings, always the same haircut, etc.). Peer pressure is a bytch.

Hope everyone is having a good Monday.

Right back atcha. Why are you in the red?

 

[flusterose]

I started taking maca i hope it makes my booty bigger.