Essential Official Random Thoughts Thread (Ladies only)

[SecretLover]

This is why my child don't leave outta my sight , this is why I don't let her go with anybody , I'd rather be at home with her doing nothing then to have to worry about wtf can happen to her when she's outta my sight . I promise you this shyt real this world bout crazy I need a blunt who got the loud yo smh .

.I'm bouta have a mother and daughter talk with Miya . Let her know how much I love her and how much she's brought joy to my life .

 

[LimitedEdition]

Tried this lower dose of birth control. Still losing at life. I'm a little too emotional. Paranoid, weepy, angry, in heavy rotation. Is there such a thing as hormone driven psychosis? Smmfh. I hate everybody today.

 

[Seea]

These Terio Vines...

seconds long and all I can do is yell laugh.

 

[Christie]

So this week my husband and I will be looking for a daycare for my infant son. I don't know why I think some kid or adult might hurt him, but I do.
I'm scared...I reallt don't want him to go.

 

[LimitedEdition]

These Terio Vines...

seconds long and all I can do is yell laugh.

Link?

So this week my husband and I will be looking for a daycare for my infant son. I don't know why I think some kid or adult might hurt him, but I do.
I'm scared...I reallt don't want him to go.

*hugs* find an old lady that "watches babies." She won't teach you kid shyt but he'll have a part time granny. I think for infants those are the beat kinda of daycare.

 

[Rawtid]

So this week my husband and I will be looking for a daycare for my infant son. I don't know why I think some kid or adult might hurt him, but I do.
I'm scared...I reallt don't want him to go.

Do you have any friends that do child care or perhaps an older family member that's retired? That's the best place to start, imo.

 

[Rawtid]

Tried this lower dose of birth control. Still losing at life. I'm a little too emotional. Paranoid, weepy, angry, in heavy rotation. Is there such a thing as hormone driven psychosis? Smmfh. I hate everybody today.

Are you fukking? Because if not then you should 86 birth control until you can get your emotions in order. I've only be on two BC's in my life. Mirena and the Paraguard. With the Mirena it was baaaaddd....reeaalll bbaaaddd. If I had to choose never to haver sex again or be on Mirena, I'd get my virgin mary on in a heart beat.

With all that said be careful of what you're eating. Too much sugar and bad fats will make things even worse. If you can get up a half hour to 45 minutes earlier, take a walk every morning. Also after work take a kickboxing or boxing class and release your emotions. It will help. Being out of control emotionally is no bueno.

 

[Uncle Trill]

Yall ladies can use this as your dead smiley

 

[Christie]

Link?


*hugs* find an old lady that "watches babies." She won't teach you kid shyt but he'll have a part time granny. I think for infants those are the beat kinda of daycare.

Naw I don't want to do a home daycare

Do you have any friends that do child care or perhaps an older family member that's retired? That's the best place to start, imo.

Ummmm...my brothers are all in the military and my parents work (plus they don't want to do that). All of my friends are educators (as i am also)...so that doesn't work.

I rather do a facility daycare center. Definitely no home daycares

 

[Rawtid]

Naw I don't want to do a home daycare







Ummmm...my brothers are all in the military and my parents work (plus they don't want to do that).

I rather do a facility daycare center. Definitely no home daycares

The amount of germs he'll be exposed to in a large center will be way more than a home daycare. Wayyy more kids waaaayy more germs.

 

[CoolazzFemale]

How the fukk r u in human resources and not know shyt.

 

[Ooh Marty]

got a dilemma brehettes

Ive been talking to a guy via the phone and texts that i met on IG a month ago....we finally met last week, we went for a walk in the park and i got to really liking him a lot he said he was feeling me as well.

Thing is, after we met, hes only texted me 4 times and when I text him, he doesnt responds.

I shouldnt be sweating it like that since i didnt lose anything, never was intimate or anything but I am kind of agitated by the whole situation....why so?

 

[Rawtid]

got a dilemma brehettes

Ive been talking to a guy via the phone and texts that i met on IG a month ago....we finally met last week, we went for a walk in the park and i got to really liking him a lot he said he was feeling me as well.

Thing is, after we met, hes only texted me 4 times and when I text him, he doesnt responds.

I shouldnt be sweating it like that since i didnt lose anything, never was intimate or anything but I am kind of agitated by the whole situation....why so?

Ummm fukk him!!

Or you could be mature and ask him what's up but be sure to ask him in person that way if he lies you can see when his eyes shift.

 

[Ooh Marty]

Ummm fukk him!!

Or you could be mature and ask him what's up but be sure to ask him in person that way if he lies you can see when his eyes shift.

well i did ask him what was up and he responded that he got a lot going on in his personal life and that he will make time for me yet i see his ass on ig liking pics left and right and on ig message online all the time

should i just delete him out of my life all together or just delete his number and keep it moving?

update: he just texted me good morning and I deleted the text!

fukk him! I hate when nikkas see how good a woman is and act as if he want something real then mess it up! Guess I'll be single for now on...fukk dating...I got a job and school to be worrying about. Not no man!

 

[LimitedEdition]

Are you fukking? Because if not then you should 86 birth control until you can get your emotions in order. I've only be on two BC's in my life. Mirena and the Paraguard. With the Mirena it was baaaaddd....reeaalll bbaaaddd. If I had to choose never to haver sex again or be on Mirena, I'd get my virgin mary on in a heart beat.

With all that said be careful of what you're eating. Too much sugar and bad fats will make things even worse. If you can get up a half hour to 45 minutes earlier, take a walk every morning. Also after work take a kickboxing or boxing class and release your emotions. It will help. Being out of control emotionally is no bueno.

At the end of the month I'm off this shyt. I went to the gym yesterday and felt alot better after I left. Hormonal BC is not my friend. People think I'm joking but I was literally crying yesterday morning for NO REASON. And even though I knew I didn't have a reason to be sad I couldn't stop crying. I feel fine today but it could come outta nowhere just like yesterday.

I was only taking it to regulate my cycle so I don't wanna stop mid pack and cause myself to be irregular again :-/ 2 more struggle weeks of this shyt.