Plan First Dates in 2016, Brehs and Brehettes...

[Spatial Paradox]

The most important thing for me on a first date is that it's somewhere where we can actually talk and get a feel for each other. Something lowkey seems better for that kind of thing than a fancy first date. I'd rather go get a drink/coffee or hit up a lowkey lounge and, weather permitting, take a walk somewhere than to do a fancy first date. Maybe I'm biased because I'm in NYC, but in my experience, just walking past a bunch of different places will give you both plenty to talk about and you can probably get a better feel for the person from there.

TBH, I feel like a more low key first date also takes the pressure off both parties. And there's no harm done if you two weren't feeling it for whatever reason (she's boring, he's a creep, clashing personalities etc.)

 

[BocaRear]

Dates in 2016

 

[Neuromancer]

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

I have stopped doing dinner or planned dates myself. We either doing star bucks or ice cream, something simple and in broad daylights. The only time I do planned dates is if it I get a real good vibe from her and she has proven herself to me. I remember being out on a date with a joint and saw her phone buzzing with unsaved numbers. I peeped game, I had already brought lunch earlier at the park, she wanted to go to dinner ..peeped gamed and hit her with the . Ever since then, I don't do that shyt.

Yesterday, this girl I met at a book discussion admitted to having a friend with benefits and going out on dates with nikkas she had no intention of being available to. She did that shyt for three years. All those guys were spending their hard earned and time while some nikka she saw no long term benefits with was smashing her easy.

I have zero intentions on being the guy who's time and money is being wasted.

 

[Kane1]

I would have hit her with the coffee meet up due to the fact that I'm leaving to go out of town in a couple of days and I wouldn't have time to set up a real date


Get her on that face to face meet up and never call that damn bird back!!

 

[Hiphoplives4eva]

I have stopped doing dinner or planned dates myself. We either doing star bucks or ice cream, something simple and in broad daylights. The only time I do planned dates is if it I get a real good vibe from her and she has proven herself to me. I remember being out on a date with a joint and saw her phone buzzing with unsaved number . I peeped game, I had already brought lunch earlier at the park, she wanted to go to dinner ..peeped gamed and hit her with the . Ever since then, I don't do that shyt.

Yesterday, this girl I met a discussion admitted to having a friends with benefits and going out on dates with nikkas she had no intention of being available to. She did that shyt for three years. All those guys were spending their hard earned and time while some nikka she saw no long term benefits with was smashing her easy.

I have zero intentions on being the guy who's time and money is being wasted.

These women are scandalous as fukk!

 

[beenz]

That sense of entitlement

That stray bullet to white girls

one more thing here. this bytch text is condescending as hell. she tryin to save face with a cheap shot with her last message when the OP tossed her in the :bushess: before anything even started.

 

[The BasedFather]

Bout to take it back to the cavemen days and straight clubbing hoes and dragging them back to the crib. FOH with that extravagant dat BS.

 

[William F. Russell]

You got a pic?


Cuz fine girls can get away to this shyt. But theres too many regular chicks trying to do what dimes do. Not going to happen.

 

[360dagod]

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Ya'll just gotta be creative. First date I took my now wife on was back in college. Took her to a play I had to go to for a class I had (told her about it too). I gave her a single flower, took her to the play and then to eat at a decent spot in Lincoln Park. Couldn't have spent more than $70 total for both of us. I've taken women to street fairs/festivals, to walk the beach, ice skating, etc. Most women just want to actually do something that shows you took more than 8 seconds to think about it and had a plan.

how long ago was this?

 

[beenz]

my same buddy who uses the groupons also went on a date with a bytch off the match app.

he said the broad was clearly a golddigger, so he ditched her at the table after the food came.

then when she's blowing up his phone a couple hours later mad as hell, he tells her, that he's been trying to call her and that his phone died

when dude told me this, I was ROLLIN!

 

[MalikReloaded]

You want a woman who can deal with meek times as well as abundance because you might not always have it. A person demanding extravagance on a 1st day isn't built like that.

Stop giving away the game free breh. Charge them for it.

 

[MalikReloaded]

She look good

 

[Atlrocafella]

my same buddy who uses the groupons also went on a date with a bytch off the match app.

he said the broad was clearly a golddigger, so he ditched her at the table after the food came.

then when she's blowing up his phone a couple hours later mad as hell, he tells her, that he's been trying to call her and that his phone died

when dude told me this, I was ROLLIN!

man yall friends are crazy..

 

[unthickly]

Ya'll just gotta be creative. First date I took my now wife on was back in college. Took her to a play I had to go to for a class I had (told her about it too). I gave her a single flower, took her to the play and then to eat at a decent spot in Lincoln Park. Couldn't have spent more than $70 total for both of us. I've taken women to street fairs/festivals, to walk the beach, ice skating, etc. Most women just want to actually do something that shows you took more than 8 seconds to think about it and had a plan.