Plan First Dates in 2016, Brehs and Brehettes...

[Chelsea Bridge]

This was back in my college days. PG chicks were the same way. Everything would be all good till they'd find out I'm from Baltimore than I'd get the

Lol...... Oh yeah I know that look

Spoiler

I used to do that too



I'm so ashamed

I was just trying to fit in. I didn't mean it.

 

[iBrowse]

I'll allow it

@Ooh Marty you sure about that

 

[iBrowse]

I remember the first time I went out with my wife. I actually offered to take her to a bar/restaurant by my crib cuz she drove all the way across town.

and I remember it to this day she said "we can just go to mcdonalds"

 

[The M.I.C.]

Doing too much. '

Somebody said he married his wife because she suggested Mcdonald's over a fancy restaurant. Such low standards we set for females

cliché but women ain't aliens, they shyt, lie, cheat, steal like any other human, and will betray u when the time is right. if u got to go on a date to find that out, u might as well pay for it upfront and get it over with

U ain't gun find the cure for aids, cancer, or any out of the world shyt that's gun blow ur mind.

But a lot of us don't have good role models in our life so we learning on the job, but yall keep living, u will get it eventually be it he hard way or the long way

How is essentially, doing too little, as I just laid out with my approach..doing too much?

The construction of your reply to mines is a bit ill-formed. If you're fine with spending top dollar on a woman who essentially hasn't earned the right to eat that much from your pockets, then fine by me. Most women and men do not have the ability to discern who's emotionally and mentally compatible nowadays, it's all hump and dump..separating those with that mentality from the ones who actually desire real relationships requires the ability to test and find out as much as you can with as little collateral involved as possible in case it's not a good match. Not everyone is rolling like millionaires, protecting your capital and your time is always a prerogative when you're screening someone who will potentially have a life altering effect on you for the long term. If you're willing to go in blind then kudos to you and your bank account.

 

[Ooh Marty]

@Ooh Marty you sure about that

Positive

 

[iBrowse]

Positive

 

[iBrowse]

You crazy man there ain't no dollar menu there

This shyt chess not checkers

 

[King Poetic]

he should have taken her to a nice expensive restaurant, let her order and eat.. u go to the bathroom right out the backdoor...

then text her.. how did u like that plan

 

[Ooh Marty]

You've never been with one before so how do u know ?

 

[Neuromancer]

Like I said, me personally by the time the first date happens we already know we like each other. I don't rush dates, I don't ask to be taken out either. I expect for the man to pay for at least the first date just like his black ass is going to be expecting to get some after sticking around for a while. See u men these days don't want to do absolutely nothing but u want shyt in return. If a man ain't willing to pay for me then why would I want him? He could say the same for me. If I never wanted to pay for nothing why would he want me either? I've paid going out as well and I expect his ass to cough up some money too.

Yeah read the story I mentioned about a girl using my homie for a meal in this thread then feeding him a Bullshyt line. Come off that shyt women want something for nothing too. Whether it's p*ssy or to "feel special " everyone is looking for something. I stopped paying for dates because I wasn't sure if i was getting thing out of it and I'd be damned if I'm wasting my time (I could be writing or renting apartments or working out) and money on some broad who wasn't giving me anything and wasn't bringing fukk all to the table except an ass, a pair of t*ts and a smile. If I decide she's worth it then she can get a date and dinner, but never before I decide.

 

[agnosticlady]

That worked so much back in the day

Really?

The ideas of that just turns me all the way off lol

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Breh I went on a few dates the last month or so just because of the face that I aint really dated in so long and to make sure I wasn't getting to comfortable lol.

My experiences range from to

I'm seeing a few right now but only one on the regular. past few times we went out we basically raced to see who could get the money out first

The past couple times I let her win

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Really?

The ideas of that just turns me all the way off lol

Im

We talking back in the early 2000s. I was broke

 

[iBrowse]

You've never been with one before so how do u know ?

I already lift heavy shyt at the gym ya know...you're probably a warmup

 

[agnosticlady]

I can see that exchange being real...

I hate wasting money on a date that won't go anywhere.

Yeah I think that people are not considering that the first date may not be what you are looking for. You can meet someone you are attracted to at an event, and after a week of talking on the phone then you go out with them. You guys go out to eat and the bill is $50+. This person burps, licks their fingers, snaps at the waiter/waitress, then ask for a doggy bag. They sound nice over the phone and then you see how they act. $50 down the drain. Now imagine you went on 3 other dates like that with different people. $150 down the drain in a week. It is best to keep first dates simple because you honestly do not know the personality of a person. I think that when you get to know each other more then i can understand the $50+ dates. In a relationship I can definitely see the $50+ dates.