Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Ohene said:
my homie uses that

this year some of the coolest chicks i met randomly in person are bisexual and polyamourous

i think its because they understand what its like to date women; that sympathy turns them into cooler chicks. plus theres no strings attached
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.when dudes give up on "tradition" and take people as they are dating becomes easy, the issue is brehs who want family lol that shyt will make you even more jaded
 
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re'up said:
The "match energy" has always seemed to me a little bit p*ssy, to put it in a street way, in the same way a lot of our new wage/wellness culture language has become.

We all get trapped in the quicksand of texting and bad responses -worse responses cycle. But, I do my thing, not theirs. Two good faith invites, and that's it, but everyone gets the good faith invite, because that's me. Why would I embody or emulate traits I don't respect?
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It is, and is a VERY big reason why everyone is trapped in these snafus.
 
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Ohene said:
ill never understand how women can spend time with a dude they have no interest in just for a free meal or experience

i have two women tryna take me out for my birthday - one for drinks and one for dinner - and i dont even care for all that, even though i'm feeling them. they can just come over and kick it or i might even just sspend the night alone. kinda shows you how differently men and women are wired

however, i think the key distinction is that if a woman can take herself out to nice restaurants and shyt she will be wired more similarly to me in that her time is more valuable. it really only be the broke women that care about all that wining/dining shyt. i say all that to say, if a girl cares about how much you spend on her, its often because she is broke and has no understanding of money. As a result, a dude taking her out is the only way she can have nice dinners or experiences.

last chick i took out for her birthday, took her out for a nice dinner, drinks and even sent her flowers. spent about $300 and she had the nerve to say i seemed frugal weeks later. meanwhile i got chicks tryna take me out and I am telling them i'm straight.
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Broke pretty chicks have very little appreciation for what you do for them.
 
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cyndaquil said:
When I say check her I just mean communicating your boundaries. Some women don't know for real cuz the prior dudes they were with would simp and chase em or didn't value their time. You let her know what it is and if she violate then you keep it moving.

I've had women who shape up cuz I tell em I don't play games so if you tired or cant talk just let me know rather than tryna hide and wait til later cuz she scared of the response or she think imma hang around no matter what she does.

Like you said tho you can play the games and match her energy if you want to smash but if we out here with options why even do that? It's already hard enough to basically code switch between women and remember all the little shyt about them without mixing them up now we wanna add on energy matching too? Sounds like unnecessary headache to me
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Lmao so true. That why I adds notes about them in they contact info in my phone lol.
 
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