Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ohene]

yea mayne. It's only about a year in but so far so good and its far and wide a year 1 compared to any relationship i've been in. it isnt even close.

hate to beat a dead horse but it validates all the red flags we talk about in here.

1. Women with salacious/attn whoring social medias? Stay away
2. Women with whose parents arent together (or at least didnt stay together til the kids were adults)? Stay away
3. Women who dont have good relationships with their parents? Stay away
4. Women who own dogs? Stay away.
5. Women who dont initiate plans/convos after a few dates or act averse to the idea when you suggest they do? Stay away.
6. Women who arent responsive and easy to make plans with off the bat? Stay away
7. Women who are broke? Stay away (if you past the age of 25 lets say)

Our first 'link' was grabbing coffee during work for like 10 mins.
Second link was cheapt tacos after work.

If a woman makes meeting up conditional on where yall going and what yall doing she can kick rocks. Women who got they own bread or life and are really interested in finding a boyfriend just wanna get to know you. Other stuff is secondary

And IF ...big IF...a man is interested in finding a girlfriend, wife or whatever he has to be somewhat cut throat when it comes to some of the above deal breakers. Categorize these chicks and dont think with your dikk. Think about how this girl with daddy issues, an abusive ex, poor communication skills or whatever the case might be might be down the road and avoid the lustful temptation. Dont even hold onto them as fukk buddies...just completely look past them.

 

[The ADD]

yea mayne. It's only about a year in but so far so good and its far and wide a year 1 compared to any relationship i've been in. it isnt even close.

hate to beat a dead horse but it validates all the red flags we talk about in here.

1. Women with salacious/attn whoring social medias? Stay away
2. Women with whose parents arent together (or at least didnt stay together til the kids were adults)? Stay away
3. Women who dont have good relationships with their parents? Stay away
4. Women who own dogs? Stay away.
5. Women who dont initiate plans/convos after a few dates or act averse to the idea when you suggest they do? Stay away.
6. Women who arent responsive and easy to make plans with off the bat? Stay away
7. Women who are broke? Stay away (if you past the age of 25 lets say)

Our first 'link' was grabbing coffee during work for like 10 mins.
Second link was cheapt tacos after work.

If a woman makes meeting up conditional on where yall going and what yall doing she can kick rocks. Women who got they own bread or life and are really interested in finding a boyfriend just wanna get to know you. Other stuff is secondary

And IF ...big IF...a man is interested in finding a girlfriend, wife or whatever he has to be somewhat cut throat when it comes to some of the above deal breakers. Categorize these chicks and dont think with your dikk. Think about how this girl with daddy issues, an abusive ex, poor communication skills or whatever the case might be might be down the road and avoid the lustful temptation. Dont even hold onto them as fukk buddies...just completely look past them.

That’s great man, congrats

 

[Panther]

I see we've arrived at the feminist "Thinkpiece" portion of Meg & Klay

Stay safe brehs

 

[Ahadi]

I see we've arrived at the feminist "Thinkpiece" portion of Meg & Klay

Stay safe brehs

They’re mad because they thought he was a clean up man and now they’re mad the “clean up” man didn’t save her and now they’re spiraling because other men are watching. Hence, less clean up man in the future.

 

[Panther]

They’re mad because they thought he was a clean up man and now they’re mad the “clean up” man didn’t save her and now they’re spiraling because other men are watching. Hence, less clean up man in the future.

Now its a referendum on how men feel about women. We're supposed to worship their favorites like deities (Meg, Beyonce, Michelle Obama, Traci Ellis Ross)

Spoiler

And I like some on Kev's content but he's outta pocket

 

[General Mills]

 

[cyndaquil]

yall need to get off that social media bs mayne

if you have an account, use it to track your interests (i.e., hobbies, music, restaurants, sports, clothing, news etc.)

no need for a grown man to be liking anybody's pictures on IG. ima keep it real with you fam. And in the case that you do and a girl catches wind of it she can kick rocks

Not sure what the big deal is about liking a picture in and of itself. Plenty of people like the pics others post on social media. The girl who's pic i liked i knew in real life. She wanted me to slide and I decided against it. Had a good conversation about it tho so I'm not trippin anymore. But yeah the social media can cause this BS not it is what it is. Hence why I barely post on there.

 

[Ahadi]

yall need to get off that social media bs mayne

if you have an account, use it to track your interests (i.e., hobbies, music, restaurants, sports, clothing, news etc.)

no need for a grown man to be liking anybody's pictures on IG. ima keep it real with you fam. And in the case that you do and a girl catches wind of it she can kick rocks

Not gona hold you, I’m the same way.

I don’t want no paper trails, i don’t care if it’s platonic, romantic, I don’t trust WiFi, algorithms, etc. social media likes to recommend profiles all the time based on likes, I’m good.

I don’t “like” any of the women I’m smashing / or leave comments and it’s always been like that, straight DMs or we talk off the app.

 

[re'up]

Not sure what the big deal is about liking a picture in and of itself. Plenty of people like the pics others post on social media. The girl who's pic i liked i knew in real life. She wanted me to slide and I decided against it. Had a good conversation about it tho so I'm not trippin anymore. But yeah the social media can cause this BS not it is what it is. Hence why I barely post on there.

The New Infidelity

Micro-cheating includes all sorts of internet behavior that, to many people, might just seem innocent.

www.theatlantic.com

As with plain old infidelity, micro-cheating is tricky to define; behavior that is fair game to one person might be egregious treachery to another. Many people have attempted to catalog it anyway. According to a number of lifestyle publications, a micro-cheater could be someone who, while in a relationship, maintains an active Hinge profile or sends explicit pictures to another person. Or they could have done something that might otherwise seem banal: “liking” someone else’s Instagram post, perhaps, or messaging a colleague about something other than work. In a Vogue article advising readers on how to properly recognize a micro-cheater, a couples therapist concluded that micro-cheating could be anything, rea

 

[re'up]

Because of technologies role in shaping our lives it also shapes our romances. This article broke a lot of that down. One thing is that everything is tracked and visible now, even expressions of romance, it's all able to be digitally tracked and recorded and has become a third rail in how we conduct relationships.

 

[Ohene]

way i see it, one has nothing to gain from liking pictures on IG. could be a picture of your brothers new born baby or some shyt...whats the point of liking it?

thats just me though. i dont use IG like that so all that shyt is pointless to me

regardless, if i did like a picture and a girl had a problem with it thats her problem. she can see the door. cant let a woman manipulate you into thinking you did something wrong if thats just how you move

 

[Redwood]

way i see it, one has nothing to gain from liking pictures on IG. could be a picture of your brothers new born baby or some shyt...whats the point of liking it?

thats just me though. i dont use IG like that so all that shyt is pointless to me

regardless, if i did like a picture and a girl had a problem with it thats her problem. she can see the door. cant let a woman manipulate you into thinking you did something wrong if thats just how you move

I think that's what @cyndaquil was getting at, if I'm not mistaken

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

Important context

I'm 34, single, jobless, and always alone.​

Also peeps who comes in at 0:05 mark

I'm Incompatible With My Own Type​

I clicked to get some funny stories but instead got this chick.

She says all the buzzwords but it's clear to me that she's crazy.

Some of you will break the video down with fancy words and precision. This chick is crazy. And not in a crazy woman, crazy sex kinda way either

 

[cyndaquil]

The New Infidelity

Micro-cheating includes all sorts of internet behavior that, to many people, might just seem innocent.

www.theatlantic.com

As with plain old infidelity, micro-cheating is tricky to define; behavior that is fair game to one person might be egregious treachery to another. Many people have attempted to catalog it anyway. According to a number of lifestyle publications, a micro-cheater could be someone who, while in a relationship, maintains an active Hinge profile or sends explicit pictures to another person. Or they could have done something that might otherwise seem banal: “liking” someone else’s Instagram post, perhaps, or messaging a colleague about something other than work. In a Vogue article advising readers on how to properly recognize a micro-cheater, a couples therapist concluded that micro-cheating could be anything, rea

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