Real Talk, a lot of the Oldheads are responsible for the misguidance of the Young simping Generation

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Maybe......there is another way to overcome that. The "natural" role is all mental and require technique.
no it's two ways to some puzzy

her sexual attraction to you(biologically determined)

or some other value you present(determined by factors outside sexual attraction)

the issue is individuals not being able to understand or accept that their is no way around biology

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no it's two ways to some puzzy

her sexual attraction to you(biologically determined)

or some other value you present(determined by factors outside sexual attraction)

the issue is individuals not being able to understand or accept that their is no way around biology

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If you willing to learn something new and constructive, there is always a way. Stagnation happens only when you allow it to be.
 

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OP makes a good point. I struggled for years, because so many old heads would see me wandering lost and would offer barely any advice

I agree that they saw me as potential competition

now though, I try to pay it forward, I freely give out advice. I even thought about teaching a class, cause so many are lost :snoop:

and not even saying my game is all that, but I do okay :yeshrug:

I thought that all the new stuff I learn the last several years, I thought that I was behind. Until I see a ton of young dudes struggle to even hold a convo that last 2 responses. Then I was like :ohhh:

Me, I always aim high and want the best quality in everything, just that I actually forgot about what other dudes do until I went out at this place this past Saturday night, and seeing how mad dudes stumble with talking to broads :snoop:

I got the birthday girl number, went out with her last night, and got some top. Then I realize that when I stopped taking life so seriously and actually had fun communicating with women through heightened emotions, everything fell into place. A lot of dudes without guidance don't have that luxury of effective communication with broads, body language, and making her win you over.
 

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you believe a woman s sexual attraction can be negotiated¿*

Hell no, attraction ain't even a damn choice. There are ways men who have guidance can IMPROVE on that. Working out, smelling better with cologne (women are keen to all 6 senses), more effective communication, subtle keys and so on.
 

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I know the-coli hate E-40 but this shyt dropped when I was in high school:flabbynsick:

This shyt was our anthem...To the point where the hook came outta nowhere in the hallways. Couldnt even offer a bytch with dragon breath a stick of gum.



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If you talking real old heads, the men didn't simp because women had a lot less options.

In the 60's and 70's, a dude with his sh*t together (car, house, good job), was gonna have women showing interest left and right.

Nowadays, women got that same sh*t, and a lot of brehs like that get looked over by women of a reasonable weight/attractiveness.
 

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Hell no, attraction ain't even a damn choice. There are ways men who have guidance can IMPROVE on that. Working out, smelling better with cologne (women are keen to all 6 senses), more effective communication, subtle keys and so on.
and when all the advice fails that's why motherfukkers lose their minds

i am all for improving yourself yes be your best

still understand not everyone was born for the same roles


sexual attraction cannot be negotiated

yes you can become more entertaining and have more resources to offer

but what is killing a lot of goofy motherfukkers is something they cannot control

thinking oh i just gotta be more confident/charming/entertaining

oh i just gotta lift more weights

oh i just gotta get more money

and then the broads they chasing after still ain't giving them the reaction they want

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Black males got removed from the family at over a 70% rate:yeshrug:
 

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and when all the advice fails that's why motherfukkers lose their minds

i am all for improving yourself yes be your best

still understand not everyone was born for the same roles


sexual attraction cannot be negotiated

yes you can become more entertaining and have more resources to offer

but what is killing a lot of goofy motherfukkers is something they cannot control

thinking oh i just gotta be more confident/charming/entertaining

oh i just gotta lift more weights

oh i just gotta get more money

and then the broads they chasing after still ain't giving them the reaction they want

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Its the mindset and what you do to build yourself as a person. Reinvent yourself and improve yourself. As long as there is progress, positive things do happen.

Like you go to the 10th year High school reunion, and you did a total 180 on your appearance, way of thinking (confidence is a part of it), your words out your mouth, what you accomplished etc. and you see a particular set of broads that weren't feeling you, suddenly go :ohhh: at your change, you have a shot cause you broke the pattern of predictability.

Key is, reinvent yourself constantly and never be predictable. Even the most jaded person will question you at some point. Just don't back down, give vague answers, and remain a mystery. People are attracted to a mystery that is entertaining and that has ambition. Never let your past or societal labels predict your future.
 

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Its the mindset and what you do to build yourself as a person. Reinvent yourself and improve yourself. As long as there is progress, positive things do happen.

Like you go to the 10th year High school reunion, and you did a total 180 on your appearance, way of thinking (confidence is a part of it), your words out your mouth, what you accomplished etc. and you see a particular set of broads that weren't feeling you, suddenly go :ohhh: at your change, you have a shot cause you broke the pattern of predictability.

Key is, reinvent yourself constantly and never be predictable. Even the most jaded person will question you at some point. Just don't back down, give vague answers, and remain a mystery. People are attracted to a mystery that is entertaining and that has ambition. Never let your past or societal labels predict your future.
iight bro just know denying that there is a wall doesn't change what happens when you drive into it*
 

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Excluding the household I came up in (mother and father) i didn't receive no "game" from the oldhead nikkaz I grew up around.

I grew up around a lot of old idiots and a few oldhead real ones. I can honestly say that both had an influence on me but as far as "game" with women? :childplease: na..


Idk how y'all came up but I dont remember nobody sitting me down telling me "okay this is how you deal with/ get bytches"

That sorta thing i kinda learned on my own. :francis:

The hard way :snoop:
 

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So what is your solution to OVERCOMING it?
learn to accept it

yes max out your potential

but just know different females have different things prioritized

sometimes it's a high value on emotional support

sometimes it's a high value on entertainment provided

sometimes it's status

sometimes it's $$$$$$

it comes in different ratios

but what fukks with dudes heads is sexual attraction

you can't really do shyt about that

you cannot negotiate or purchase sexual attraction

understand it and then try to quit caring

also just accept that you gotta work ya ass off for what the individuals she finds sexually attractive don't

it's all give & take trading value for value

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