"Seeing me be loved out loud by a white man as a DSBW resonates with my community; it heals the world."

[Gloxina]

One very interesting thing I noticed itt is that there's no push back. We all agree she's a c00n. Both American and foreign bm all on code, right? We done got to the point itt where we reached a consensus on pg 1 and are now just talking about the wider issue.

Now lets see what they do for the next African bedwench. Foreign bm protect the hell out of theirs and, here go FBA men, can't wait to throw us under the bus in front of the same outsiders that don't think we deserve reparations. Shyt is both funny and sad.

See yall in the next pro FBA thread tho.

Chiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiile



I got nothing to add

 

[Eternally Jaded]

Damn

I didnt feel any way about her cause I dont watch the show and only knew about her from social media

But this is some STRAIGHT C00N shyt

Being loved publicly as a dark skin woman is great, but tying it to him being a white man reeks of desperation for white acceptance

Out here looking PATHETIC.

Absolutely awful look for the sistren.

If I was a browner sister I'd be tight at the implications.

 

[HarlemHottie]

You might got a point on the Sm thing. I don't know if it would better if I beleived that Black women just didn't engage in IR. Even though when I went to the only mixed high school in DC there were two Black girls way into New Kids on the Block.

Every chick I knew listened to New Edition.

My algorithm is totally different than yours, I suspect. The only women I got are either gardening, sewing. talking about hair, or talking about history/ religion/ current events with their heads covered. The gardening and sewing girls are hit or miss, but I unsub if I see a wm or mixed kids.

You don't think high schoolers listen to the same music as their friends? My music collection in hs was very eclectic. I liked white bytches who could sing so I had the og Celine Dion and Shania Twain. I had both the Clueless and Grease soundtracks. (My roomie loved Le Mis, so I know all that shyt too.) I liked rap and spoke french, so I listened to Les Nubiennes. I still had, and rocked out to, Motown's greatest hits compilations, Mary and Jodeci, Wu Tang and Big and Pun, etc, Did you talk to them enough to know if they listened to anything else?

But c'mon I worked at a underground club at 19 and they way I talk it seems like I beleive all girls are like that (even though I don't)

I'ma keep it a bean. I think that your vast and varied life experiences gave you a poor opinion of the women most likely to be exploited the worst and/ or the most desperate for that bread (hint: the very same women who have always been in that position in this country and had to do what they had to do, selling cat, whatever).

When we were still speaking, I told the stripper the same shyt about her opinion on bm. You can't have that experience and come out unscathed. Its a seedy world where you see the worst of ppl on a daily, just at the job on a Thursday. That has to have long term consequences on how you see the world.

RIP to your cousin, breh.

 

[Piff Perkins]

Embarrassing.

There is a very large contingent of women whose mental health, self confidence and self worth are heavily based on their sexual access to others - in this case particular, white men. A few days ago we witnessed meltdowns online from two groups: lesbians who were upset Taylor is marrying a man, and black women who were upset that a white man (Kelce) is marrying a white woman. Both groups spent weirdly unhealthy amounts of time living within a delusional alternative reality based entirely on sex. Those who think Taylor Swift is secretly gay, and those who think any high profile white man who dates a black woman is a civil rights leader comparable to MLK - until he dares date a white woman, at which point he is a traitor.

If these were simply personal failures on the part of these people, we could ignore it or be entertained by it. But this nonsense has real world consequences. The obsession with white men, the insane idea that only black men practice colorism against black women...these are all perceived sins that black boys and men are collectively punished for when these women get into academia. Or HR departments. Or law enforcement. Or healthcare. Meanwhile it doesn't matter how many white men reject these types of women - they will always give white men a last chance, hoping that someday their prince will come.

One final thing...this is NOT black women exclusive. Listen to how these weird race/gender grad student chicks talk. Whether they are Indian, Asian, Arab...there's a common theme of them rejecting their men and obsessing over white men. They assume the worst of their race's men while giving every benefit of the doubt to white men. Never forget this dynamic. Every non-white ethnic group of men is dealing with this poison in America.

 

[Sk3ptical]

Black women and their low self-esteem

 

[HarlemHottie]

Why do you feel like they’re (or we) throwing y’all under the bus?

Because the foreigners on here defend their c00ns regardless. Yes, the issue should be discussed. No, not in mixed company. Would you say all this in an explicitly white space? No, right?

This, btw, is how African women got in our ear about colorism. It was always an issue percolating in the background, ofc, but the post 2000 explosion is externally derived, mostly bc the foreign girls felt some type of way about not being chosen by FBA men. So they started a conveniently vague movement to mobilize us against them. Yall might think it worked from your side, but those articles and think pieces done died down, ain't they? Try that shyt now that we (trynna get) on code.

I also think that a good proportion of passport bros are comfortable hopping from country to country bc that's what they were doing anyway. The only one I ever knew irl was a swagless Jamaican who chased bk badgyals until they wore his ass out.

 

[HarlemHottie]

One final thing...this is NOT black women exclusive. Listen to how these weird race/gender grad student chicks talk. Whether they are Indian, Asian, Arab...there's a common theme of them rejecting their men and obsessing over white men. They assume the worst of their race's men while giving every benefit of the doubt to white men. Never forget this dynamic. Every non-white ethnic group of men is dealing with this poison in America.

It's the result of assimilation into a white supremacist world/ economy.

 

[King_Kamala61]

Bet you she loves Jesus with all her heart too...you can look at her and tell she a Jesus freak

 

[BruhManFromTheFifthFlo]

Yet a nikka can’t pawg in peace

 

[Soda Papi]

Of course this shyt is a day 1 plat

0 clicks from me regardless tho. I don’t have any respect or empathy for bucks and wenches.

 

[Wandissimo]

Because the foreigners on here defend their c00ns regardless. Yes, the issue should be discussed. No, not in mixed company. Would you say all this in an explicitly white space? No, right?

This, btw, is how African women got in our ear about colorism. It was always an issue percolating in the background, ofc, but the post 2000 explosion is externally derived, mostly bc the foreign girls felt some type of way about not being chosen by FBA men. So they started a conveniently vague movement to mobilize us against them. Yall might think it worked from your side, but those articles and think pieces done died down, ain't they? Try that shyt now that we (trynna get) on code.

I also think that a good proportion of passport bros are comfortable hopping from country to country bc that's what they were doing anyway. The only one I ever knew irl was a swagless Jamaican who chased bk badgyals until they wore his ass out.

I get what you’re saying, but this is damn near the only (mostly) black site on the internet. And I think the problem is actually there are hella BW nowadays that does what ol girl in the OP just did on camera/Social Media ie in white spaces and the clips/posts go extremely viral; to the point where it’s even getting called out by White People. Like it’s one thing to like what you like, but it’s a way you go about it without it giving other ppl from your race Second hand embarrassment.

 

[010101]

black women still got a little school girl emotional wound over something that's much heavier

it's a crazy position to be chasing after a small group of men(euro/non.black) that own & operate all the means to living the lifestyle you aspire to

but that same group is super tight about investing no resources in black women

they fukk with women like olandria the blacker the better because these women have the least security these women are the most desperate for a lotto ticket

to the point they will play a losing gamble fukking with men who they know intend to violate

but women will keep gambling for the chance to hit that fairytale payout

all bound up by economic determinism

also notice she is the main one narrating the relationship painting it romantically

that palebone nikka is just taking the free promo & dealing with some disposable p*ssy

he hasn't done anything to elevate her & bet money he never will

*

 

[Umoja]

 

[Gloxina]

Damn these phones.

I open YT and this is the first “short” that pops up lmao

 

[KidJSoul]

@Gloxina @HarlemHottie

yall had to change the subject bringing up how BM dont protect BW didnt ya

Anything to admit she's craving white men

When black men crave white women, what are they victims of? Please explain