Since gender roles are reserving anyway. Wouldn't it make sense for women to approach men?

[William F. Russell]

I think either party should approach if they feel like. I do understand gender dynamics have evolved with feminism and women evolving in the workforce and doing their thang. Nowadays, heterosexual women don't even need a man to survive...only if they want sex or to reproduce. But I think a man should still be what's considered a "real man" by society. Both men and women can be good and effective leaders...but a man should take lead when necessary and at the right time. If a man have a convo with a female and there is obvious attraction there and he wants to pursue the female....he should be brave enough to ask her for her number or whatever. A female can ask too but the man should not be too scared...being there is obvious chemistry. I think females should make themselves more approachable if they are into the men approaching. Also a man should protect his woman and the woman should be the backbone of her man and look out for him.

I have mentioned on here that females have more privileges than men but real talk...evolving generations and feminism have caused some confusion with gender roles and its affecting each generation more and more. We had similar topics on here before about this and I think its good seeing how things have changed since my parents and grandparents generations.

2nd and 3rd wave feminism was the worst thing to happen to black women in the last 60 years.

 

[Lo-Co]

Many women do approach men though.

A signal for bettering myself.

 

[Neuromancer]

You cannot have life without death.

Ashe.

Word to the Black Order

 

[Prince Mongo]

It is dependent on the individual. Some might takeit and learn from it, others become Elliot Rogers.

People don't become Elliot Rogers because of rejection, that's kinda short-sighted. Elliot Rogers, had he had a typically functioning mind, would've been able to at least fukk something. Dude came from money, he rode around campus fresh af, but that didn't give him the social skills necessary to succeed in most aspects of life, including, but not limited to women

Conversely, there's girls who have the entire world handed to them, and have been told they're beautiful daily, since the day they were born. They see themselves similarly to Elliot Rogers, in that they feel entitled to the opposite sex because of what they have. Rogers felt he was owed women, and that they should approach him because he was a rich white boy. Some women think they are owed men, and can't fathom not being found attractive

The difference between Rogers and a pretty, spoiled girl is that the girl will have nikkas approach her regardless. Rogers shot up that school because he couldn't understand why women wouldn't come to him, amongst other personality issues

 

[William F. Russell]

Many women do approach men though.

Lies.

 

[Larry Lambo]

Would it really make a difference, tho?

Women doing the approaching doesn't change men's desire to sleep with multiple women, and their willingness to have very lenient criteria to accomplish that goal.

The reason that a woman approaching men comes off as desperate it's because it's perceived as "thirsty" for them to be that proactive in taking advantage of a dynamic that favors them anyway. It's like walking up to the waiter and getting your food at a sit down restaurant.

 

[Weaver31]

2nd and 3rd wave feminism was the worst thing to happen to black women in the last 60 years.

I donno about worst thing but it had some definite effects on our community...and not all were good.

 

[Boujee Bonita Braxton]

yeah but how do u expect to get the man that u want? what if hes too shy or traumatized from his past rejections?

Honestly...

Any man that I WANT will be confident enough to approach me.



Especially if I've been flirting already or giving him that eye.

I'm good with the eye.

 

[Prince Mongo]

Elaborate.

Everybody doesn't deal with rejection. Pretty, spoiled girls don't get rejected by anything in life. Some people are so fukked off in life that it could seem that God himself rejected them

 

[BroolStories]

Why would you want this to happen? It wouldn't even affect the average dude.

All you'd see is a crowd of women vying for the attention of one or two dudes per the 80/20 rule.

 

[Wiles]

If I'm going to act like the man, then I'm going to make you my bytch.

Then get back in the kitchen

 

[Ashley Banks]

I would never approach a man. idc how interested I was in him.

If men didn't approach me, I'd just stay single. no big deal. lol

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Even if they do the approaching that doesn't mean they will be approaching you.

 

[the cac mamba]

Honestly...

Any man that I WANT will be confident enough to approach me.



Especially if I've been flirting already or giving him that eye.

I'm good with the eye.

men do the approaching, that's how it is

and not like im some mack motherfukker myself but this "why dont women approach " ive seen lately is :huhldby:

 

[Aphrodite]

Even if they do the approaching that doesn't mean they will be approaching you.

Right. That's what they are missing.