A nerdy Trina? if you find her, marry her.
Every girl has the ability to be that nerdy Trina. You can too. I really want an introverted woman that hates going out as my long term mate.
A nerdy Trina? if you find her, marry her.
ESSENCE.COM: Do you feel Black women and men are too particular when it comes to potential dating candidates?
FISHER: We found that as opposed to the White clients that we’ve had, Black women are usually looking for physical attributes first. We look for someone who is attractive to us and then we pick up on his hobbies, interests and values. Whereas, White clients are looking for the reverse first. What kind of job does he have? Is he going to be able to provide?Then they circle back.
GILMORE: We’re the first ones to look at men's bodies and how attractive they are whereas our White clients have a long list of requirements of things like character and integrity...
FISHER: ...and, then down the line, it backfires for us because you were never a compatible mix to start with.
ESSENCE.COM: Do Black women have realistic dating pool expectations?
GILMORE: We have clients that have a long laundry list of requirements—6 foot 4, with a Ph.D., never been married, no children, in his late 30s or early 40s—and a lot of times we then ask them, well, what are you bringing to the table? And, the answer is nowhere near all that. Why would you expect someone to have more than what you’re offering?
Some men think the same. shyt, read this site. "I have a degree, make money, my own place and car but all these HOES and THOTS do is date thugs. No one wants a NICE GUY".
It's not just women who think their material possessions entitle them to someone "attractive".
I wonder if they know how unattractive and desperate they look on this panels and articles saying they can't find a man.
I'm sure every races of woman have dating problems, but sistas are the only one publicly announcing their thirst and desperation. Not a Good Look At All.![]()
So many #HOH threads on this site. If only these dudes put as much energy into, and cared as much about, their relationships with women as they do their "boys"
things would be a lot better. You have dudes still traveling in squads well into their late twenties/early thirties. Dudes still unable to make important relationship
decisions without talking to their "boys" first. shyt is fukking pathetic. You shouldn't even have friends after a certain age. Your entire focus should be on your home
life, and your work life. But these "boys" never want to man the fukk up. That Peter Pan Syndrome is real, unfortunately.
You know what that initial article didn't say? A bunch of family first, 'do nearly anything to take care of my man' women can't find someone to settle with. It's the same archetype over and over who can't find a man to settle with, aka the career first, highly successful, 10,000 degree type of woman who spent her 20s 'having her fun' and the rest of that time at work.
Men don't really care about a woman's financial prospects like that. As long as she an reasonably support herself, that's fine enough for the man. A man would much rather take the woman that puts him above her career and makes less than the balling out of control woman who he rarely sees because she's at work 95% of the time and out partying with the girls on the weekend.
To be honest the women they described who felt like the everyday hardworking men are inferior to them and then they feel inferior to some men need to sit down and reevaluate their lives. They should not be in a relationship with any man, because it will be pure hell to be with someone who feels as if you are inferior to them. They need to ask themselves if they are a great catch themselves.![]()
What are you doing this NYE?
I just got a new car (totalled my old one)
I'll come pick you up and take you to my place
We can make love on a pile of my money
When I serve you breakfast, you can use my college diploma as a tablecloth
If you reject me, you have thot tendencies and are only attracted to thugs![]()
Bait thread I'm out...
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Men don't care about a woman's financial prospects because traditionally the man is the (financial) provider.