So fellas, the ladies wondering why ya'll aren't settling down for them. -Essence Mag

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Everybody always tries to make this discussion more complicated than it really is.

If you are a woman and you are not married yet it is because you are just not wife material. Simple.

Great wife material women don't just get passed up on. That's like saying there is a basketball player in the league that is 10x better than Michael Jordan ever was, but teams just keep passing on him for absolutely no logical reason. It doesn't happen. So all these delusional women keep blaming men for this when they refuse to look at themselves. Being classy and educated doesn't automatically equate to a good woman. My older cousin, shes a top lawyer at her firm she's educated obviously, doesn't go out too much. Isn't showing ass and isn't all over the gram, but she isn't homely at all. Can't cook well and would rather hire somebody to clean. She's just not a "Hold the fort down" kind of woman. And she wonders why a man hasn't proposed yet.

Men are expected in society to be the breadwinners and be highly educated and all that other stuff. We need somebody to fill our gaps not bring the same thing we already have.
If we have built a house and a woman comes by and says "Well look at me I built a house on my own" and another woman comes buy and says "I love your house I have all this furniture." Guess who is getting the ring?

That analogy... :banderas:
 

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It's pretty hard to find someone in the netflix and chill phase.
The talk online for a day and meet up phase.
The she can pay for her own shyt phase.
The I want to do the least as possible phase.


Should I go on?:stopitslime:

There are too many simps walking around for a woman to only be getting Netflix and Chill offers. If that's all a woman is getting then she's probably going after guys above her level.
 

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I wish you could talk some sense into my sister.

The fukk a doctor with her own clinic doing with a dog trainer cac making 50k a year? :mindblown:

And she doesn't even like dogs :damn:

She's not with him anymore, but the fact that she ever even dated him saddens my heart :mjcry:
He planted his Swedish flag in her vagina. Some fukking French b*stard did my son's mother in. 2015 has been bad and good to me.:mjcry:
 

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It's pretty hard to find someone in the netflix and chill phase.
The talk online for a day and meet up phase.
The she can pay for her own shyt phase.
The I want to do the least as possible phase.


Should I go on?:stopitslime:

No need.

Anyone having trouble attracting good members of the opposite sex needs to stop looking outward and take a look inside.
If you are truly the catch you think you are, you would have been picked up by now.
 
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ESSENCE.COM: Do Black women have realistic dating pool expectations?
GILMORE:
We have clients that have a long laundry list of requirements—6 foot 4, with a Ph.D., never been married, no children, in his late 30s or early 40s—and a lot of times we then ask them, well, what are you bringing to the table? And, the answer is nowhere near all that. Why would you expect someone to have more than what you’re offering?
:mjlol:!

Its crazy,there is still a ton of women who still think 6'4 or higher is normal..

average US male height (any race) is between 5'8 to 6'0.

and even 6'0 is slightly pushing it.
 

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Traditionally a woman is only supposed to bring a healthy body to the table..the rest is up to the man to provide. Times have changed though.

A lot of women need to get to grips with the fact they won't find a husband easily after 26..Yet they practically live in the club wasting precious time they'll never recover.

I also notice these women think they can build a viable future with a man who picked them up at a bar/lounge or some club..they think a fun place is a great place to meet a fun outgoing man. That's these women's primary fundamental problem..they put 'fun' as a priority over 'seriousness'..
Women take themselves out the game before it even starts. A man will side eye a woman he met at a 'fun' place thinking she has a realistic shot with him.
 
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Even worse, if these women grew up on 90s and early 00s rap music, their ideal man is some Tupac dude with Puffy money. That hypermasculine and swag shyt is killing hopes of a husband for them. The media plays a large part of it, but many people on here are not ready for that conversation. :mjpls:

They need fathers that care for them.
:jbhmm:......:ehh:
 

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:mjlol:!

Its crazy,there is still a ton of women who still think 6'4 or higher is normal..

average US male height (any race) is between 5'8 to 6'0.

and even 6'0 is slightly pushing it.

The funny thing about it is its rarely relative. I get a 5'10-5'11 girl wanting a 6'3 6'4 guy.
But when a 5'3 girl is making that a priority, I cant help but :mjlol:.
 

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A woman getting a man a gift (out of concern or love) just because is signs of a strong potential life long partner. Especially in this day and age.

@Fonsworth @The Wave yall might want to invest:wow:


The 3 of yall made my heart smile with posts appreciating the small thoughtful things.

Lucky ladies that yall have
:yes:
 
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