So fellas, the ladies wondering why ya'll aren't settling down for them. -Essence Mag

[EndDomination]

This article reinforces a lot of what is said on here
A woman should look for equal, otherwise there's no point in complaining.
If you're not in shape, don't look for a guy who is in shape.
If you're not tall, don't look for a guy who's tall.
If you aren't highly educated, don't look for a man who is highly educated.
If you've got kids, don't look for a man without kids.
If you don't make six figures, don't look for a man who makes six figures.
Problem solved.

 

[EndDomination]

They could have a PhD in Biology and it wouldn't make a difference. A woman's degree don't mean shyt when it comes to being in a relationship.

It shows she's smart and has ambition, therefore she should go after men who are smart with ambition and specific interests.
A woman's degree has a lot to do with her career, her circle of friends, and likely what she's interested in.
I'd take the PhD in Biology woman 10/10 over the high school dropout WalMart greeter any day.

 

[EndDomination]

Nobody cares about your degrees if you look like Sherri Shepherd

Sherri Shepherd could've gotten the D in her 30s

 

[BruhManFromTheFifthFlo]

I see black women still on this shyt

 

[EndDomination]

this is what feminism has done to women.

pre-WWII, women had no problems finding a man to marry. Now, more and more men are hitting em with a combo of when it comes to relationships and marriage because of how warped the modern woman has become. They have lost all their roots and natural order.

i also hate these types of articles because it always skews in favour of women. Its always about the men and what they have to offer or what they lack. But rarely do i see these shyts question women and ask if they are worthy enough for men to marry?

instead blaming black men for your problems, which is easy and anyone can do, why don't they look hard at themselves first?

This was an article about Black women dating, in a Black woman's magazine.
If you want articles about dating and marriage I'm sure there are some in GQ, Maxim, or Esquire

 

[Wild self]

I don't think it's that deep.

Breh, it is

That's why they never found that special man they looking for.

 

[Wild self]

@ Pac/Puffy/Jordan hybrid!

That nikka is makin' power moves by day and bussin' his guns in the streets by night Monday-Friday.

And he has the physique and skill to drop 50 on nikkas on any given Saturday in the gym or on the streetball court.

On Sunday, he cleans up and goes to church with her.

That sounds like a damn superhero.

A real superhero don't do selfish and/or demonic stuff.

They want a man that exist in a damn videogame.

 

[EndDomination]

Everybody always tries to make this discussion more complicated than it really is.

If you are a woman and you are not married yet it is because you are just not wife material. Simple.

Great wife material women don't just get passed up on. That's like saying there is a basketball player in the league that is 10x better than Michael Jordan ever was, but teams just keep passing on him for absolutely no logical reason. It doesn't happen. So all these delusional women keep blaming men for this when they refuse to look at themselves. Being classy and educated doesn't automatically equate to a good woman. My older cousin, shes a top lawyer at her firm she's educated obviously, doesn't go out too much. Isn't showing ass and isn't all over the gram, but she isn't homely at all. Can't cook well and would rather hire somebody to clean. She's just not a "Hold the fort down" kind of woman. And she wonders why a man hasn't proposed yet.

Men are expected in society to be the breadwinners and be highly educated and all that other stuff. We need somebody to fill our gaps not bring the same thing we already have.
If we have built a house and a woman comes by and says "Well look at me I built a house on my own" and another woman comes buy and says "I love your house I have all this furniture." Guess who is getting the ring?

What's her number?

 

[iBrowse]

No need.

Anyone having trouble attracting good members of the opposite sex needs to stop looking outward and take a look inside.
If you are truly the catch you think you are, you would have been picked up by now.

Fax

 

[iBrowse]

The 3 of yall made my heart smile with posts appreciating the small thoughtful things.

Lucky ladies that yall have

:totheeastside:

 

[iBrowse]

fixed

I'm going out with her and her girlfriends to smoke tomorrow. I'll let you know if there are any vacancies

 

[JT-Money]

I noticed the differing mindset when I hit college..sure, we were all clubbing hard but I noticed the cave bytches did more broad activities and had greater priorities than who the Dj at club x would be on friday.
I also noticed the caves were under pressure to settle by age 23 cause though ditzy, they knew they'd age fast and competition was tight and they had to secure a man before graduating. the black girls were all career this and that and marriage finally down the line. The black girls were very nonchalant and taking shyt lightly as if they'd be hot forever whereas the white girls knew something they didn't.

I can't recall the last time a single woman invited me to her spot for a home cooked meal rather than dining out or calling in a pizza..
I've learned to appreciate the knowledge old men kick..I suggest you young women start taking lessons from grandma on how to secure and keep a man.

This one company I worked for practically 95% of all the White chicks got married soon after graduating college. Their husbands help pay that student loan debt off and buy them a home. Every last one of them followed the same exact script like clockwork.

Hardly any of the black chicks working at this place were married. They still went out and bought a fancy car and took out a mortgage but still had that huge student loan debt hanging over their heads. They even clowned some of the white girls about their husbands being lame or ugly behind their backs. Meanwhile these same black chicks would willingly be some married dudes side piece instead of settling for a lame. But they end up settling anyway once that student loan, credit card and mortgage debt gets too high.

 

[Art Barr]

There are too many simps walking around for a woman to only be getting Netflix and Chill offers. If that's all a woman is getting then she's probably going after guys above her level.

Women who are into relationships authenicste who they want by Netflix and chill.
Netflix and chill has been the only real interaction.
that has been made a mainstream ideal that showcases the sincerity of the women of the age.
to like you ferally for who you are.
The Netflix and chill women should not be dissed like how they are trying to do.
Dissing Netflix and chill as a guy or girl.
shows you either a simp who does not get laid or a gold digger.
Who realized that nineties era gold digger shyt is dead with real men now.
Only real men getting come through offers.
So, I don't know how anybody disses Netflix and chill.
If they diss Netflix and chill you know they are horrible at relationships building.
Plus out of touch with how black females who are genuine operate.
Undesirable non-commitment based females and wack beta simpified nikkaz diss Netflix.

No real nikka or real female disses Netflix and chill.
The ones with smart remarks or trying to lame out Netflix and chill are the lames and they not sexually secure and far from non-committal types.
Avoid anyone speaking negatively about Netflix and chill.

If it is a female she is a gold digger with outdated wack game.
If it is a nikka dissin Netflix and chill.
you know he ain't got laid since 1999.
Plus, no female deemed him as a potential and he dropped the ball.
When, it came Time to make a move at Netflix and chill night.


Art Barr

 

[KinksandCoils]

Yall exaggerate the whole simp thing. A lot of guys got the attitude as a savage because they are so worried about being a sucker.

There are too many simps walking around for a woman to only be getting Netflix and Chill offers. If that's all a woman is getting then she's probably going after guys above her level.

 

[KinksandCoils]

This is completely untrue. By your logic a woman who ends up with an abuser is something she deserves. Plenty of sweet, honest and loyal people can't find who they deserve to be with in this savage world. Not everything is roses and daisies Hun.

No need.

Anyone having trouble attracting good members of the opposite sex needs to stop looking outward and take a look inside.
If you are truly the catch you think you are, you would have been picked up by now.