So fellas, the ladies wondering why ya'll aren't settling down for them. -Essence Mag

[Mandarin Duck]

One bytch literally said there aren't enough good black men out there

And the Coli is CONSTANTLY saying there aren't enough good black women out there

 

[Stuntone]

Good Black Men = High Earning Black Male that will submit to her wants and ATL Housewife desires.

 

[blackestofpanthers]

And the Coli is CONSTANTLY saying there aren't enough good black women out there

Post proof or shut the fukk up

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

How about they realize that marriage isn't for everyone

Me personally, I don't see the point of marriage (not saying that I'm against it, though) at my current position in life.

 

[Draje]

I can't really disagree. It's not that women shouldn't have those standards, it's just that the power of the dating market really flips after a certain socioeconomic class is breached.

Women have much more power in the power to middle class dating market but it does a 180 when it gets past that.

 

[Stuntone]

I wonder if they know how unattractive and desperate they look on this panels and articles saying they can't find a man.




I'm sure every races of woman have dating problems, but sistas are the only one publicly announcing their thirst and desperation. Not a Good Look At All.

 

[Neil Tyson]

Not my problem. even when I turn 40 I'm wifing 25

 

[#1 pick]

You gonna take an L fukking with them chicks with degrees. They leaving college with 100k in debt

 

[MalikReloaded]

You and most people don't understand what settling is. If you desire a 6'6 engineer, but the best you've date was a fat cab driver, a fat bus driver isn't settling. That's the best you can do. These women have never had the type of men they desire.

There's no such thing as "settling" man. Either you're good enough to get what you want or you aren't. I hate that phrase man. It's just something people tell themselves to feel better about their failures.

Said in another thread....people gotta lie to themselves to feel better

 

[Stuntone]

I can't say that. I simply can't. I am from Atlanta. A lot of my female friends are single. Many I haven't spoke to in awhile since I am in a relationship but they are still single and some of their mothers still annoy me trying to hook them up with me when I told them, we aren't capable. It wasn't like they didn't have a family. They had both parents. It's not like their unattractive, most of my unattractive lady friends are married. I don't know what it is.

Those chicks just aren't as fly as the men they want, that's always the problem. They don't have want it takes to keep the man they want. No one else fault but theirs.

 

[Knuckles Red]

So many #HOH threads on this site. If only these dudes put as much energy into, and cared as much about, their relationships with women as they do their "boys"

things would be a lot better. You have dudes still traveling in squads well into their late twenties/early thirties. Dudes still unable to make important relationship

decisions without talking to their "boys" first. shyt is fukking pathetic. You shouldn't even have friends after a certain age. Your entire focus should be on your home

life, and your work life. But these "boys" never want to man the fukk up. That Peter Pan Syndrome is real, unfortunately.

 

[Neil Tyson]

So many #HOH threads on this site. If only these dudes put as much energy into, and cared as much about, their relationships with women as they do their "boys"

things would be a lot better. You have dudes still traveling in squads well into their late twenties/early thirties. Dudes still unable to make important relationship

decisions without talking to their "boys" first. shyt is fukking pathetic. You shouldn't even have friends after a certain age. Your entire focus should be on your home

life, and your work life. But these "boys" never want to man the fukk up. That Peter Pan Syndrome is real, unfortunately.

shut up you bytch ass nikka

 

[MalikReloaded]

Why wont the man 100 other women want choose me and only me

 

[Knuckles Red]

shut up you bytch ass nikka

You're from Canada. Why are you using the n-word?

 

[agnosticlady]

I'm making way too much money now to even think about marriage and risking it all. I know tons of dudes who never recovered financially after they got divorced. And the guys I know that are still married are deep in debt trying to maintain a certain lifestyle due to their wives spending habits. These dudes are gonna work themselves into an early grave just so their wives can live off both their retirement savings.
F^ck that shyt.

Can you please elaborate on the maintaining a certain lifestyle? I agree, but I want to understand what you are seeing.