Why wont the man 100 other women want choose me and only me
"Bu but but I have a fatter butt and better weave with my b women's studies degree"
So fellas, the ladies wondering why ya'll aren't settling down for them. -Essence Mag
"Bu but but I have a fatter butt and better weave with my b women's studies degree"
I just want a darker-skinned Taylor Rooks lookalike with a PhD in chemical engineering, domestic and maternal skills and a net-worth of 10 million to fall madly in love with me and I'll hold out hope until I'm 40
You back
In all fairness, I hate to judge but if you weren't such a man-whore, your opinion would have a lot more pull. There is a reason why brehs generally hate @Matt504 because he genuinely has women's best interest at heart even when his opinion can be deadass wrong. You just want to sex a lot of women and do really crazy freaky nasty stuff to them. You are a part of the problem to a degree.
I agree, when I was single as well as my friends, there weren't a lot of marriage ready women. That's why I try my best to get them ready for a man as a friend because there is a right way and a wrong way and a lot of women don't know or want to know the right way.
Honestly, I can't vouch for these women haters #HOH or women lovers @Knuckles Red and @Matt504 because at the end of the day. Are you wifing up a lady as of real now. 99% of the time, neither of these types are committing to women so their opinion is null void to me to a small degree. With that said, all men and women should be able to share their opinions freely especially on this subject as it effects all brothas and sistas.
Knuckles Red
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Didn't know that having fetishes and being for women's rights was mutually exclusive. But then again, you don't know what you're talking about. Carry on, sir.
ignorethis
RIP Fresh RIP Doe RIP Phat
You a weirdo that didn't hang out with black kids growing up, you don't get to speak on these topics.
This ain't tumblr, all black experiences aren't equal here.
Depends on the subject. If this is about women's suffrage then yes, completely different. But we are talking about settling down as Black folk. This is the part where you are one with the guys you dislike the most #HOH and #GMB
If you talk to women, they feel completely different about sex before marriage then they do about premarital children. But one can lead to the other correct?
If a woman or man never saw a good man or woman growing up then how can they choose correctly? We choose what we know. If we don't know shyt then that's what we'll choose. These past generations of black people have destroyed future generations. I see young ladies going thru the shyts with their baby daddies and same with young man and I wonder how and why they ever got with such people..cause that's all they know. We can't be saved as a race. I'm close to 40 and that's the truth. So do your best for yourself....
Knuckles Red
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I disagree. I think theres still hope. We just have to have more black dudes holding other black dudes accountable for their actions. A big part of black male privilege is having a voice that people listen to.
As men we're apart of the dominate group, when we look at the paradigm of gender, we have to kill "side chick," and "baby mama" culture. Rappers make songs about that shyt. Its not cool. We have to stop
being so interested in our own individual desires. You have to believe that it will get better, and then start making those changes to ensure that it will.
Knuckles Red
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Expand.So where is the accountability for the women?
There are a few reasons I can think of off the top of my head...
1. The ratio of men to women,women outnumber men by so much that men simply don't have to settle down there is always some freshly shaven vagina on deck which can lead to temptation.
2. Us being outnumbered leads to an imbalance in many relationships ...I don't even really have to list anymore reasons the main reason is ratio
1. The ratio of men to women,women outnumber men by so much that men simply don't have to settle down there is always some freshly shaven vagina on deck which can lead to temptation.
2. Us being outnumbered leads to an imbalance in many relationships ...I don't even really have to list anymore reasons the main reason is ratio
You said that black male privilege (
) made black dating a mess with "baby mama" and "side piece" into a normal thing, but not once.you said anything about accountability on the woman's end.
RealAssanova
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this is what feminism has done to women. 
pre-WWII, women had no problems finding a man to marry. Now, more and more men are hitting em with a combo of
when it comes to relationships and marriage because of how warped the modern woman has become. They have lost all their roots and natural order.
i also hate these types of articles because it always skews in favour of women. Its always about the men and what they have to offer or what they lack. But rarely do i see these shyts question women and ask if they are worthy enough for men to marry?
instead blaming black men for your problems, which is easy and anyone can do, why don't they look hard at themselves first?
pre-WWII, women had no problems finding a man to marry. Now, more and more men are hitting em with a combo of
when it comes to relationships and marriage because of how warped the modern woman has become. They have lost all their roots and natural order.i also hate these types of articles because it always skews in favour of women. Its always about the men and what they have to offer or what they lack. But rarely do i see these shyts question women and ask if they are worthy enough for men to marry?
instead blaming black men for your problems, which is easy and anyone can do, why don't they look hard at themselves first?
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