So fellas, the ladies wondering why ya'll aren't settling down for them. -Essence Mag

[Canon]

This is what the person you're responding to looks like.

If her recent posts are any indication, she's three to six months away from killing herself.
Every response doesn't warrant a short story bruh, and there's nothing about said posters spiel, and they're damn sure not "playing" with you.
Recognize when someone is spitting in your face.
Why some of you waste time entertaining blatant trolls is baffling.

is this exposal for real?

that bitterness makes sense now

 

[Vice Queen]

Is this shyt really that important?

 

[VFib]

That's what men are supposed to think, no?

Men are evaluated based on their social status, so things like degrees, money and cars should give them a leg up in the dating market. The problem with AA women is that they think like men.

If this is the case, then why get annoyed when AA women look for these in a potential mate?

 

[Wild self]

These are the women that spent their lives FUKKING THE DUDES they wanted to fukk (goon...baller..broke pretty n!gaga)....instead of the DUDES THEY SHOULD HAVE FUKKED (college educated...professional...morally upright..intellect)

Now they in their 30s ....not as hot looking as before...dealing with debt and bitter CAUSE THEY MADE BAD CHOICES..

And wonder why WE AINT TRYING TO WIFE THEM UP....

If you dig deep enough, you find all kinds of skeletons in their closet.

 

[Canon]

That's what men are supposed to think, no?

Men are evaluated based on their social status, so things like degrees, money and cars should give them a leg up in the dating market. The problem with AA women is that they think like men.

ive always said black women are out here competing with black men

 

[Elle Driver]

Values is fukked up and that's all it boils down to.

 

[Donald J Trump]

Every black female is not a real woman.. having a degree alone does not mean anything.

Every female does not deserve to get married either.

Tbh a good amount of females are hoes, stank, bad personality, cant sex properly, ugly, fat, smoke etc, and wonder why.



Then you legit have roughly 33% of black college females that say they want a hood nikka, which makes matters worse.


Tbh if u cant find a man with the 40 mil black people living in this country then the problem is you

 

[Gold]

I wanna call bullshyt on black women spouting this rhetoric but I cant. My own sister says this shyt EVERY TIME we get together as a family.

She's a doctor, tall and in-shape , and by no means ugly.

This is more or less the convo we had at Thanksgiving:

She's doing her usual "men ain't shyt" routine

So I say to her, "what's the most important thing to you in finding a man?"


She goes, "Lots of things are important, I can't single out a few."

She's being difficult, so I ask, "Do you have any dealbreakers?"

She immediately responds, "Gotta be 6'2 at least and make as much/more money than me"

I remind her, "I get the height requirement, you're tall, but you do realize you are a doctor with your own clinic right? How many men do you know are making roughly a quatermill a year?"

She gets defensive and says, "I worked hard as hell to get where I am (which, to her cresdit, s absolutely true). So what do I want with a man who didn't do the same?. I don't have time for a failure, I need a good man."


Instead of arguing salary ceilings for different preofessions, I hit her the KO truth. "You know what? . By your own salary restrictions and coerlating that with if a man is good or not, do you realize that not one of us (her 5 brothers) would qualify as a good man in your eyes? . Even ________ who makes more than the rest of us, still doesn't make as much as you. If you weren't in this family, you would look at every man in here as a non-viable partner even though we all pass the height requirement."


Brehs you could hear a pin drop. She laughed it off like, "Well of course there are some exceptions, I would have to get to know them."

I didn't bring up the fact that she dated a 5'7-5'8 cac who made 50k a year training dogs. I showed mercy, it was a holiday



But we are getting together for new years and watch her rehash the same shyt again like our convo never happened.


Brehs I love my sister to death but I pray for her everyday. She lawst and swirling her way down to bedwenchdom

 

[Wild self]

Some men think the same. shyt, read this site. "I have a degree, make money, my own place and car but all these HOES and THOTS do is date thugs. No one wants a NICE GUY".

It's not just women who think their material possessions entitle them to someone "attractive".

So a nice guy turns you off when he disciplined?

Sony out rather have that Tariq Nasheed breh with shady street connects and comedian typer personality?

Spoiler

 

[VFib]

So a nice guy turns you off when he disciplined?

Sony out rather have that Tariq Nasheed breh with shady street connects and comedian typer personality?

Spoiler

 

[Warren Moon]

It already has. I hate articles and premises like these because it gives black men the false impression that black women need them when in actuality they are so marginalised social financially and personally backwards that black women tend to do better on their own or they don't improve that much when married to one of them.

Black women are among the few women who is most likely to cake more than their black husbands now when you consider how finances affect a marriage what exactly do black women stand to gain?

So why when black women marry white men they make more than them as well?

 

[RAX 010]

I'm sorry but that text was vulgar and very much a turn off. Honestly I don't blame her, it seems you two are mismatched because you obviously don't want to change the behavior and filthy language. Save that shyt for the bedroom.

But i like to sexually dominate my woman im not gonna sit there and act like ima be all smooth and sh!t nah ima dominate you slay your vagina and mouth then when we finished i will kiss you on the mouth hold you ever so tenderly and continue being a provider to my family....
why am i wrong for that?

 

[Wild self]

I want my nerdy Trina that gets down with me

I ain't gonna bore you a bit.

 

[VFib]

I want my nerdy Trina that gets down with me

I ain't gonna bore you a bit.

A nerdy Trina? if you find her, marry her.

 

[J-Nice]

If this is the case, then why get annoyed when AA women look for these in a potential mate?

According to the article they don't.