Which is why marriage is plummeting and why these street harassment laws exist. it's unnatural and demonic.
So fellas, the ladies wondering why ya'll aren't settling down for them. -Essence Mag
Which is why marriage is plummeting and why these street harassment laws exist. it's unnatural and demonic.
I'm so tired of hearing this bootleg excuse. Most of us posting on this site are never going to have kids that grew up in the situations that we did, which I'm beginning to wonder if it is a good thing or bad. We mines well put Iphone and fitbits on new born's now after they are born now. Its a different generation, even the poorest of the poor families have smart phones, food, computers internet and gaming system.
Its just not the same anymore. Sure you want your kids to have the best opportunities but the problem with alot of these kids growing up now is they haven't not had and don't know what is it to not have. And alot of these stuck up early and mid 30 delusional men and women are mad because they "followed" the rules but dont seem to have what the slores and man slores have.
As black people we have it the hardest with only really about 40 years of a loosen noose to make changes and grow, but the world is so damn dysfunctional as a whole that its not looking bright even if it was completely off
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Some Of My Partners Dope Fiends Ha
most of my unattractive lady friends are married. I don't know what it is.
here's the answer
This is what the person you're responding to looks like.
Well gahdamn boy, I knew this bytch was a alopecia whale
Or were we forced into it from the start? We have been the "white mans" (america's) entertainment since we were brought over here, whether we wanted to be or not. And we are still entertaining them.
*dabs*
I wanna call bullshyt on black women spouting this rhetoric but I cant. My own sister says this shyt EVERY TIME we get together as a family.
She's a doctor, tall and in-shape , and by no means ugly.
This is more or less the convo we had at Thanksgiving:
She's doing her usual "men ain't shyt" routine
So I say to her, "what's the most important thing to you in finding a man?"
She goes, "Lots of things are important, I can't single out a few."
She's being difficult, so I ask, "Do you have any dealbreakers?"
She immediately responds, "Gotta be 6'2 at least and make as much/more money than me"
I remind her, "I get the height requirement, you're tall, but you do realize you are a doctor with your own clinic right? How many men do you know are making roughly a quatermill a year?"
She gets defensive and says, "I worked hard as hell to get where I am (which, to her cresdit, s absolutely true). So what do I want with a man who didn't do the same?. I don't have time for a failure, I need a good man."
Instead of arguing salary ceilings for different preofessions, I hit her the KO truth. "You know what?. By your own salary restrictions and coerlating that with if a man is good or not, do you realize that not one of us (her 5 brothers) would qualify as a good man in your eyes?
. Even ________ who makes more than the rest of us, still doesn't make as much as you. If you weren't in this family, you would look at every man in here as a non-viable partner even though we all pass the height requirement
."
Brehs you could hear a pin drop. She laughed it off like, "Well of course there are some exceptions, I would have to get to know them."
I didn't bring up the fact that she dated a 5'7-5'8 cac who made 50k a year training dogs. I showed mercy, it was a holiday
But we are getting together for new years and watch her rehash the same shyt again like our convo never happened.
Brehs I love my sister to death but I pray for her everyday. She lawst and swirling her way down to bedwenchdom
Show no mercy, breh. Your sister is a bedwench. Put her in her place. How did you all allow her to turn out that way?
Now that's good but via text is nuh uh because I can see where she's coming from.
I wanna call bullshyt on black women spouting this rhetoric but I cant. My own sister says this shyt EVERY TIME we get together as a family.
She's a doctor, tall and in-shape , and by no means ugly.
This is more or less the convo we had at Thanksgiving:
She's doing her usual "men ain't shyt" routine
So I say to her, "what's the most important thing to you in finding a man?"
She goes, "Lots of things are important, I can't single out a few."
She's being difficult, so I ask, "Do you have any dealbreakers?"
She immediately responds, "Gotta be 6'2 at least and make as much/more money than me
I remind her, "I get the height requirement, you're tall, but you do realize you are a doctor with your own clinic right? How many men do you know are making roughly a quatermill a year?"
She gets defensive and says, "I worked hard as hell to get where I am (which, to her cresdit, s absolutely true). So what do I want with a man who didn't do the same?
Instead of arguing salary ceilings for different preofessions, I hit her the KO truth. "You know what?
Brehs you could hear a pin drop. She laughed it off like, "Well of course there are some exceptions, I would have to get to know them."
I didn't bring up the fact that she dated a 5'7-5'8 cac who made 50k a year training dogs. I showed mercy, it was a holiday
But we are getting together for new years and watch her rehash the same shyt again like our convo never happened.
Brehs I love my sister to death but I pray for her everyday. She lawst and swirling her way down to bedwenchdom
Bruh this post resonated with me
Quality post I've listen to the same conversation from so many black successful females. I really really really dont want to agree with the OP but man its just the way it is in MY experiences. I've also seen the ones that made the exceptions and it was almost entirely because they were sexually attracted to the guy. ( I've been that dude too
) Of course nothing is 100 percent... But over all as black man who has been surrounded by black men and women all his life and living in southern Louisiana where the the city I stay in is 58 percent black and the city of new orleans thats less than 70 miles away is/was 60 percent black. Growing up less than 2 miles from southern university and frequenting the campus I've heard what you described and then some all my life. So I can't even call the article BS or a stretch its not..And I have no idea why
Breh most of all these women think like that.....Materialism is sewed in the fabric of the minds of our people.....that's going to be the problem for natural bonding for male and females until we cease that mentality..........
Show no mercy, breh. Your sister is a bedwench. Put her in her place. How did you all allow her to turn out that way?
I honestly don't know. She had him meet us an FC Dallas game. She never once told us he was white.
So when the 6 of us (5 brothers and my oldest brother's wife) see this manlet cac pull up beside my sister we all did the
face.Breh I dunno where we went wrong. I feel like this is new... but if I think about it, she was always a little
.I just thought she would grow out of it
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This article does a great job of reinforcing several pervasive stereotypes about black women:
- black women are overly selective yet under qualified
- black women are gold diggers
- black women are shallow
Makes you wonder what the real objective is. I mean, this article ethered black women in its tone.
Anyway, this applies to women across the board. Some women are just crazy with their standards when it comes to who they will date. Knowing damn well that the dude they say they want is beyond them and probably wouldn't date them anyway. Yea, they'd f#ck but date is too strong of a word for the kind of relationship a rich, in shape, handsome man would have with them.
In my experience dating black women who would qualify as educated with middle class standing, most do not fall into the type of mindset described in this article. Most are looking for a man that is simply around their level....stable job, lives on their own, etc.
But those that are delusional enough to espouse this kind of nonsense deserve whatever hell they experience in the dating game. Women who solely look at a man's height or salary or bone structure deserve to be f#cked and chucked....played and placated....used and abused. These kinds of women deserve the cold, lonely beds that await them every night well into their middle years.
They deserve the anguish of attending wedding after wedding of their friends and family who "have less going on." They deserve to feel that burn in their chest at every Thanksgiving as more and more people show up with someone on their arm while they pretend it's their high standards alone that keep them single....all the while knowing that their standards stopped being the reason 10 years ago.
Shallow people get shallow results.
Peace
- black women are overly selective yet under qualified
- black women are gold diggers
- black women are shallow
Makes you wonder what the real objective is. I mean, this article ethered black women in its tone.
Anyway, this applies to women across the board. Some women are just crazy with their standards when it comes to who they will date. Knowing damn well that the dude they say they want is beyond them and probably wouldn't date them anyway. Yea, they'd f#ck but date is too strong of a word for the kind of relationship a rich, in shape, handsome man would have with them.
In my experience dating black women who would qualify as educated with middle class standing, most do not fall into the type of mindset described in this article. Most are looking for a man that is simply around their level....stable job, lives on their own, etc.
But those that are delusional enough to espouse this kind of nonsense deserve whatever hell they experience in the dating game. Women who solely look at a man's height or salary or bone structure deserve to be f#cked and chucked....played and placated....used and abused. These kinds of women deserve the cold, lonely beds that await them every night well into their middle years.
They deserve the anguish of attending wedding after wedding of their friends and family who "have less going on." They deserve to feel that burn in their chest at every Thanksgiving as more and more people show up with someone on their arm while they pretend it's their high standards alone that keep them single....all the while knowing that their standards stopped being the reason 10 years ago.
Shallow people get shallow results.
Peace