Thats to be expected given the gender ratio and poverty levels but saying other races don't have this issue is false. They are heading in the exact same direction.
So fellas, the ladies wondering why ya'll aren't settling down for them. -Essence Mag
Thats to be expected given the gender ratio and poverty levels but saying other races don't have this issue is false. They are heading in the exact same direction.
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Richard Wright
Living Legend
Incredibly dumb post
It's called a gimmick breh
Bigtymer301
Mr. Roll-Up
I agree with just about all of this. The problem is these women can't meet the standard of the men they want. The bolded could also be used to express the women described in the article. A bunch of those females are just mad that they themselves can't live up to the standards of the men they are interested in, so they spew the "there's no good men" rhetoric which shyts on all black men, and shifts the blame for their situation to another party. It seems to me the women in the article are mad because the nikkas that are interested in them don't meet their standards, and they don't meet the standards of the nikkas they want. I think part of it is, nikkas are getting smarter now. Why would a nikka who is doing well, want a washed thot, when he can get one in her prime, with less standards/mileage/rules/expectations. On average, a successful man in his 30's -40's has exponentially more viable options he is interested in, than his female counter part(Young nikkas take note). Social media, and reality tv has fukked up a lot of people's heads.
I mean there are women in their mid to late twenties who are in shape on there, are educated with careers but many have kids yet still put stuff like height requirements or "if I don't reply, I'm not interested. I like what I like."
Richard Wright
Living Legend
I was wondering about the aviI'll research breh and he from Natchez
Even Orwell was too white for me. So I switched to the greatest American master of the English language of all time.
Every black intellectual needs to read wright's "the outsider"
richaveli83
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No doubt fam. I stillBreh if you could see a daughter tell an old school Nigerian mom that she wants to marry a white man.
The reaction alone...
Its not a game. We dont play that IR shyt breh
when I think about my mom telling me not to bring no white girl home in her THICK Nigerian accent.
timothy_strickland
BRUHZ
Never met a good black woman with any problems finding a man. Those struggling are either:
Tell me I'm lying. Just look at this place.
- Ugly as fukk
- Thots in denial
in denial
- Have unresolved father issues.
Yup. Reformed bird thots over 30, non-commital serial daters, entitled hoes with nothing to offer really, bedwenches and ugly fat hoes or single mothers thinking their degree hide their
Low quality females struggling to lock down a top tier man?
of course they find it difficult because their odds of succeeding are extremely low...it would be miracle status.
good attitudes, loyal even during periods of struggle, motherly and wifey instincts, educated, under 30 and black. These women are obviously wifed up a long time...these women were always taken
Neil Tyson
YYZ
Then you know, these old thots join a church. To look for a god-fearing man.
Without realizing these men would rather convert a younger, better looking chick than selecting from the congregation.
Without realizing these men would rather convert a younger, better looking chick than selecting from the congregation.
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I trained Sheng Long and Shonuff
I wanna call bullshyt on black women spouting this rhetoric but I cant. My own sister says this shyt EVERY TIME we get together as a family.
She's a doctor, tall and in-shape , and by no means ugly.
This is more or less the convo we had at Thanksgiving:
She's doing her usual "men ain't shyt" routine
So I say to her, "what's the most important thing to you in finding a man?"
She goes, "Lots of things are important, I can't single out a few."
She's being difficult, so I ask, "Do you have any dealbreakers?"
She immediately responds, "Gotta be 6'2 at least and make as much/more money than me"
I remind her, "I get the height requirement, you're tall, but you do realize you are a doctor with your own clinic right? How many men do you know are making roughly a quatermill a year?"
She gets defensive and says, "I worked hard as hell to get where I am (which, to her cresdit, s absolutely true). So what do I want with a man who didn't do the same?. I don't have time for a failure, I need a good man."
Instead of arguing salary ceilings for different preofessions, I hit her the KO truth. "You know what?. By your own salary restrictions and coerlating that with if a man is good or not, do you realize that not one of us (her 5 brothers) would qualify as a good man in your eyes?
. Even ________ who makes more than the rest of us, still doesn't make as much as you. If you weren't in this family, you would look at every man in here as a non-viable partner even though we all pass the height requirement
Brehs you could hear a pin drop. She laughed it off like, "Well of course there are some exceptions, I would have to get to know them."
I didn't bring up the fact that she dated a 5'7-5'8 cac who made 50k a year training dogs. I showed mercy, it was a holiday
But we are getting together for new years and watch her rehash the same shyt again like our convo never happened.
Brehs I love my sister to death but I pray for her everyday. She lawst and swirling her way down to bedwenchdom
At this point breh the only thing that will save your sister is a mercy killing
May allah guide her to islam
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At this point breh the only that will save your sister is a mercy killing
May allah guide her to islam
I wanna call bullshyt on black women spouting this rhetoric but I cant. My own sister says this shyt EVERY TIME we get together as a family.
She's a doctor, tall and in-shape , and by no means ugly.
This is more or less the convo we had at Thanksgiving:
She's doing her usual "men ain't shyt" routine
So I say to her, "what's the most important thing to you in finding a man?"
She goes, "Lots of things are important, I can't single out a few."
She's being difficult, so I ask, "Do you have any dealbreakers?"
She immediately responds, "Gotta be 6'2 at least and make as much/more money than me
I remind her, "I get the height requirement, you're tall, but you do realize you are a doctor with your own clinic right? How many men do you know are making roughly a quatermill a year?"
She gets defensive and says, "I worked hard as hell to get where I am (which, to her cresdit, s absolutely true). So what do I want with a man who didn't do the same?
Instead of arguing salary ceilings for different preofessions, I hit her the KO truth. "You know what?
Brehs you could hear a pin drop. She laughed it off like, "Well of course there are some exceptions, I would have to get to know them."
I didn't bring up the fact that she dated a 5'7-5'8 cac who made 50k a year training dogs. I showed mercy, it was a holiday
But we are getting together for new years and watch her rehash the same shyt again like our convo never happened.
Brehs I love my sister to death but I pray for her everyday. She lawst and swirling her way down to bedwenchdom
Haha respect. This post is hilarious I have nothing but sisters all of them married well except one. Infact 2 of my Sister's husbands are millionaires.
the one that didn't marry well, ended up getting pregnant by some nikka with different baby mom's no degree either. I asked her what she saw in him he's tall and darkskin her ex was tall
No talk of ambition, etc...That hoe is suffering now. Lol
all my sisters have masters or PhD but don't work and are stay at home mom's but she's working 12 hr pharmacist shifts.
I have mercy on her all time. Even when she disrespects me. If i should decide to tell her about her life she will cry blood.
We need to stop coddling women. She even gets angry when I talk about single moms, single ladies who have nothing but degrees. My other sisters who have happy marriages never disagree with me in that regard.
Shes bitter and mad