So fellas, the ladies wondering why ya'll aren't settling down for them. -Essence Mag

[#1 pick]

Dawg,....black men are not more employed and not paid better than black women.
That is a bonafide lie,...black women are jn the economic pole position in America on purpose.
So, this country can gain access to a matriarch based economy and spending they perpetrated to use as a economic buffer and stimulus.
All this black guys make more than black women shyt is old ass baby boomer numbers.
nikkaz not even going to college like that a d then trying to say we do is a lie, too.
Not to mention, we going to college and then getting employed with great salaries....they need to stop lying.


Art Barr

This is true. Black women are kicking our ass financially to a degree but they getting out of school with serious debt so it's not good either way. It's hard to say the least. My girl and cousin are doctors. We always talk and I ask them how did the cacs do it. They say the parents gave to as a gift to pay for either a house or their degree and when the kids go into making six figures. That's straight cash homie. Add that to the fact that they the first to get a hospital jobs and what not and it makes a difference.

 

[BelowTheMasonDixon]

Lol

 

[agnosticlady]

It would for blue collar BM but these women are using material measures to call those men inferior.

I doubt a blue collar man with his head on straight would see her as an investment. Like @King Poetic mentioned there are black women who have been brainwashed by the media (Facebook, Instagram, twitter, reality tv, and etc) and believe that they are supposed to be living in a mini mansion, flying around the world, being seen (most especially being seen), and etc. I know it is hard for some people to accept that, but yes there are black women, especially when they are young with that type of mentality.Being 20 and in school I know young ladies who are in school currently to be occupational therapist, doctors, nurse practitioners, principals, teachers, Ph.D holders, writers, publishers, and etc. All are great career paths but a lot of people have a skewed view on what life. We constantly see images of people partying, shopping, traveling, living it up, and etc. When you watch reality television you see that a lot of those women do not work and they are usually having fun. Then with social media you see women who are not born into rich families living in the lime light (or so you think. Most of them are broke and living off of credit). Am I saying that all black women have a mentality like this? Of course not, but sadly there are a good number that do. It is human nature and biological for a woman to want a man that is economically stable and can protect. At the same time like OP there are black women who are not interested in going through the struggle phase with the man and are interested in coming in when he has 6 certs, 6 cars, and 6 figure . A lot of memes like this I see on the internet are reposted by women under 40. I also think collectively with both men and women we have a problem with normalcy. There is nothing wrong with not having the latest bran new items. It's ok to indulge, but most people are just trying to stay alive and pass on to their next generation while enjoying life.

 

[agnosticlady]

This is true. Black women are kicking our ass financially to a degree but they getting out of school with serious debt so it's not good either way. It's hard to say the least. My girl and cousin are doctors. We always talk and I ask them how did the cacs do it. They say the parents gave to as a gift to pay for either a house or their degree and when the kids go into making six figures. That's straight cash homie. Add that to the fact that they the first to get a hospital jobs and what not and it makes a difference.

I remember going straight to community college after high school, because I was not 100% sure about what I wanted to major in. A lot of people thought I was stupid and laughed, but I promise you that the over 90% of them are in debt and not 24 yet. I'm talking $10,000+ debt and for degrees like humanities, journalism, sociology, writing, and etc. Do not get me wrong nothing is bad about studying what you like, but have to be smarter about what we invest in. Certain degrees are not worth the debt.

 

[Jone2three45]

"And, then if they want to go and meet a regular, everyday, hardworking man, for some reason, these women feel those men are inferior to them."

/interview

Thread should have ended here.

 

[Poitier]

I doubt a blue collar man with his head on straight would see her as an investment.

Who is her? I'm just saying Blue Collar - White Collar unions can work if people don't lie to themselves.

 

[blackzeus]

Dawg,....black men are not more employed and not paid better than black women.
That is a bonafide lie,...black women are jn the economic pole position in America on purpose.
So, this country can gain access to a matriarch based economy and spending they perpetrated to use as a economic buffer and stimulus.
All this black guys make more than black women shyt is old ass baby boomer numbers.
nikkaz not even going to college like that a d then trying to say we do is a lie, too.
Not to mention, we going to college and then getting employed with great salaries....they need to stop lying.


Art Barr

It's so easy to spot a real one

 

[agnosticlady]

Who is her? I'm just saying Blue Collar - White Collar unions can work if people don't lie to themselves.

Oh ok I understand what you are saying. I was speaking in general terms. Some people think a man who is Barnes and Noble store manager may see a woman who is a nurse practitioner as an investment, or above him when in reality he may not really see her as much just because she is making around $90,000 a year.

 

[Jaw-Breaka]

Im starting not to like black women

 

[Mr swag]

They can't find a good man because they turned down all the nice guys and they are all married now by the time the women turned 35

 

[chief_keef_stan]

Im starting not to like black women

shut the fuk up

 

[blackzeus]

She been lookin' kinda right since the weight loss

 

[King Poetic]

here's the problem right here... being successful and having these material things doesn't make u a good woman and brothers don't fear that, most good brothers don't care for it... can u cook, can u fukk, can u suck, can u talk without arguing , can u help me without criticizing and trying to talk to me like a fukking puppy... no most women can't and that's why they single

if u notice the sisters u see with men and i mean decent brothers are regular sisters who's not doctors, lawyers, etc, etc but are women with good decent jobs that pay the bills and treat their men equal..

look at this bullshyt from these chicks

 

[agnosticlady]

It's pretty cut and dry. Nikkas going deep into debt to keep up the image that they are more successful than they really are. Driving benzes but, got $3,000 in their savings.

That is crazy . I get that we all have guilty pleasures such as cars, shoes, expensive pets, clothes, and etc but that is insanity. People really have to be very careful about who they hang around. When you die you will not take all of those things with you. Enjoy life, but be very careful. Even if I end up making $100,000 career wise or become a best selling author I wouldn't even live off of $100,000. Live off of $50,000 save and invest the rest.

They're confused because they been slutted out by a 6'6 engineer before so in their heads they think they can cuff one because they fukked one.

It's the year 2015 and females still don't understand that a man can fukk you and still think lowly of you.

B b b but he told that he loved me

But seriously yes....oddly enough there are women in their late 20's/30's+ who do not understand that . I can understand falling for it at 18, 20, 21, 22, but 28, 29, 33, 36?

 

[Brock Landers]

Bet you half my shyt that you won't leave

I'm good over here breh, islamic culture means I can be in my mid 30's and get a lovely PYT regardless