So Yall Really not gon get Married?

[Da_Eggman]

a good wife and kids>>>>>>>>>> being a miserable bachelor at 45...on tinder swiping away or trying to travel to foreign countries just to get laid

Da fukk is this

 

[humminbird]

No I haven’t met the right woman yet and don’t care if I don’t
Luckily my family isn’t rushing me since my brother got married and has kids

 

[Swahili P'Bitek]

If I stumble onto some wealth or in a position where I can create massive wealth by 26, then there's no way I'm marrying when I've already proven to myself of being incapable of romantic feelings, what would marriage be for? If not, then I"ll just get a like minded woman in the same profession and build from there.

 

[Rawtid]

Marriage will always be a good/valuable thing. It’s individuals, their interpretation and willingness that make all the difference.

 

[Carlton Banks]

Ask a bunch of nikkas who can't even get pussay if they are going to get married brehs...

 

[bucks3115]

im married wit a babymama and im still GMB...im GMB not because of what been done to me but what I done did to nikkas gf's and wives..i promise ima upload a clip of my wife putting nikkas on game about whats really going on out here behind these nikkas backs wit they women..i know for a FACT that 95% of nikkas in relationships are sharing and its not always fukking, it's just talking to nikkas behind ur back etc..don't believe me? ask your girl to swap phones for one day and see what she say..if i wasnt married i wouldnt get married, women are scandolous and most nikkas will never find out what they girl really has done behind their backs..coli full of too many simps so what i just spoke will go over mosts heads

me and my gf dmt have password
she can have my phone anytime , i can have her phone anytime
i dnt entertain any bytches , she dnt entertain any nikkaz

we connect physically , mentally and emotionally

 

[bucks3115]

a good wife and kids>>>>>>>>>> being a miserable bachelor at 45...on tinder swiping away or trying to travel to foreign countries just to get laid

be joe budden at 45 , breh

 

[JQ Legend]

you’re an idiot. And I mean that as no disrespect. The women who wouldn’t sit around in a 20 year relationship without a marriage license get frustrated because in their minds, they’re not going to get anything material out of it. When U get down to the reason why they really want that piece of legal paper, it comes down to how much of the mans resources they want to be allowed to take. Don’t be an idiot. You’ve been warned.

Yea if a woman is willing to leave you because you won’t sign a piece of paper she didn’t Love you to begin with.

It’s insane how many men don’t realize this

I would never be with a man long term that wasn't interested in marriage. If the man isn't interested in marriage it means he probably doesn’t know much about building wealth and isn't in an environment around people who have successful marriages. Both qualities are indicators of a man with a poor mindset.

And people can't just leave a marriage when they want. There are consequences. For example, If you share a bank account with your girl and she spends money on another man there is nothing you can do about it. If your wife does the same thing you can recover that money.

Men who get raped in divorced go in completely ignorant and don't treat it like a business. There are plenty men on this very board who have been divorced and they didn't get screwed.

As far as the quality of the marriage, when you have a comfortable financial environment you would be more inclined to find happiness in that comfort than struggle financial alone.

Before you write off one of the huges ways of building wealth, I would just say look at the people who getting and staying married versus the people who aren't getting married or getting divorced. The status tell you what you need to know.

Educated & rich = stay married
Uneducated & poor = get divorced

How is a man not wanting to get married or surrounding himself with successful marriages indicative of a poor mindset?

Especially when in this same thread you said you know plenty of divorced couples which means you yourself are in an environment with people with unsuccessful marriages?

 

[Balla]

If you, as a man, get married in 2021 and beyond, then you are a got damned fool for the taking. This ain’t 1983 no more. And the women who were raised with those morals and values of yesteryear are LONG GONE. Relationships are transactional these days. All about what you can do for her. While she brings nothing to the table but recycled p*ssy, a bad attitude, entitlement, and another nikkas kids for you to play step daddy to. And she thinks you should be grateful for the opportunity to take all of this on And some of you game goofy nikkas will be While she'll jump at the first opportunity to upgrade, your feelings and emotional attachment to your "family" be damned. These women nowadays are scandalous and heartless. They ain't cut from your grandmother's cloth


Sure. There's some good women out here. You also have a chance at winning the lottery. Doesn't mean you're gonna spend every paycheck on lottery tickets. Most of the good women are wifed up. And the good single ones are so far and few in between, good luck meeting one....juice just ain't worth the squeeze anymore with that marriage bullshyt. Risk ain't worth the reward...

 

[BeeCityRoller]

It could go either way, but as of right now I wouldn't even consider getting married until after age 35+. Maybe the social environment will be better in the mid-2020's...or it could be even worse

Baby Boomer and Gen X men could survive a divorce, having to move out of the house into an apartment, child support + shared bills etc. With the way Cost of Living has skyrocketed and society has incentivized divorce, single mother/babymamahood, that could easily wreck a middle class millennial mans finances for the rest of his 30's and 40's, we even see those topics on here with guys struggling with that.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

The stats are public record and common knowledge.



Correct. There are certain professions that that have divorce rates in the single digits. Broke people are the ones failing at marriage because people with education and money take the time to learn to benefits of marriage and us it to their advantage.

If a couple making 80k each lives off of 1 income and invests the rest think of the wealth they can aquire in 10 years. Versus a couple barely getting by and building no wealth. That first couple is more likely to stick it out for the huge financial benefits and it is reflected in the stats.

Exactly.

Marriage benefits children and people who are educated and have equal partners.

I'm GMB because I believe most people do not do it for the right reasons... If I wanted kids I'd be about marriage. Without that there's no reason to.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Yea if a woman is willing to leave you because you won’t sign a piece of paper she didn’t Love you to begin with.

It’s insane how many men don’t realize this


How is a man not wanting to get married or surrounding himself with successful marriages indicative of a poor mindset?

Especially when in this same thread you said you know plenty of divorced couples which means you yourself are in an environment with people with unsuccessful marriages?

shes a 40 yr old spinster stripper breh ignore her

 

[GoAggieGo.]

I’ve been around marriages my entire life; my parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, great grandparents all married and no divorces. 25+ years minimum. I see the good and bad that comes from it, but for the most part, there’s value. So yes, I will get married at some point. I want it.

 

[sosayeth]

What is the use of actual putting resources together if you aren’t going to get married?

Marriage is a legal contract that has legal ramifications if that contract is broken. Giving someone access to your resources without any binding contract to make them accountable is silly. Marriage is a thing for a reason. Building a family with someone who can literary walk out any moment is the reason we have the baby daddy/baby momma culture we have today and as you know, regardless if you are married or not you still have to pay child support.

Instead of treating marriage as the boogey man you should educate yourself on how to protect yourself legally, discover all the benefits and look at it as a serious deal instead of a "piece of paper."

You should also look into who is failing at marriage and who isn't. Generally broke uneducated people are the ones failing at marriage. Educate people are incredibly high levels of success in married.

Do you ever go to women and tell them to stop being snobby, stuck up, entitled, moody unrealistic, unaccountable, lazy, uncooperative, dismissive, untrustworthy, fat whores and bytches?

You women, black women in particular, have created this bullshyt narrative that all men, black men in particular, don't want to get married and would rather fukk off on hoes for the rest of our lives. Yet in this thread, the mass consensus from men - black men, at that - is marriage would be great, but what's the point when you all feel like it's ok to bring along your toxic behavior, then bounce with everything we've worked for just 'cause you have a tingling in your vagina.

YOU get it together. Stop asking men to put in all the work in the relationship, all the work in the marriage AND also protect ourselves from you being spoiled brats.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I’ve been around marriages my entire life; my parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, great grandparents all married and no divorces. 25+ years minimum. I see the good and bad that comes from it, but for the most part, there’s value. So yes, I will get married at some point. I want it.

Different generation breh