So Yall Really not gon get Married?

[TRUEST]

They wouldn't sit around for it because it's more likely that a man will leave them when they aren't married.

They wouldn't sit around for it because they don't want to end up a baby mama

The good girls I'm referring to (that I actually know), don't have a desire to take a man's stuff and actually have no problem signing a prenuptial.

Some of you guys don't have the life experience to know what youre talking about.

They know a man will leave because all throughout their lives they’ve been through relationships that was either ended by the other person or by them.

Now they want assurance they’ll be taken care of if the next guy decides to up and leave - and, to make sure of that they convince you clowns into believing in marriage.

better men than u have been divorced. So stfu and humble yourself.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I mean if someone wanna walk out they’re gonna do it regardless. I agree regarding learning more about marriage, what it is / entails also. What I do know is that the ramifications of a broken marital agreement is much more harsh on men than the other way around.

why do you want to marry personally? would you be upset if you were unofficially married (ex. under god/ taking the govt out of it)? would you look at your partner differently if you never got married?

also, for your last point do those educated people actually have good, successful marriages or is it more that they don’t wanna break up for monetary issues?

I would never be with a man long term that wasn't interested in marriage. If the man isn't interested in marriage it means he probably doesn’t know much about building wealth and isn't in an environment around people who have successful marriages. Both qualities are indicators of a man with a poor mindset.

And people can't just leave a marriage when they want. There are consequences. For example, If you share a bank account with your girl and she spends money on another man there is nothing you can do about it. If your wife does the same thing you can recover that money.

Men who get raped in divorced go in completely ignorant and don't treat it like a business. There are plenty men on this very board who have been divorced and they didn't get screwed.

As far as the quality of the marriage, when you have a comfortable financial environment you would be more inclined to find happiness in that comfort than struggle financial alone.

Before you write off one of the huges ways of building wealth, I would just say look at the people who getting and staying married versus the people who aren't getting married or getting divorced. The status tell you what you need to know.

Educated & rich = stay married
Uneducated & poor = get divorced

 

[Womb Raider]

If and when I find a woman worth marrying I'll marry her

seems like a longshot tho

 

[MarcMan]

What is the use of actual putting resources together if you aren’t going to get married?

Marriage is a legal contract that has legal ramifications if that contract is broken. Giving someone access to your resources without any binding contract to make them accountable is silly. Marriage is a thing for a reason. Building a family with someone who can literary walk out any moment is the reason we have the baby daddy/baby momma culture we have today and as you know, regardless if you are married or not you still have to pay child support.

Instead of treating marriage as the boogey man you should educate yourself on how to protect yourself legally, discover all the benefits and look at it as a serious deal instead of a "piece of paper."

You should also look into who is failing at marriage and who isn't. Generally broke uneducated people are the ones failing at marriage. Educate people are incredibly high levels of success in married.

Preach

A lot of posters on here are young men so I get it. (I was in these streets so I get it get it.) And it's true that marriage isn't for everyone.

But for men that end up going far in life, most will find it easier to build a legacy with a capable partner. It's true that marriage isn't explicitly necessary. But shyt can get messy when people want to jump in and out of a relationship. Leaving a marriage should be a pain in the ass for both parties imho.

 

[Killigraphy]

What are the benefits? Besides the tax deductions...I don't want to give half my earnings and or stuff away, whores will never stop existing, and my money keeps growing....

If you think you need marriage to keep a woman or pretend everything is stable, you're delusional.

 

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I would never be with a man long term that wasn't interested in marriage. If the man isn't interested in marriage it means he probably doesn’t know much about building wealth and isn't in an environment around people who have successful marriages. Both qualities are indicators of a man with a poor mindset.

And people can't just leave a marriage when they want. There are consequences. For example, If you share a bank account with your girl and she spends money on another man there is nothing you can do about it. If your wife does the same thing you can recover that money.

Men who get raped in divorced go in completely ignorant and don't treat it like a business. There are plenty men on this very board who have been divorced and they didn't get screwed.

As far as the quality of the marriage, when you have a comfortable financial environment you would be more inclined to find happiness in that comfort than struggle financial alone.

Before you write off one of the huges ways of building wealth, I would just say look at the people who getting and staying married versus the people who aren't getting married or getting divorced. The status tell you what you need to know.

Educated & rich = stay married
Uneducated & poor = get divorced

All these stats don’t mean shyt if they don’t align with your life. You not falling in love with a nikka off stats. You selling yourself (and the idea of marriage) to him with stats.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

All these stats don’t mean shyt if they don’t align with your life. You not falling in love with a nikka off stats. You selling yourself (and the idea of marriage) to him with stats.

We're having a general discussion unless I missed something.

A well rounded man who is interested in wealth building doesn't need to be sold on the idea. He already knows. Therefore a woman interested in marriage should only date a man interested in marriage.

 

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We're having a general discussion unless I missed something.

People love this general discussion excuse lol We live in the real world. All these stats go out the window when it is your turn.

A well rounded man who is interested in wealth building doesn't need to be sold on the idea. He already knows. There for a woman interested in marriage should only date a man interested in marriage.

The issue is you are shaming/guilting men in your message that only a well-adjusted man would want marriage. Look at every married couple you know. Then think of how many married couples there are. If you think them husbands did it out of the reasons you state I have a bridge in Florida to sell you.

Most men marry, hell even get into exclusive relationships because the sex is supposed to be constant. All this extra shyt does not even register in the average man mind. And if it does, any sane man would either decide it’s not worth it or he will improve his life caliber to get that type of girl he wants

 

[OVER]

I'm not but I'm also not advocating for others to follow me or wasting any woman's time.It has little to do with fear of divorce. I prefer to be liable for myself and my problems.

Children? That was never a dream of mine but the killing of my cousin's child cemented that I never want to have children.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Remove divorce courts and men would all be dor getting married. It's really that simple

 

[the bossman]

Most men marry, hell even get into exclusive relationships because the sex is supposed to be constant.

If you're getting married just to be able to have consistent sex you're an idiot breh

 

[I AM WE ARE]

me and @Lady.Libra. jumping the broom soon as she say yes

Bachelor party in jbo

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

People love this general discussion excuse lol We live in the real world. All these stats go out the window when it is your turn.



The issue is you are shaming/guilting men in your message that only a well-adjusted man would want marriage. Look at every married couple you know. Then think of how many married couples there are. If you think them husbands did it out of the reasons you state I have a bridge in Florida to sell you.

Most men marry, hell even get into exclusive relationships because the sex is supposed to be constant. All this extra shyt does not even register in the average man mind. And if it does, any sane man would either decide it’s not worth it or he will improve his life caliber to get that type of girl he wants

There is a demographics of men who get divorced at a high rate and there is a demographic of men who get divorced at a low rate.

I would bet money that the demographic of men who gets divorced at a low rate put a lot more thought into it than "regular p*ssy."

Pointing out that lack of education has a correlation to divorce is not shame. It's fact.

Marriage was created for a reason. It's a business move. If the average man can't see the forrest for the trees and has no interest in learning then it's clear why the average man fails at sustaining a marriage.

 

[Killigraphy]

Remove divorce courts and men would all be dor getting married. It's really that simple

Would definitely play a factor, the problem is that courts and the system in general. Though again, if anyone thinks marriage improves anything, they're not looking at statistics, they're chasing a concept...I rather chase my own stability.

 

[⠀X ⠀]

I want to get married, but listening to divorce lawyers describe what goes on during and after a divorce, has me like