So Yall Really not gon get Married?

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Even average men get fukked up. Child support, alimony if she doesn't work or make very little, forking over half your 401k. I haven't met one male that got divorced and didn't get fukked up in some type of way. A breh I work with everyday is miserable because his wife is making his life hell but he has to tolerate it because he can't afford the divorce. He is going to go from living in a 3500 sq ft to a 900 sq ft apart seeing his kids every other weekend while paying alimony and child support.
Almost every man I know that got divorced remarried. Some of them 2 or 3 times. Like literally all but one but he is in a long term relationship and will probably get married again.

I'm not saying it doesn't happen but I really don't know any man that is living in squalor after the divorce. But then again, they married woman who were working just like them and also got partial custody of the children. I guess it goes back to my original point on educating yourself about marriage and looking at it a financial move.

I bet most of these people you know that got screwed didn't have a prenup. Pretty sure those make a difference.
 

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Here are the options. No woman is perfect its just which one of these issues can you deal with for REST of your life not few months but for rest of your life.

Fat&Out of Shape (Women that say I dont workout but I should)
Single Mothers
Crazy/depressed aka always on medication type women
Daddy Issues
Lazy women who dont cook nor WANT to
Feminists
Young women who have no conversation outside of entertainment.
Anti social women
Thots that been ran thru more then the Holland Tunnel
Older women 30+ looking for you to be the nice guy they always wanted (These are types that also want to have a baby ASAP)
Women that are verbally/physcialy abusive. Listens to Cardi /Meg
Ones that have trust issues and are damaged from previous relationships
Church women who appear perfect on outside but arent living what they are preaching nor comprehend the Bible.
Career Women who want to compete with you (aka she wears the pants)
Women who will marry you but want still wants her maiden name. (for some thats a deal breaker)
This is what y'all are left with.GMB
 

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I can’t find a woman that loves me. The sad part is I’m decent looking, decent dikk game and funny. Can’t wait to upgrade my life tho.
 

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Here are the options. No woman is perfect its just which one of these issues can you deal with for REST of your life not few months but for rest of your life.

Fat&Out of Shape (Women that say I dont workout but I should)
Single Mothers
Crazy/depressed aka always on medication type women
Daddy Issues
Lazy women who dont cook nor WANT to
Feminists
Young women who have no conversation outside of entertainment.
Anti social women
Thots that been ran thru more then the Holland Tunnel
Older women 30+ looking for you to be the nice guy they always wanted (These are types that also want to have a baby ASAP)
Women that are verbally/physcialy abusive. Listens to Cardi /Meg
Ones that have trust issues and are damaged from previous relationships
Church women who appear perfect on outside but arent living what they are preaching nor comprehend the Bible.
Career Women who want to compete with you (aka she wears the pants)
Women who will marry you but want still wants her maiden name. (for some thats a deal breaker)

My ex-wife was about 6 of these
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I want to get married, but listening to divorce lawyers describe what goes on during and after a divorce, has me like :hubie:
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^^^ And I honestly believe this. I think brehs should maybe try once. In their 40s. But I don’t blame brehs for holding the GMB banner. Too many variables for it to not to work.

You never really know your wife until AFTER you get married and/or have kids. That’s when you figure out if her dating personality is her actual personality. And brehs, your options are constantly increasing the older you get. Could you consistently turn down your other options while your needs are potentially not being met? Ask yourself that because marriage is a very big sacrifice for brehs and you’re HOPING it’ll be worth it.
 

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My ex-wife was about 6 of these
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^^^ And I honestly believe this. I think brehs should maybe try once. In their 40s. But I don’t blame brehs for holding the GMB banner. Too many variables for it to not to work.

You never really know your wife until AFTER you get married and/or have kids. That’s when you figure out if her dating personality is her actual personality. And brehs, your options are constantly increasing the older you get. Could you consistently turn down your other options while your needs are potentially not being met? Ask yourself that because marriage is a very big sacrifice for brehs and you’re HOPING it’ll be worth it.
:mjlol::mjlol::mjlol::mjlol::mjlol::russ::russ::russ::russ::russ:

Marriage has NOTHING to do with love
 

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Almost every man I know that got divorced remarried. Some of them 2 or 3 times. Like literally all but one but he is in a long term relationship and will probably get married again.

I'm not saying it doesn't happen but I really don't know any man that is living in squalor after the divorce. But then again, they married woman who were working just like them and also got partial custody of the children. I guess it goes back to my original point on educating yourself about marriage and looking at it a financial move.

I bet most of these people you know that got screwed didn't have a prenup. Pretty sure those make a difference.

So you want to get married for business reasons and not because you can’t imagine living without the person? :gucci:

Good luck with that one :francis:
 

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My ex-wife was about 6 of these
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^^^ And I honestly believe this. I think brehs should maybe try once. In their 40s. But I don’t blame brehs for holding the GMB banner. Too many variables for it to not to work.

You never really know your wife until AFTER you get married and/or have kids. That’s when you figure out if her dating personality is her actual personality. And brehs, your options are constantly increasing the older you get. Could you consistently turn down your other options while your needs are potentially not being met? Ask yourself that because marriage is a very big sacrifice for brehs and you’re HOPING it’ll be worth it.
:picard: ....for record I think marriage can be beautiful is beautiful. If shyt goes left there needs to be more protection for us men. Men dont worry about marriage most of time we working and providing. Its the divorce that has damage. These days women have too much power because "she is unhappy".
 

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On this website I hear....


* Black people should be perpetuating the race into the future

* Black children need both parents heavy in their lives

* Don't get married brehs



I wonder how many of these #GMB posters are saying one of the first two things and don't see the contradiction? Or are all the #GMB brehs just on the "fukk dem kids" wave? Cause if you look at this world and claim that absentee fathers have a good shot at giving boys the kinda upbringing they need, you don't got a fukking clue. Whether you blame the man for not being there or the woman for keeping him away, you're not in reality if you that shyt just gonna work out well for those children for 18+ years.
I'm more or less GMB, and will adopt, I don't care to have my own kids if the right woman doesn't come along, and that window is closing
 
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