So Yall Really not gon get Married?
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She isnt playing, she is stupid.
the bossman
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Because she is right. when you break down the numbers, the divorce rate is highest amongst the middle and lower class while not so much for the upper class.
Question is why it's like this
ultraflexed
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Or is #GMB just a Coli saying?
Personally I wanna get married. I want to have kids, I really enjoy my girl, and also think being old and alone just seems wack, whether you got $$ or not.
Told my girl me n her gon get married under God, not the government. It was funny after I said that because she started grasping for straws as to why legal marriage is a good idea. she started talking about tax breaks
I'll just be damned if I end up like that white man that got fiscally molested in his divorce (GMB infinity stones thread ). I really don't see what changes when people get married, its not like yall any closer together or anything. To me, it just seems stupid (getting married legally) to turn your relationship into a business / contractual agreement
What are the actual pros of legitimate, legal marriage? All I see right now are cons
It doesnt matter after 10 years it's called "common law marriage" she"ll still get half
You coulda just said “yes” breh
And you do realize a woman can be even more “dependent” on you in divorce right?
honestly, if i had to guess id say these same feminine men who are fantasizing about marriage are the same ones who are b1tching about the pandemic not allowing them to socialize. they are wired to crave that lovey dovey sh1t. they cant help it.
its all part of the ecology of life. we, the masculine men of the world need these feminine men to exist for there to be a verifiable contrast. There has to be black before there is white. The white man didn't know he was white until he met the black man. And vice versa.
Every man thinks he’s the masculine one tho
I pointed that out then she deflected into it’s all good because they got re rmairried
Y'all didn't get to see this 'cause she edited her post, but after I kicked her in the nuts she thinks she has a few pages back, her initial emotional response was "K."
She - like nearly all other women - is an insincere gaslighter. She's not concerned with making marriage work for men, 'cause if she were, she'd acknowledge the playing field is built to ensure we get screwed and also would admit it's the Sistahood's primitive inability to be satisfied and always find fault that's the reason why men are avoidant of marriage.
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eastside313
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The fukk you think is in the mans phone Bible quotes and cartoons
34 ain’t that old. You should still get at least mid to late 20s and early 30s bytches.shyt was all good on the dating apps for years til a nikka hit 34 and the potential matches I got started shifting to the 35+ age group.
shyt does not look pretty
You could always change ya age though.
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Basically this.
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I’m a reasonable person. Point out my inaccuracies and I’ll receind my statement.
You linked 2 things that aren't necessarily comparable/transferable in terms of the skills to run a family vs. the skills to run a business. There's overlap, but there's too many key differences to make the correlation. In statistics, your correlation coefficient (r) between the two instances would be too weak to draw a conclusion of correlation.
Moreover you assumed men think it's too hard to run a family, when there's a distinct difference in something being too difficult, vs. not being worth it, or something you simply don't have the desire to do. I could start a family at any time and do my damndest to make it work, but if the partners available don't have a like mind, or think they can do better, or I should be substantially better than I am, the "family" will be doomed from inception.
For some reason in the black community we refuse to acknowledge that black women's lofty standards, and poor mating choices heavily sway household outcomes. Women control sex, and life directly (my body, my choice) as well as indirectly (whether or not a dude gets to fukk em+nut in them). Regardless of how good a man is, if a woman isn't interested or doesn't want to follow his lead/submit to him any longer or at all, the relationship/family goes kaput, it's really that simple. Black community has been a functional matriarchy for some time due to White Supremacy (slavery, mass incarceration, child support, etc.). Which brings me to my next point.
You then jump to the extremely wild conclusion that black men not wanting to marry partners they don't feel are up to par (lack of trust, former promiscuity, money hungry, controlling, demanding, etc.) not makes them unable to run a business, but it makes them unable to run a country as Black people will ever have the population numbers to run America, or as if most African nations aren't ran by black men.
You're a decent poster from what I've seen but posts like this is where discontently single/mildy scorn/mildly hurt black women tell on themselves. It's quickly getting to the point where bm don't have sympathy to for bw, and men across demographics sans simps don't have sympathy for women at all, because women, can get good loving relationships, but since it's not with the guy with the guap or looks they want, they shyt on all men for their inability to get the men they want (punching out of their weight class).
No one cares when women/people feel like they shouldn't settle, more power to them, but if you can't get the two birds in the bush, no one gives a fukk or wants to hear it when they know you had or have a bird in the hand.
In short there was a ton of assumptions, and mild projection that added up to yet another black male bashing post.