murksiderock
Superstar
This is a fact, bro. Wearing it is the only way I'll become a better man and I'm wearing every indiscretion and sin of this relationship. Strengthening myself to be a better man!
Solutions on dealing with heartbreak?
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This is a fact, bro. Wearing it is the only way I'll become a better man and I'm wearing every indiscretion and sin of this relationship. Strengthening myself to be a better man!
Talk it out with the homies....not all of them just the one or two that you know wont throw something back in your face down the line if you say something deeply personal.
Also don't stay in the house. Stay busy as it's your time to work on something for yourself. You'll be surprised how much men put things behind the back burner when they focusing too much energy on a women.
Those are my top 2 but I would throw in talking to females as much as you can. I don't mean fukk everything you see but platonically. It would fill some type of void temporarily of interaction with the opposite sex. Will also keep you sharp depending on how long u been off the market before the speration.
Hope this helps bro
Also don't stay in the house. Stay busy as it's your time to work on something for yourself. You'll be surprised how much men put things behind the back burner when they focusing too much energy on a women.
Those are my top 2 but I would throw in talking to females as much as you can. I don't mean fukk everything you see but platonically. It would fill some type of void temporarily of interaction with the opposite sex. Will also keep you sharp depending on how long u been off the market before the speration.
Hope this helps bro
Ahhh shyt... My nikka why you breakup with her when you know you really didn't want to....now she hurt and she gone get in her spiteful bag on you for a minute...you gone have to just ride that shyt out player
It's best from a mental health perspective to just assume she's smashing the dude in the house too... But the important part is and the real part is if that is the case could you still accept her back in your life as your woman without resentment down the road
Whoever cares less, always win!!!
You have to let go of this mindset and accept where women are within this society. Females are rarely held accountable for their actions while men are held to a higher standard. Yes, she did fukk you over but you cannot react emotionally or try to "get back" at her. It makes you look like the weak one, not her. Once you get too attached to a female, they will always have power over you. Leave her ass alone for the next man to pump and dump. Her ass don't want to be saved so stop trying.
The best "get back" for a woman is indifference and success, not revenge.
Good stuff @International Playa
@International Playa what type of church do you go to? Is it Baptist? Catholic? What denomination are you and your new lady part of. Congrats!
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@murksiderock
You're a Bron stan so it's forever on sight but sometimes you have to call a parley for a greater cause.
It's cliché but the only thing to remedy an emotional wound is time. It won't happen overnight. It likely won't even be three months from now. But the wound will heal. I think every relationship that ends in heartbreak that a man was heavily invested in leaves an emotional scar. Scars never truly go away, but over time, they do heal and become less noticeable. To others and yourself.
The old adage of losing women the way you got them rings true here and it's just a lesson learned. Human beings are imperfect and as such, one can never truly predict their actions, but a person's past can provide glimpses into deeds yet to come. What's done is done, though. The best thing you can do moving forward is to continue to better yourself. Mentally & physically. Eventually, you'll find a woman that's looking to come along for the journey and this female will be in the rear view & a distant memory.
Hold your head, breh.
You're a Bron stan so it's forever on sight but sometimes you have to call a parley for a greater cause.
It's cliché but the only thing to remedy an emotional wound is time. It won't happen overnight. It likely won't even be three months from now. But the wound will heal. I think every relationship that ends in heartbreak that a man was heavily invested in leaves an emotional scar. Scars never truly go away, but over time, they do heal and become less noticeable. To others and yourself.
The old adage of losing women the way you got them rings true here and it's just a lesson learned. Human beings are imperfect and as such, one can never truly predict their actions, but a person's past can provide glimpses into deeds yet to come. What's done is done, though. The best thing you can do moving forward is to continue to better yourself. Mentally & physically. Eventually, you'll find a woman that's looking to come along for the journey and this female will be in the rear view & a distant memory.
Hold your head, breh.
Yup the best revenge is walking away not begging, pleading and just living your life. At the end of the day no one cares what you did, how much you sacrificed how well you treated them etc.
Because there are 20 simps who'd do the same
murksiderock
Superstar
Ahhh shyt... My nikka why you breakup with her when you know you really didn't want to....now she hurt and she gone get in her spiteful bag on you for a minute...you gone have to just ride that shyt out player
It's best from a mental health perspective to just assume she's smashing the dude in the house too... But the important part is and the real part is if that is the case could you still accept her back in your life as your woman without resentment down the road
I think I could forgive her without resentment down the road. Bevause 9f the way I'm attacking myself in Rodney's healing process, which I'll detail later or tomorrow...
I definitely didn't mean it when I said it and part of this shyt with her is spite, you're right. I see it...
Rev Leon Lonnie Love
damned mine eyes, DAMNED mine eyes!!
Just gotta wait it out, no other way around it.
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
Thanks breh, Pentecostal
Players fukk up too …and sometimes these are the results lol …I asked that last part because if you can really do that and you feel like this woman generally adds value to your life it can work …but. Gigs you now y’all are going to have to figure an amicable way to get down to the root of the “money” problem but something tells me the problem isn’t just the money maybe some sort of situation she’s resentful against you for that’s manifesting in her getting at your pockets? Idk you know your girl better than anyone and maybe she just has a dependent mentally ..but I’d assume there’s something behind that
Either way bruh … there’s two ways you can approach this …you can go full blown Offset Cardi B style and crash your girls concert with a flower bouquet
Or
Remove yourself from the situation just for a minute …give yourself sometime to reset on the metal second guessing and approach the situation with a sincere reconciliation mindset..which just means active listening solution oriented communication…create some ground rules for how you want to talk to each other and just let her know how you envision the relationship moving forward and progressing
Godspeed my nikka
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