Some think beautiful women have it really hard...

LucaBrasi

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You know what, not even gonna keep arguing it. Honestly, maybe you all should just become more attractive and then your problems will be solved. Look better and stop complaining and blaming things on everyone else. :word: In fact, may be if you all looked better, the world would be a better place and you wouldn't have any more problems. Why you uglies gotta make life so hard for everyone else? :word:


Yeah, and I'm pretty sure the psychological effects of your child being called "big booty judy" at school everyday would be great. I'm sure all parents are looking forward to those blissful moments for their child to be sexually harassed and degraded for their looks. :ahh: :word:


Sexual harassment in elementary nikka really?:huhldup:

:sitdown:


Anyway my point was she was making it seem like life was soo hard for her on some ignorant shxt
 

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I actually find it hilarious cause a thread from now y'all will be telling me that I don't understand things if I haven't went through them, or that I shouldn't judge people, etc., but that's what you're doing here.

That's why I don't care when y'all complain that I'm an a$$hole, out of touch, "trumping" people. Y'all do the same shyt I do, only to people you'd never speak such to IRL cause y'all are some pussies. :word:

If you came up with a good reason for this intense victimhood we would take you more seriously.
 

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If you came up with a good reason for this intense victimhood we would take you more seriously.

I came up with reasons. It's not something you can relate to or fathom (obviously. Makes perfect sense for a board of dudes who have a +6000 reply thread on needing help with women and various other things) and you keep ignoring logical points, so I'm not gonna keep going.

I'll just keep my responses to shyttin' on y'all and keep it simple like that. Deal? :word: I'm not going to continue waste intelligent responses. You've already deemed me as whatever and that's what you want, so that's what I'll give you.

Y'all just a bunch of ugly awkward nikkas, you'll never understand her or others point of view. :yeshrug: Get over it.
 

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Didnt read the whole thread, just first post. Sounds like dumb, white gull problems.

Im in mid level management in a large office, younger than all my peers by 2 decades, but know that have a long way to go before I crack into the good ole boys club. I got a babyface and hourglass frame. You better believe that I was aware of how I would be treated once I got promoted, and worked with older, women mentors at other offices to present myself, my attire, my communication, and my CYA plans professionally and strategically.

You learn to wear blazers, suits, glasses, put your hair up, and not discuss social small talk that reveals your age. You learn to use language that redirects the conversation back to the topic and use allies/peers to endorse your work beforehand.

No guy that ever bought me drinks has expressed such a grand sense of entitlement as this white gull has experienced. Ive always been treated respectfully when I thank them for the drinks and reject advances. Im not a drop dead gorgeous blonde, but I also think people prey on the weak.
 
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Its a very valid point of view, but you'd be hard pressed to get anyone, especially those who are unattractive and have felt the burn of being that, to believe their complaints are valid. They say they'd rather be treated as an object (have people not give them any opportunity to enjoy them for any non-superficial reason) than not be considered attractive at all. That's because they really have no idea how hurtful and isolating that can actually be for a person. Grass is greener basically.

There's users all over this world...people that use you for your looks, your money, your car, access to your gym, whatever...that's hardly reason enough to feel isolated in life, that feeling is intrinsic to you.

Point being, if you're unable to weed through the "users" and think every nice gesture is because someone wants something from you, then there's something wrong with YOU. You'll tend to look at every situation through those lenses. So, while the guy at the bar was obviously hitting on her (which is a ritual in this society, so of course he wanted something from her...but that's another convo), she didn't really know what the senior level guy was thinking. That was all guesswork. She used previous experiences (including being hit on at bars) to frame this world where EVERYONE is just trying to get in her pants.
 

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Its a very valid point of view, but you'd be hard pressed to get anyone, especially those who are unattractive and have felt the burn of being that, to believe their complaints are valid. They say they'd rather be treated as an object (have people not give them any opportunity to enjoy them for any non-superficial reason) than not be considered attractive at all. That's because they really have no idea how hurtful and isolating that can actually be for a person. Grass is greener basically.


So only attractive people suffer from this.:comeon:, the point has some validity but ignoring the obvious advantages to being "beautiful" in comparison to others where those advantages don't exist.
 

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I came up with reasons. It's not something you can relate to or fathom (obviously. Makes perfect sense for a board of dudes who have a +6000 reply thread on needing help with women and various other things) and you keep ignoring logical points, so I'm not gonna keep going.

I'll just keep my responses to shyttin' on y'all and keep it simple like that. Deal? :word: I'm not going to continue waste intelligent responses. You've already deemed me as whatever and that's what you want, so that's what I'll give you.

Y'all just a bunch of ugly awkward nikkas, you'll never understand her or others point of view. :yeshrug: Get over it.

Nobody believes your bullshyt humblesmug. Use ad hominem all you like, it's not going to change what we think.
 

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Being a beautiful, blonde white woman from America has to be the easiest path in life in the world until they hit about 25. :lolbron: A lot of them don't age will especially if they smoke and tan a lot. If they play their cards right, they can be set for life. I've seen it in corporate America and we see it in the dating and marriage scene. It's just the way it is :manny:

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Nobody believes your bullshyt humblesmug. Use ad hominem all you like, it's not going to change what we think.

Never said I was humble. Last thing I want to be or care about being. :word: I don't care to change the way you think. In fact, I know that changing the way people think over the internet is not very possible.

As long as you sit down and shut up with your nonsense in real life (like you do now), we good. :word:

SN: I'm not saying that everything in that passage is 100% true and real. People tend to over exaggerate a little when they are telling stories, but I can't dismiss everything typed as BS or whatever.
 
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So, you don't think it's a problem that society (ugly and attractive) perpetually breeds people who are, essentially, non-self sufficient and otherwise "aloof"? You don't think that some could truly have a problem with the fact that they grew up thinking one thing about themselves, only to have it be something completely different when they get to a certain stage in life?




- Heightened expectations (socially, academically, sexually, financially, etc.).
- Being seen as more of an object rather than a person
- People hiding reality from you
- If the HR person is someone of the same sex, you are less likely to be hired.
- Being too "attractive" and being outcasted/rejected by peers.
- You have an "obligation" to be nice to people, otherwise you are a "stuck up bytch" or an "arrogant a$$hole", when if you were ugly, it wouldn't be a problem and they wouldn't even care to speak to you
- Having your success attributed to your looks and not your merit
- Growing up, those around you focus less on developing you as an actual person
- People only like you and want to be associated with you for shallow reasons

You all have never heard of the "Halo Effect"? That's why it seems like you're more so speaking out your ass because of jealousy/resentment, rather than wanting any true knowledge on what you're talking about.


:salute: on that list I expected sum straight bullshyt:laff: but a lot of that is good and true...especially the part about attractive women having to humble theyself with women.....and also with men so we are not intimidated.

Any problems with bein attractive usually comes from women,never heard of a man complaining....this really just goes back to women being the cup is half empty rather han half full personality types they are.....I bet no pretty person on earth would hit a switch and make theyself ugly if they could:shaq2:

Not to write off how the lady feels in the first post,but first of all pic violation,bytch might be average as hell...second of all I'm sure she might feel like crap not being taken seriously...but that's standard for MANY women in a male dominated work environment whether u ugly,average,or hot....she said it herself only reason she got in the office wuz becuz she wuz fine....meanwhile fat azz old azz Ms Betty got a proposal too and homie probaly pretended he wuz on an important call when he saw Ms Betty coming:laff:...meanwhile pretty chick complainin like she fat,old,or worst of all black....we understand your concerns pretty chick but in the imaginary line of people who are discriminated against who wanna be heard,you got a looooooong wait before you get to the front where sumbody at the window gives a fuk:laff:......you waaaaaaaaaay in the back like :whew:,its gon be a long wait so u better get a snickers....oh wait there's a fat black man 10 spaces ahead willing to get out of line to go buy you one from the vending machine:snoop:
 

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any blessing can become a handicap if you let it. to me, its seems like they dont know how to make the most of what they got. with their complaining ass.
 

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The only issue good looking women have is the first impression of being seen as nothing more then a cute face. If the woman really has something to offer the world her looks will only help her out.
 
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