SPIN: WHEN THE DNA test RESULTS COME IN (6 years later)....

[Luck]

In 2017, is there any legit reason why a man wouldn’t get a DNA test at birth? You already at the hospital anyway, miss me with that trust and love shyt.

If you smart, when you messin with a broad to the point of where y’all think it’ll get to havin kids, you already puttin that bug in her ear early on about how you feel about gettin dna tests regardless of anything else

Then if she try to pull a tech, compare it with HIV testing as far as not worrying about actually havin that shyt but gettin done just to be 100% sure

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

hmm, TLR isn't the place for quality dialogue on this, but in this case, what do men (families) do? i mean it's one thing to get this news at 6 months, the kid isn't really old enough to be attached to you or know you, and you can more easily pull away - though you'll likely have some emotion attached - and of course haven't dumped the amount of time, money, and resources into the child. but six years of being with the kid? do you just bounce, if so, how do you deal with that emotionally? how do you deal with the way the kid will interpret you just bouncing - we've all seen/heard folks who have issues when their pops just dumped them. do you stick around but not contribute financially? what if the woman is doing bad and your help is the difference between that kid living in squalor vs a decent life?

that is all on the woman tho, you gotta woman up in cases where you're fukking different men and end up pregnant, ALL parties, including the baby, need to know the truth.

 

[Gully Bull]

hmm, TLR isn't the place for quality dialogue on this, but in this case, what do men (families) do? i mean it's one thing to get this news at 6 months, the kid isn't really old enough to be attached to you or know you, and you can more easily pull away - though you'll likely have some emotion attached - and of course haven't dumped the amount of time, money, and resources into the child. but six years of being with the kid? do you just bounce, if so, how do you deal with that emotionally? how do you deal with the way the kid will interpret you just bouncing - we've all seen/heard folks who have issues when their pops just dumped them. do you stick around but not contribute financially? what if the woman is doing bad and your help is the difference between that kid living in squalor vs a decent life?

that is all on the woman tho, you gotta woman up in cases where you're fukking different men and end up pregnant, ALL parties, including the baby, need to know the truth.

kid ain't chose this life. Life chose him .. cant answer thst question as my daughter and I were tested before child support started

Grandmother's pain is real.

Can't imagine what that must be like.

Facts and knowing her son's pain since it's been proven it's not his.

 

[get these nets]

OP,

You might want to advise him to remove the document from the net or to redact HER name.

There's an old line about hell hath no fury like a woman scorned......a woman humiliated is just as bad.

Don't let her find the phone number to an ambulance chaser lawyer and sue him for public slander.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Foul all round. Know a 2 brehs who had this happen. The disgusting shyt is the woman would know or suspect in many cases. In one case I know this man brought this kid up until he was ten. No way he could abandon the boy.

 

[R.E.N. Spells Ren]

hmm, TLR isn't the place for quality dialogue on this, but in this case, what do men (families) do? i mean it's one thing to get this news at 6 months, the kid isn't really old enough to be attached to you or know you, and you can more easily pull away - though you'll likely have some emotion attached - and of course haven't dumped the amount of time, money, and resources into the child. but six years of being with the kid? do you just bounce, if so, how do you deal with that emotionally? how do you deal with the way the kid will interpret you just bouncing - we've all seen/heard folks who have issues when their pops just dumped them. do you stick around but not contribute financially? what if the woman is doing bad and your help is the difference between that kid living in squalor vs a decent life?

that is all on the woman tho, you gotta woman up in cases where you're fukking different men and end up pregnant, ALL parties, including the baby, need to know the truth.

I honestly can't see myself just walking away from someone I treated as a child for 6+ years.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

He ended up owning a club or two, tbh. Notice I said "former" dopeboy.
Did your lifestyle influence your situation?

Bro is 90% at fault

 

[Doobie Doo]

Happened to me, I found out after two weeks tho so there was no emotional attachment nor nothing.

But he still gotta pay Child Support if she files it.

 

[Doobie Doo]

OP,

You might want to advise him to remove the document from the net or to redact HER name.

There's an old line about hell hath no fury like a woman scorned......a woman humiliated is just as bad.

Don't let her find the phone number to an ambulance chaser lawyer and sue him for public slander.

First it would be libel cuz slander is spoken

But regardless Where's the slander/libel? What false statement did he make?

 

[Gwoppo]

I wonder how it will affect the mom (grandma) and son (dad) relationship

 

[*Angel*]

@Koco @Ashley Banks


Brehettes how would u react if your child's father

When you live a certain type of lifestyle you attract a certain type of woman

..

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Thats why I say miss me with that "trust" shyt.

I'm getting one done regardless of how she feels...

Now if I fall for the trust BS and 6 years later I found out then I will probably do what I must for a kid that I care about... but thats it.

Hell I might even try to get custody.. Because old girl is dead to me after that.

 

[Taadow]

Kid has no pops in his life now. Women don't understand how they really affect the separation of the Black family. Sad.

The HELL they don't...they "understand' that chit reeeeeeeal good...

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

OP,

You might want to advise him to remove the document from the net or to redact HER name.

There's an old line about hell hath no fury like a woman scorned......a woman humiliated is just as bad.

Don't let her find the phone number to an ambulance chaser lawyer and sue him for public slander.

All 3 of their names are up on the original.
She's not going to do any of that, she's the type to use proxy violence to solve her problems.