Texting Games And People Trying To Appear Busy In 2016

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Exactly. Used to. Now people want to DM, text, What's app, Kik and whatever else can be used instead of hearing someone's voice. No thanks, not for me unless you don't mind being my text buddy when I'm bored. I don't give out my number to spend time texting. I can give you my email if you want to communicate using your fingers.
You sound like high maintenance :huhldup:it aint that serious just call the nikka and be done with it b:dame:
 

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what context or tone did you risk losing from him telling you he was outside? :rudy:

making a man wait outside in the cold cause he committed the unforgivable sin of texting he was outside instead of calling you and having the following convo:

poor sucker: hey, just wanted to let you know i'm outside
youL oh, alright, i'm coming out just now.
poor sucker: cool.

who's really playing games and being passive aggressive here?

I swear, sometimes I think ya'll just live to be confrontational and annoying on here. What does my preferences have to do with your life? After all, it was not you waiting outside in the cold :leostare:
You took what I said out of context (how convenient). This is what I said - "Too lazy to put in a little effort...even had this dude, who came to pick me up for dinner, text me that he was outside. I just let him sit his butt out the door until he called to tell me he's outside. WTH.
BTW, I don't like anyone blowing their horn to let me know they are outside either.
I extend the same treatment to people that I would like in return. :upsetfavre:
 

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I swear, sometimes I think ya'll just live to be confrontational and annoying on here. What does my preferences have to do with your life? After all, it was not you waiting outside in the cold :leostare:
You took what I said out of context (how convenient). This is what I said - "Too lazy to put in a little effort...even had this dude, who came to pick me up for dinner, text me that he was outside. I just let him sit his butt out the door until he called to tell me he's outside. WTH.
BTW, I don't like anyone blowing their horn to let me know they are outside either.
I extend the same treatment to people that I would like in return. :upsetfavre:
Some of y'all gone be old and single :mjlol: it aint that serious
 

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people dating behavior don't match the kinda rare relationship or person they say they're lookin for.

It's funny to read threads like these and then read the "why can't i find a good man/ nikkas ain't shyt" threads back to back :mjlol:bytch you probably had exactly what you're looking for staring you in the face but passed on it 10 times over behind some finicky shyt...

God created pickiness in women as a natural way to weed ain't shyt bytches outta your life, I don't see why nikkas be mad, be grateful :russ:
 

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Stop playing the you waited to respond now so am I game.


I am bad with text. If I can't/don't reply back immediately chances are I will forget until hours or days. Even if I was thinking about the person and telling myself to remind myself to respond. It's worse when I am stressed. That's why after a while even if I liked the guy I figure he thinks I'm full of it and I just let it go :yeshrug: I had too much going on and I feel bad about being rude.


That being said I prefer text to talking :pachaha:


Thread is real shyt man :heh:.


I hate your avi.
 

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I swear, sometimes I think ya'll just live to be confrontational and annoying on here. What does my preferences have to do with your life? After all, it was not you waiting outside in the cold :leostare:
You took what I said out of context (how convenient). This is what I said - "Too lazy to put in a little effort...even had this dude, who came to pick me up for dinner, text me that he was outside. I just let him sit his butt out the door until he called to tell me he's outside. WTH.
BTW, I don't like anyone blowing their horn to let me know they are outside either.
I extend the same treatment to people that I would like in return. :upsetfavre:

When did you ladies realize that this behavior was accepatable abd justified?

On the outside looking in i would assume ypu are defeating your purpose if you are dealing with men you feel the need to teach a lesson to

Why do you feel so arrogant?
Why do you feel that you need to train the men in your life like a dog?

Elaborate please
 

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Exactly. Used to. Now people want to DM, text, What's app, Kik and whatever else can be used instead of hearing someone's voice. No thanks, not for me unless you don't mind being my text buddy when I'm bored. I don't give out my number to spend time texting. I can give you my email if you want to communicate using your fingers.


I can feel the arrogance dripping from this post

With the whole no thanks part

What makes you so confident in just being dismissive of the dude who is contacting you?

Are there so many men vying for your attention that they become disposable to you?
 

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Sick and tired of people who play texting games. Now if you don't feel like replying immediately then I understand. But to purposely reply within a certain time frame to give off the illusion that you are busy, not on your phone 24/7, etc then your on some bullshyt.

I've dealt with women where if I didn't text them back literally 34 minutes later because my phone wasn't on me, they'd text me back exactly 34 minutes later. What the fukk kinda stupid shyt is that?

I only use my phone mainly for music when I'm out and about. At home I leave it in my room and it's not always near me. But most people, especially women have their phones glued to their hand 24/7.

I could have woke up or been in the gym so I respond to a text message about 2 hours after it was sent, a chick wouldn't respond for either two hours or double that. :mindblown:

And how did you just respond to my text, I ask a question a second later but you don't respond for a couple hours :wtf: Real talk. Have you ever texted a chick, she ain't respond for 10 mins so you don't respond for 10 mins, then she don't respond for 30 mins, so you don't respond for 30 mins then she don't respond for 3 hours?

Not gonna even be that dude that texts anymore. Just gonna call if I want to talk to you or set a time and place to meet up.

Idk bruh...

Idk if its that serious. :francis:


I don't count the minutes or hours a chick text me back..

If I text "Wsup mama... Wyd" and she takes two hours to hit me back she lost that day :yeshrug: ...


...dealing with me they usually know that tho..
 

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If I really like a chick and wanna get to know her I call

If I just wanna smash and Kim I text


:mjpls:
I know. That's why I don't bother with men who make texting their primary mode of communication. Cutting those men out has worked for me. :yeshrug:

I suggest everyone just do what works for them. If you like texting, find and entertain those who like the same. Dating is only hard if you make it hard. :yeshrug:
 

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I swear, sometimes I think ya'll just live to be confrontational and annoying on here. What does my preferences have to do with your life? After all, it was not you waiting outside in the cold :leostare:
You took what I said out of context (how convenient). This is what I said - "Too lazy to put in a little effort...even had this dude, who came to pick me up for dinner, text me that he was outside. I just let him sit his butt out the door until he called to tell me he's outside. WTH.
BTW, I don't like anyone blowing their horn to let me know they are outside either.
I extend the same treatment to people that I would like in return. :upsetfavre:

You're crazy. Instead of comnunucating with the dude and telling him you would rather be called, you did all that extra shyt.:mjlol:
 

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When did you ladies realize that this behavior was accepatable abd justified?

On the outside looking in i would assume ypu are defeating your purpose if you are dealing with men you feel the need to teach a lesson to

Why do you feel so arrogant?
Why do you feel that you need to train the men in your life like a dog?

Elaborate please

Everyone has things they like and dislike...including you and the women you date/married.
I state my preferences up front and anyone is free to comply...or not. This is also the time to clearly state your expectations. If you choose to stay, then you'll know what is expected...just don't stick around and try to manage down my expectations.
I belief that you do teach people how to & how not to treat you. If I ask you to do something, that is within reason, then do it...or don't. Can't make anyone do anything and that includes me.
That's just how I feel about it. It really is that simple.
 

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You're crazy. Instead of comnunucating with the dude and telling him you would rather be called, you did all that extra shyt.:mjlol:
You're crazy...for assuming that I didn't.
Off rip I stated that I am a phone person. After waiting outside, he got the point and called whenever he came to pick me up.
Don't take it personal. Date women who you can treat however you like. Who & what you do has nothing to do with me.
 

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I know. That's why I don't bother with men who make texting their primary mode of communication. Cutting those men out has worked for me. :yeshrug:

I suggest everyone just do what works for them. If you like texting, find and entertain those who like the same. Dating is only hard if you make it hard. :yeshrug:

Word.
 

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Everyone has things they like and dislike...including you and the women you date/married.
I state my preferences up front and anyone is free to comply...or not. This is also the time to clearly state your expectations. If you choose to stay, then you'll know what is expected...just don't stick around and try to manage down my expectations.
I belief that you do teach people how to & how not to treat you. If I ask you to do something, that is within reason, then do it...or don't. Can't make anyone do anything and that includes me.
That's just how I feel about it. It really is that simple.


I got you

You from the school of beanie sigel get down or lay down

A man has to get with your program or else

Thats usually a mans role to lay his program down and the woman follow but if these weak nikkaz is letting you run shyt they deserve it

fukk em
 
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