The moment you knew your relationship was over? (Coli edition)

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Met her in high school and knew I needed her right away, saw her walk into class and it was like slow motion. We started dating a few months later and the relationship was going on 6 yrs but a good portion of it was long distance cause we went to different colleges but we were able to make it work.

When I moved home she was still in school in DC and was getting really busy. Things started to get rocky during the last year and we were taking a break and giving ourselves space. The downward spiral starts here.:mjcry:..one night she hangs out with a friend and her sister, later the sister falls asleep and it's just them too still awake, one thing leads to another and they kiss (the girl was a lesbian but had a bf as a front). Few days later we meet to go to the movies and she tells me what happened, although it wasn't a guy I was still little pissed/confused but I tried to play it off like "word she down for a threesome :shaq:" She stopped talking to the chick after that and I thought things were getting back on track:jawalrus:.
We went out to dinner for my birthday and she suggested we stop by this party, I wasn't about it but said alright. Well of course the chick shows up, they don't talk but the look on my girls face when she saw her said it all. To make things worse we get home and she wouldn't let me smash, on my damn birthday :mindblown:(knew it was over here).She goes ghost the next week after, and when she finally hits me back we meet up and she tells me she's been hanging with the chick and wants to break up :sadbron:they started dating and end up getting married a year later brehs :wow::mjcry:
 

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I was with my ex for 7 years. Been through everything and then some.
:yeshrug:



After a couple of rocky months, we attend a BBQ together. :obama:





She's chatting with her home girls, I'm sitting with the guys. :myman:




She happens to be standing next to the cooler, so I asked her for a beer.

:ld:


She coldly told me to get it myself.:birdman:




At the time I blew it off as attitude. :ld:


But in retrospect, the venom in her tone and the ice grill she shot me should've woke me up. :damn:


She waited another month before leaving me.
:to:





Ancedote: I bought her a jersey in anticipation for the world cup. The day we were supposed to go to watch the game, was the day she moved out. When I came home at night, to an empty house for the first time in 4 years, the ONLY thing she left behind was the jersey I had bought her.
:to:

Still not over it.

:snoop:

thats when you shoulda checked her in front of her homies and her friends :ufdup:

Drag her by the hair to the bathroom if you have to. Her friends would have been lookin like. but :damn:
but their bfs would just be :dwillhuh::manny:
 

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Damn homie:why:

Did he ever contact you after you split?
Did you or he ever address that night?

:ohhh:This shyt real spooky, like some shyt you'll see in a movie
Oh yeah. He had my car, but i was so scared to ask for it back. He called me one night talking shyt, but his ass had someone on the line so when he clicked to hang up it just connected us via 3way. I heard everything, all the times he put stuff in my drinks/food. Things he did to me while i was sleeping. He was telling the person on the phone all this stuff. I had put my phone on mute than ran to my room and put it on speaker my niece recorded it with her phone. When i finally hung up i was :mindblown:. When my sister heard the message she called him and told him if he didnt bring my car back she would report him to the police. She told him to leave me alone and never bother me again. He stopped for a while but i never felt safe. I still dont and that was almost 6 years ago that happened. He denied to my sister and said he was talking about someone else but i didnt care i just wanted him to leave me alone.
 
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yup
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but if she didnt i wouldnt have known and would prob still be with her

blessing in disguise


damn....and i thought i had it bad

i found out that my beloved girlfriend whom has been pushing me to buy us a new home and put a ring on her finger and give her a "baby" had SECRETLY gone behind my back and FILED BANKRUPTCY................

My azz was in denial just figuring she had some prior financial issues from her previous relationship she had to clear up not realizing that I with my "good paying job" and startup business was a "COME UP" for her.............

didn't wanna believe shyt till during a trip to visit her brother during graduation...well she been acting funny all month....getting sassy at the mouth, attitudes....not wanting to fukk....well she left her phone on the bed in the upstairs room where we rest at...i NEVER CHECKED HER PHONE..i always trusted her...but something said I GOTTA DO THIS......ANYWAY this byatch was talking mad shyt about me...TEXTING HER HOMEGIRL ...bout how she planned to cut me off during the next family reunion, and that "he is lucky he got money..cause girl i would had been destroyed his world"...

i couldn't believe this shyt...after all i had done...bought this byatch a fukking car.....paid off late bills....was shopping for a engagement ring....wined and dined her...

mane we was suppose to go out to dinner following the graduation..i made up some excuse about having to be called into work.......

she was pissed..she knew it was bullshyt.........we got back to the crib and she made a remark about how pissed she was and that i might need to rent a room or something cause she didnt' feel comfortable with me there..

i said fine took the keys to the CAR which was still in my name and dipped on her monkey azz........

i felt thier was no need for explanation.....she HAD A MOTIVE..and i caught it just in time.........................

thank god i didn't buy that ring nor get her pregnant.............that byatch was looking for that MARRIAGE and CHILD SUPPPORT stimulus package.....

we wouldnt have lasted more than 3 months , and she would have gave me a serious L

FUKK DAT SHYT..............NOW IM HARD ON HOES 2.O!!!!
 
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thats when you shoulda checked her in front of her homies and her friends :ufdup:

Drag her by the hair to the bathroom if you have to. Her friends would have been lookin like. but :damn:
but their bfs would just be :dwillhuh::manny:


My ancestors might've done it (my grandfather :merchant:)


But I worship the ground she walks on.:sadcam:


I deserved it because I didn't appreciate her.:yeshrug:



One example of the "foul" type of shyt I did.

She came home after 2 weeks away doing research for her PHD. it happened to be Friday. I spent all day with her and we had a nice day. Came bed time and I'm wide awake and my boys are calling me. An ILL party was supposedly happening and at the time that sort of thing was more important.


She BEGGED me to stay home with her.

I left and stayed out till 5am. She should've left me sooner.:francis:

I learned my lesson though
 

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damn....and i thought i had it bad

i found out that my beloved girlfriend whom has been pushing me to buy us a new home and put a ring on her finger and give her a "baby" had SECRETLY gone behind my back and FILED BANKRUPTCY................

My azz was in denial just figuring she had some prior financial issues from her previous relationship she had to clear up not realizing that I with my "good paying job" and startup business was a "COME UP" for her.............

didn't wanna believe shyt till during a trip to visit her brother during graduation...well she been acting funny all month....getting sassy at the mouth, attitudes....not wanting to fukk....well she left her phone on the bed in the upstairs room where we rest at...i NEVER CHECKED HER PHONE..i always trusted her...but something said I GOTTA DO THIS......ANYWAY this byatch was talking mad shyt about me...TEXTING HER HOMEGIRL ...bout how she planned to cut me off during the next family reunion, and that "he is lucky he got money..cause girl i would had been destroyed his world"...

i couldn't believe this shyt...after all i had done...bought this byatch a fukking car.....paid off late bills....was shopping for a engagement ring....wined and dined her...

mane we was suppose to go out to dinner following the graduation..i made up some excuse about having to be called into work.......

she was pissed..she knew it was bullshyt.........we got back to the crib and she made a remark about how pissed she was and that i might need to rent a room or something cause she didnt' feel comfortable with me there..

i said fine took the keys to the CAR which was still in my name and dipped on her monkey azz........

i felt thier was no need for explanation.....she HAD A MOTIVE..and i caught it just in time.........................

thank god i didn't buy that ring nor get her pregnant.............that byatch was looking for that MARRIAGE and CHILD SUPPPORT stimulus package.....

we wouldnt have lasted more than 3 months , and she would have gave me a serious L

FUKK DAT SHYT..............NOW IM HARD ON HOES 2.O!!!!

and there are some dumb n1ggas (and females) that say it is insecure to be checking ur significant other's phone. do you see how u doing exactly that saved your ass???
 
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I was with my ex for 7 years. Been through everything and then some.
:yeshrug:



After a couple of rocky months, we attend a BBQ together. :obama:





She's chatting with her home girls, I'm sitting with the guys. :myman:




She happens to be standing next to the cooler, so I asked her for a beer.

:ld:


She coldly told me to get it myself.:birdman:




At the time I blew it off as attitude. :ld:


But in retrospect, the venom in her tone and the ice grill she shot me should've woke me up. :damn:


She waited another month before leaving me.
:to:





Ancedote: I bought her a jersey in anticipation for the world cup. The day we were supposed to go to watch the game, was the day she moved out. When I came home at night, to an empty house for the first time in 4 years, the ONLY thing she left behind was the jersey I had bought her.
:to:

Still not over it.

:snoop:
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Ex-Wife looked me in the face and told me I'd be 38 years old making $12.50...


That was The moment I absolutely and completely fell out of love with her disrespectful ass


Filed for divorce a few months later:blessed:


Couldn't be happier.


And for the record I'm 9 years away from being 38 and I make MUCH more than $12.50:youngsabo:
 

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When, after 2 years of investing my time, money, and soul into her, cutting off my family because she hated them, losing all my friends, and enduring non-stop emotional and verbal abuse, one day she just up and told me. "I don't love you anymore"


:mjlol:




:mjcry:
 
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