The moment you knew your relationship was over? (Coli edition)

Silkk

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I would have put bof of em in da hospital or somethin.

Hand em bof a couple buck fifties to da face so dey'll always rememba me when dey look in da mirror.

Mah best friend and mah fiance? Nah, caint let dat shyt ride without some kinda repercussions. :francis:
I would've ran up on they ass like

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damn....and i thought i had it bad

i found out that my beloved girlfriend whom has been pushing me to buy us a new home and put a ring on her finger and give her a "baby" had SECRETLY gone behind my back and FILED BANKRUPTCY................

My azz was in denial just figuring she had some prior financial issues from her previous relationship she had to clear up not realizing that I with my "good paying job" and startup business was a "COME UP" for her.............

didn't wanna believe shyt till during a trip to visit her brother during graduation...well she been acting funny all month....getting sassy at the mouth, attitudes....not wanting to fukk....well she left her phone on the bed in the upstairs room where we rest at...i NEVER CHECKED HER PHONE..i always trusted her...but something said I GOTTA DO THIS......ANYWAY this byatch was talking mad shyt about me...TEXTING HER HOMEGIRL ...bout how she planned to cut me off during the next family reunion, and that "he is lucky he got money..cause girl i would had been destroyed his world"...

i couldn't believe this shyt...after all i had done...bought this byatch a fukking car.....paid off late bills....was shopping for a engagement ring....wined and dined her...

mane we was suppose to go out to dinner following the graduation..i made up some excuse about having to be called into work.......

she was pissed..she knew it was bullshyt.........we got back to the crib and she made a remark about how pissed she was and that i might need to rent a room or something cause she didnt' feel comfortable with me there..

i said fine took the keys to the CAR which was still in my name and dipped on her monkey azz........

i felt thier was no need for explanation.....she HAD A MOTIVE..and i caught it just in time.........................

thank god i didn't buy that ring nor get her pregnant.............that byatch was looking for that MARRIAGE and CHILD SUPPPORT stimulus package.....

we wouldnt have lasted more than 3 months , and she would have gave me a serious L

FUKK DAT SHYT..............NOW IM HARD ON HOES 2.O!!!!

Ya know, previously I was 100% against checking phones or installing a tracker on the phone. But now, I can understand doing so if you plan on proposing or are already engaged and are planning on the wedding. For most folks, marriage is one of the biggest decisions they'll ever make. So, it makes sense to have evidence of this person being on the up and up. One wouldn't buy a house or car without checking the numbers. So, why get married on blind faith, love and trust.

Maybe @Emperor_ReinScarf has been right all along :jbhmm:

Peace
 

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I was away for school and she started hanging out with one of my "buddies" too much. Started mentioning him in all the stories she shared with me until I got the "I ain't really ready to date anyone" and then started dating him a couple of days later. :francis:

He also fukked within two weeks of dating her (Honestly, probably before but I have no proof) and I was dating her for like 6 months and didn't get past kissing. :francis:

Completely ignored a couple of cuties at my HBCU to have a long distance relationship with a senior in HS that ended up fukking one of my friends. :russ:

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Me and my girlfriend were at a bar for my birthday, with all my family and friends. She went to the bar to get another drink but forgot her phone in her chair. I see it light up, grab it, look around for her, and see a text saying "I wish you were here too baby" so I open it up.

The stuff she was saying to him and about me was :scust: and :dwillhuh: at the same time.,

And this was the first girl, that I was in a relationship with, that I had she's with so I was really into her and I was still reeling with confidence issues about my last issues. :mjcry:

fukk relationships :mjcry:
 

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When I moved to houston and she slowly stopped saying I love you when we hung up the phone or texted. 6yrs down the drain within 2.5 months of a long distant relationship. In hind-site 4yrs into our relationship I knew we were gonna break up because of distance but convinced myself that maybe just maybe she would make it work.

When she wanted me to fill up her gas tank and we had only been together for 1 month. When I told her I was waiting for her to give me the gas money she blew up on me, "ARE YOU KIDDING ME!!!!!!! ITS FREAKING $25 YOU CAN'T DO $25!!!!!" at that moment I was just in shock. It was like time had froze "Wow.... bruh what are you doing?... you're dating a fat single mother and shes yelling at you about putting gas in her car that you don't even drive..." I broke up with her that same day through text while she was driving to san antonio. Tried to be just friends with her but she thought I should have been trying to win her back. The last straw was one day her calling me asking to borrow $800 so she could catch up with her bills. When I told her no she flipped out and said that I should be comfortable giving her $800 because she was my ex girlfriend:mindblown:.

That was the moment breh...that was the moment :to:
 

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Thankfully ( or not? )

We weren't married. That's part of the reason she left me. I never proposed. She wasn't perfect by any means she was/is my soulmate.

She gave up on me and I'm beginingg to accept I'll just never be as happy as I was. Same thing happened when my mother died. You learn to accept life.

:mjcry: don't say that fam....happiness is around the corner for you
 

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I've got too many stories. Stories that would have y'all wondering if I was in therapy or nah...:snoop::to::birdman:
 
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when i asked one of my exes if she fukked som1 else already, and she asked if it would matter.

when i didnt picked up my phone for 3 days because i couldnt stand the whiny bytching anymore from my other ex
 

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The last time we spent time together.He was talking about me moving in with him and everything. I helped him clean up his place and I found dozens of letters, cards and such from various other women. He was saying and doing the same things with them as he was doing with me. I wasn't really that upset because a couple of those letters and cards were sent when we were broken up for like year and some change.

But it was one letter in particular got all up under my skin. I found it in a valentine's day card. She explained that she loved him more than she loved her husband and what she could do for him if he only gave her a chance. But the icing on the cake was when she said she was pregnant with his baby and that she didn't want any money to help with the abortion. The letter went on to say she just wanted him to be more supportive and what day and time she was having the abortion. She also said that she loved him and that she knew he loved her because he had told her so.

I was like this is why this negro forgot about my birthday and Valentine's Day which are close together. I went the rest of the day like nothing happened. He dropped me off that evening and I texted him later and asked about the situation. Needless to say he was upset that I read his letter. We fought for a couple more days before I just went ghost.

I had given him too much of my time, love, and devotion just for him to be telling other broads he loved them. I had given him too many chances to change over the years...but I guess it's true a zebra really can't change its stripes. :francis::to::bryan:
 

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The last time we spent time together.He was talking about me moving in with him and everything. I helped him clean up his place and I found dozens of letters, cards and such from various other women. He was saying and doing the same things with them as he was doing with me. I wasn't really that upset because a couple of those letters and cards were sent when we were broken up for like year and some change.

But it was one letter in particular got all up under my skin. I found it in a valentine's day card. She explained that she loved him more than she loved her husband and what she could do for him if he only gave her a chance. But the icing on the cake was when she said she was pregnant with his baby and that she didn't want any money to help with the abortion. The letter went on to say she just wanted him to be more supportive and what day and time she was having the abortion. She also said that she loved him and that she knew he loved her because he had told her so.

I was like this is why this negro forgot about my birthday and Valentine's Day which are close together. I went the rest of the day like nothing happened. He dropped me off that evening and I texted him later and asked about the situation. Needless to say he was upset that I read his letter. We fought for a couple more days before I just went ghost.

I had given him too much of my time, love, and devotion just for him to be telling other broads he loved them. I had given him too many chances to change over the years...but I guess it's true a zebra really can't change its stripes. :francis::to::bryan:

:mjcry: @ her being pregnant with his baby. The pain :damn:............:to:
 

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I was away for school and she started hanging out with one of my "buddies" too much. Started mentioning him in all the stories she shared with me until I got the "I ain't really ready to date anyone" and then started dating him a couple of days later. :francis:

He also fukked within two weeks of dating her (Honestly, probably before but I have no proof) and I was dating her for like 6 months and didn't get past kissing. :francis:

Completely ignored a couple of cuties at my HBCU to have a long distance relationship with a senior in HS that ended up fukking one of my friends. :russ:

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Me and my girlfriend were at a bar for my birthday, with all my family and friends. She went to the bar to get another drink but forgot her phone in her chair. I see it light up, grab it, look around for her, and see a text saying "I wish you were here too baby" so I open it up.

The stuff she was saying to him and about me was :scust: and :dwillhuh: at the same time.,

And this was the first girl, that I was in a relationship with, that I had she's with so I was really into her and I was still reeling with confidence issues about my last issues. :mjcry:

fukk relationships :mjcry:

:dwillhuh: on your birthday damn :wow:


I broke up with that one girl I trolled (mentioned earlier in the thread) like 2 days before Christmas. Returned all of those gifts :mjlol:
 
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