Both of you are making a good point.
@Conan is right that we can't shield Democrats from criticism just because the GOP is worse. If we don't push them to be better, they'll remain stagnant, and people will continue to lose faith and stay at home. At the same time,
@Outlaw is right that even a bold, principled Democratic Party can't do much if the opposition is a party that thrives on obstruction and bad faith.
We shouldn't have to choose one side here. It's not "either hold Democrats accountable or focus on the threat of Republicans." It's both. We need to push Democrats to be bold and principled, not just "better than Republicans." We also have to recognize that as long as the GOP is structurally incentivized to act as a fascist-adjacent, anti-democratic force, systemic progress will remain fragile.
That's why we have to advocate for structural reforms that weaken the GOP's ability to win and hold power through minority rule. Because unless Democrats are strong *and* Republicans are reined in, we'll stay stuck in this destructive spiral.