The truth about women not being "protected".

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I and many black men have physically protected MANY black women.

The part I hate the most is where they blame black men AS A GROUP.

One black man = all black men for some reason.

A carry over from White supremacy.

Like if one of us is in the court room, we are all in there with them.

It's always all, not one.
 

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hopefully your female family members you care about need help/protection one day.and all the hoe ass bystanders do nothin but record for world star

Only clown Im seein is you. Every ngga I can think of, would be willin to pop a top for their lady right now. Im not even gonna mention a mom or sister.

Y'all are talking past each other. It's not about defending your lady bc your lady (or moms or whatever) ain't with you all the time. The only way "protecting our women" worked traditionally, much less in a modern world where women move around freely, is if ALL the men of x group decide to protect ALL women of x group.

Yall could maybe start by discussing some physical markers of in group status since our communities are too big to know the details of every woman you walk by. Nothing crazy. It can start as simple as, 'our women don't wear unnatural hair colors, so we know those aint ours. :hubie:'
 

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The only way "protecting our women" worked traditionally, much less in a modern world where women move around freely, is if ALL the men of x group decide to protect ALL women of x group.

Yall could maybe start by discussing some physical markers of in group status since our communities are too big to know the details of every woman you walk by. Nothing crazy. It can start as simple as, 'our women don't wear unnatural hair colors, so we know those aint ours.

Again...most women today aren't traditional. The same could probably be said for a lot of men as well. Point is, you can't protect or guard, hard-headed women, that won't allow you to do so.
 

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Again...most women today aren't traditional. The same could probably be said for a lot of men as well. Point is, you can't protect or guard, hard-headed women, that won't allow you to do so.
You miss my point. Currently, as a traditional woman, I'm protected by 98% of bm i encounter. I have little to no fear in these streets (but I'm still on point tho), and nikkas don't do me dirty. Why? Bc i look like a respectable woman. I have literally had nikkas give me that look like shyt about to pop and tell me, 'go in the store, ma. :birdman:'

So, obviously, bm have some protective instinct. The question becomes how can you tell if a given woman is worthy of protection? Physical markers.

That's how everybody else distinguishes between different classes of their own women. Treat hoes like hoes and respectable women like respectable women. Men are 'allowed' to set standards and limits on their protection.
 

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Only clown Im seein is you. Every ngga I can think of, would be willin to pop a top for their lady right now. Im not even gonna mention a mom or sister.

Nggas be so simple-minded, they be ready to air another cat over a sidepiece, when they know they deal wit multiple women themselves. So how arent black women protected? Shut ur simp ass up...:mjlol:
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Funny coming from women who spent 20 years on some “nikkas ain’t shyt”, “I’m an independent woman”, “treat us equally, I can do everything you can.”

If you want to be protected, you need to open yourself up to be protected.

Don’t wait until your life is in danger to switch to the damsel in distress.

There’s nothing wrong with admitting we need each other.
+REP. damn this thread got some heat brehs
 

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You miss my point. Currently, as a traditional woman, I'm protected by 98% of bm i encounter. I have little to no fear in these streets (but I'm still on point tho), and nikkas don't do me dirty. Why? Bc i look like a respectable woman. I have literally had nikkas give me that look like shyt about to pop and tell me, 'go in the store, ma. :birdman:'

So, obviously, bm have some protective instinct. The question becomes how can you tell if a given woman is worthy of protection? Physical markers.

That's how everybody else distinguishes between different classes of their own women. Treat hoes like hoes and respectable women like respectable women. Men are 'allowed' to set standards and limits on their protection.

Light work for me the real is regardless of how :mjpls:, it comes off

If you got flamboyantly dyed hair, excessively long fake nails, them tiger/leopard skin pattern leggings, talking loud as all hell, with a certified street nikka who is clearly in street nikka mode (as opposed to being reserved and calm), walking around half nekkid, etc. Imma take a rain check on getting involved. Also if you give off brash feminist/confrontational vibes Imma pass then too, because while you "technically" could've not done anything wrong I've learned situational awareness on those types be damn near non existent, criticizing/acting boldly around people more than ready to take em down a few pegs. Can't fukk with blatant liabilities. If you're reasonably clothed and seemingly minding your business and not with no shady/suspect characters, yeah I'll do something
 

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A lot of these women that claim they aren’t protected are fatherless women. A woman who has a good father in her life wouldn’t have the need to say shyt like this. Which seeing a two parent home amongst the African American family unit is rare.
 

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The black women aren't protected bullshyt thats been going on is really a byproduct of the divest/lesbian/Bell Hooks wing of nikkasaintshytism religion.


NOBODY is more protected than a black mama. NOBODY. Its nikkas that are willing to go to the grave today for their mama. Most black men protect the women that are in their life. How many black men are in jail right now because they were fighting or killing over a black woman? We not even going to get into sisters or daughters......because i would kill for my lil girls to keep them safe.

But thats real life. Alot of these NoName and LSA types dont think about real life. They think about celebs and social media.

Their version of "protect black women" is nikkas going on twitter crusades for z-list celebs or some random nikka on social media making a c00n ass joke. Thats their version of protection. And there is also a segment of black women (women in general tbh) that lacks accountability. They make choices based on impulse and they wind up in the situations they are in chasing the wrong shyt. Then they want a nikka to be on standby, stranger or not, to bail them out of an impending ass whuppin they done walked into. Protect black women for them means, stick up for me even when i make foolish ass short minded decisions.
 

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I can guarantee you alot of them women yapping that shyt wouldn't even fukk with a dude thats actually would protect them, be loyal to them because thats too "boring" Either that or because he don't have the "swagger" or "charisma".

Alot of them broads(esp the Meg the Stallion types) seek and put themselves around chaos because its exciting to them.Then want a square to take a bullet for em when it gets really real out there out of the code of "protecting the queens"
 

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A carry over from White supremacy.

Like if one of us is in the court room, we are all in there with them.

It's always all, not one.
“No, not Uncle Snoop :picard:
 

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Big facts couldn't said it better myself :wow: the whole black woman ain't protected thing is a myth and some of them are at their own fault for it. It's two way street just like every man can't go around expecting submission from every woman he meets without offering something every woman can't expect protection from every man they meet without offering something.

Just like a lot of these women favorite line is women don't owe you nothing well men don't owe women nothing as well including protection.
 
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. If you're reasonably clothed and seemingly minding your business and not with no shady/suspect characters, yeah I'll do something
That seems to be the slight consensus.

So let it be known, matter of factly, not sassy and petty: 'if it look like she belong to the streets, Ima leave her in the streets. I can only go by what you show me. :yeshrug:'

Bc, as of now, the vast majority of you are repeating: 'i only gaf about my female relatives and wives', and thats only if you just so happen to be present at that time.

As an extremely well protected, even coddled, woman, low key, even i be forced to look at y'all funny. And i dont want to! Thank God i go out (corona notwithstanding).
 
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