The truth about women not being "protected".

[TaxCollector13459]

I was about to go jump in the shower but now y'all got a breh's wheels turning on this topic, and I had to sit down and type.

Chelsea, while I appreciate your opinions, I can't help but feel that you're purposely ignoring the OP's point. When women talk about not being protected, I haven't heard not one of them say, "And when I say black women aren't protected, I'm talking about childbirth"

That's a false equivalency. What do black men have to do with hospital conditions and poor healthcare?

So that's never been their argument. The argument is that they aren't protected by BLACK MEN. Now of course, my personal feelings on it is this: In a sense, they're right. Black men have to do a better job when it comes to protecting our women, but the other side of that is... we can't protect a woman that doesn't want to be protected, which is what OP is saying.

Protection requires security, security requires discipline... Discipline about who you hang with, who you engage with, where you hang out at. I can't protect a woman that wants to be shaking her @$$ all on camera, getting half nude on IG.

How can I? Her behavior is attracting the degenerates that she wants me to protect her from. It's the equivalent of a woman being with a man, and then talking trash to another man, thereby getting herself and her man into a needless altercation.

Protection doesnt mean, let's go into these situations and start these fights, and then Imma fight our way out of it.

Protection is often what you do BEFORE the altercation starts. I know that you putting your @$$ on the internet will get you disrespected, so don't do it.

I know that you walking around talking about you living your "hot girl summer" is gonna put you in situations where you will get disrespected and/or hurt, so don't do it.

But no, these women want to do whatever they want, and then complain when they meet the end result of the path they're choosing, and then look to us to be saviors for them.

What do I look like putting my life in danger for a woman that is sleeping around with multiple men, hanging with the wrong crowd, living a reckless life?

So now I'm supposed to put myself at risk for her? And really and truly, all men know this (or should know this). The fact that no black man with a platform has spoken up and said this shows you the power of our matriarchal society. They're afraid of the heat they'll get from women if they say this.

They talk that protection shyt but if one of these random clark kent simps get his shyt buss out here, they not going to the funeral.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I've been hearing a lot from black women saying they aren't protected , this isn't a bash thread but I want these women to realize something men have known for awhile now. Protection ain't free, it doesn't come as a standard feature just because you're a woman and just because I'm a man. That be like me expecting submission from every woman I come across.

Protection is reserved for family, wives, girlfriends and those in need of protection as I deem it.

No man can protect a woman from herself. The problem with the sentiment that all black men need to protect black woman is that it's fundamentally taking a patriarchal approach to a world that doesn't value men for being patriarchs , but I guess patriarchy is ok as long as it's the benevolent kind , furthermore , it's a misnomer to assume all black women support black men by default, there are plenty of outliers who can attest to this baseless presumption.

As a man, defending every woman's honour is a costly and foolish endeavor, shootout to Merlin Santana. Furthermore, if Meg truly wanted , then it would probably make the most sense for (and other women) to pursue relationships with men who are protectors. Think of an actor, bodyguard, military contractor, lawyer, etc. Or some kind of man with a good track record of treating women. Her dating record suggest otherwise, you can't help being attracted to who you like, but there are always red flags.

I've noticed that women choose men like Mr. Lanez for certain reasons, Mr. Lanez is not a patriarchal man in the sense of being a traditional protector/provider, I understand that Tory Lanez is the fun time guy, you can smoke all the weed, do all the coke, twerk all day and be as free and ratchet as she wants to be around him, whereas other men who are serious about wives would judge her and check her for being a "hot girl" . However, you can't expect Mr. Lanez to be something he never was, and she chose him for that reason, because she wanted a Bobby brown for her Whitney. Except Bobby actually loved Whitney. This is just a no strings attached arrangement from a non patriarchal inclined man.

Expecting that is not so radical at all. It be like a black men exclusively dating women who frequently exchange their bodies for currency and then complaining about gold diggers and whores, it's nonsensical.

I agree with all of this

I personally stayed out of the Megan the stallion threads because all I know is that she got shot by Tory Lanez...

She sitting in a car butt naked intoxicated with a nikka who she seemingly has no care with being with... and she wants to say black women arent protected


Sounds to me like its women not taking responsibility like adults once again... picking hoe ass nikkas for hoe ass reasons then when some hoe shyt happens it’s all black mens fault.

And people thought I was joking when I said there is a war against black men.

She does olall this thot shyt, makes thot music about shaking her ass and being involved in illegal shyt... talking all this noise about ratchet/materialistic stuff and now its a decent black mans job to save you/protect you from your own dumb ass decisions

 

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Yes, but then ain't now. You know good and well, if a bw calls the police on a bm, they coming.

Bw need to stop having Color Purple flashbacks and acclimate to new conditions. If a nikka is whooping somebody ass, there is a veritable plethora of options. We are not our grandmothers.

Now lets build anew.

Yeah but many aren’t calling the police. I see far too many women still getting their asses whooped and keeping it under wraps. Hell they more likely to tell the internet than they are to go to the police these days.

I be wondering...why the fukk are you recording this?!
I do agree that options are better today than yesteryear, but many Black women have such low sense of self-worth that they aren’t taking those options which is tragic IMO.

 

[Serious]

Well, yeah. A bw who worked at the damn cdc died like this.

So are bm gonna protest and demand change for the mothers of their children like we be out there for y'all? I feel like regular normal ados women aren't necessarily good at organizing our own defense...?

I don’t protest.

I’m in it for disruption and to change the laws.

 

[NobodyReally]

This has nothing to do with "hoes" and being traditional. This starts from the crib. I'm just gonna leave this here.

How Black Girls Aren’t Presumed to Be Innocent: A new study finds that adults view them as less child-like and less in need of protection than their white peers.

How Black Girls Aren't Presumed to Be Innocent

 

[Serious]

Yeah but many aren’t calling the police. I see far too many women still getting their asses whooped and keeping it under wraps. Hell they more likely to tell the internet than they are to go to the police these days.

I be wondering...why the fukk are you recording this?!
I do agree that options are better today than yesteryear, but many Black women have such low sense of self-worth that they aren’t taking those options which is tragic IMO.

Proximity, poverty and racism. Gotta fix those then a lot of shyt will change. Until then every argument is like a self perpetuating vacuum

 

[Serious]

This has nothing to do with "hoes" and being traditional. This starts from the crib. I'm just gonna leave this here.

How Black Girls Aren’t Presumed to Be Innocent: A new study finds that adults view them as less child-like and less in need of protection than their white peers.

How Black Girls Aren't Presumed to Be Innocent

That’s racism.

 

[tuckgod]

The black women aren't protected bullshyt thats been going on is really a byproduct of the divest/lesbian/Bell Hooks wing of nikkasaintshytism religion.


NOBODY is more protected than a black mama. NOBODY. Its nikkas that are willing to go to the grave today for their mama. Most black men protect the women that are in their life. How many black men are in jail right now because they were fighting or killing over a black woman? We not even going to get into sisters or daughters......because i would kill for my lil girls to keep them safe.

But thats real life. Alot of these NoName and LSA types dont think about real life. They think about celebs and social media.

Their version of "protect black women" is nikkas going on twitter crusades for z-list celebs or some random nikka on social media making a c00n ass joke. Thats their version of protection. And there is also a segment of black women (women in general tbh) that lacks accountability. They make choices based on impulse and they wind up in the situations they are in chasing the wrong shyt. Then they want a nikka to be on standby, stranger or not, to bail them out of an impending ass whuppin they done walked into. Protect black women for them means, stick up for me even when i make foolish ass short minded decisions.

Repped.

 

[TaxCollector13459]

This has nothing to do with "hoes" and being traditional. This starts from the crib. I'm just gonna leave this here.

How Black Girls Aren’t Presumed to Be Innocent: A new study finds that adults view them as less child-like and less in need of protection than their white peers.

How Black Girls Aren't Presumed to Be Innocent

So basically we getting treated the same still at the end of the day

 

[NobodyReally]

That’s racism.

It intersects with gender though in strange ways though because if you read the report, this is being perpetrated by Black folks in damaging ways as well.

 

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Proximity, poverty and racism. Gotta fix those then a lot of shyt will change. Until then every argument is like a self perpetuating vacuum

Yep. It seems ridiculous to some but I blame white supremacy for all of this.

I think gender issues are ubiquitous to ALL cultures, but the shyt we endure has clear racially engineered origins. To me nobody black is protected in a white society. I don’t deny that Black women aren’t protected but I also don’t blame black men as a whole for this.

They not protected either. Not even as children.

 

[NobodyReally]

So basically we getting treated the same still at the end of the day

No, we're getting treated differently, but they're both bad. I wouldn't compare. But it's different when gender gets put in the mix. No worse or better, just different.

 

[TaxCollector13459]

Yep. It seems ridiculous to some but I blame white supremacy for all of this.

I think gender issues are ubiquitous to ALL cultures, but the shyt we endure has clear racially engineered origins. To me nobody black is protected in a white society. I don’t deny that Black women aren’t protected but I also don’t blame black men as a whole for this.

They not protected either. Not even as children.

That's what I'm saying, yall be imagining stuff.shyt, we gotta scrap out the gate

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

This has nothing to do with "hoes" and being traditional. This starts from the crib. I'm just gonna leave this here.

How Black Girls Aren’t Presumed to Be Innocent: A new study finds that adults view them as less child-like and less in need of protection than their white peers.

How Black Girls Aren't Presumed to Be Innocent

This. And it leads to dangerous ideas about black women, like people saying we’re good to beat on b/c bruises won’t show on our skin.

Blacks internalize this shyt and young girls grow up thinking abuse is love. Little boys grow up thinking leadership is abuse.

 

[TaxCollector13459]

No, we're getting treated differently, but they're both bad. I wouldn't compare. But it's different when gender gets put in the mix. No worse or better, just different.

True, but I meant as far as people not looking at black women as victims. Society ain't never looked at me as a black man a victim. So its hard for me to really let this shyt slide, especially when it coulda been avoided.

If you get ya azz blamed riding with the wrong cats, aint gonna be nun of this