Family Man
Banned
Right. Don't let these bytches guilt and gaslight you into being a simp. Like you said, "protection" (whatever that means) is reserved for the women I have a deep and personal relationship with.
The truth about women not being "protected".
- Thread starter Un-AmericanDreamer
- Start date
Cel 510 kid ados forever
Veteran
She should look for protection
From
Dad
Brothers
So
Male friends
Counsins
No one else owes her protection
From
Dad
Brothers
So
Male friends
Counsins
No one else owes her protection
Damn brehs going hard in this thread
You don't get caught up in shootings and drama when you date Poindexter the IT geek with 6 certs, but I guess he's not exciting or appealing enough to women who want pRoTeCtioN
Not much to say that ain't already been covered by all the brehs in this thread.
Crazy how they're so against patriarchy and so independent until shyt hits the fan and they go back to their nature of wanting to be protected and provided for.
Crazy how they're so against patriarchy and so independent until shyt hits the fan and they go back to their nature of wanting to be protected and provided for.
This is the root cause of why I made the are you willing to die alone thread bc I'm ready, if a level headed non thotting relatively educated black woman isn't on the table I'll ride off into the sunset dolo
The same men who preach SUBMISSION all day long are also some of the same men who want to beat black women’s asses. So are we gonna be honest, or do I have to be the bad guy once again and say what we not willing to admit to.
Plenty of those traditional black women who “submitted” back in the day were getting their asses beaten by our grandfathers, getting children molested, getting cheated on, and those women who “SUBMITTED” just took it. Didn’t say a word. Hell even Dave Chappelle talked about blk women keeping these secrets.
So please miss me with the whole “if u want protection, u gotta submit” when you still holding a dikk wall of silence and are unwilling to call out the dudes in our culture who DO fukk up ur women, all while talking about blk female accountability when many have none for themselves. Women in traditional submissive relationships worldwide get their asses beat. In fact, some of these SUBMIT stooges feel like it’s their right. So already you fukked up with that mentality. Try again.
As for black women, this is going to hurt to acknowledge, but we have NEVER been protected in this country. Not when we were stripped naked and sold on an auction block, not when our children were ripped away from us and used as gator bait, not when we were raped and beaten like men, not when our husbands were lynched and we were hanging from trees.
Our image has never been protected, even as we see some blk men themselves join in to call other races of women submissive and glorify a version of femininity that black women aren’t afforded an opportunity to display. A white woman can fukk a dog, call for a black man to be lynched, be a whore and a porn star, and many in the world including some of our men will STILL pull out a cape in her PAWG defense, but get disgusted at a blk female rocking a weave, even as she feeds him, keeps him from being homeless, raised him when his father went to the store for some cigarettes and takes care of him in his old age.
Our motherhood isn’t protected, as we are experimented on, left alone to die on the childbirth table 3 times more than non-black women. Our bodies and young black girls aren’t protected. Thanks R. Kelly and those who are more willing to call a young girl fast instead of calling out grown ass men who go to the hood to hunt underage girls (And boys) like they trolling for impoverished people to exploit in 3rd world countries.
Smash and dash and pimp culture being glorified in our communities means ZERO accountability for men many who start grooming desperate poor black girls at early ages, while blaming black women for everything. And the worse part is, if black women complain or even say anything, it’s taken as black male hate or bashing.
But guess what? Black men aren’t protected either. Protection and safety comes only exists for whites within white supremacy b/c they are the apex predators of the world.
Saying black women aren’t protected isn’t an indictment of all black men. It’s just a statement of fact when you are racially the farthest from those who represent the pinnacle of power: a white man. Black women get fukked over by white supremacy and some black men and by Black women themselves as much as we don’t want to admit it. And some Black women don’t protect themselves.
So instead of getting emotional about this, just be honest. None of these realities are good black men and black women’s faults. Black men aren’t protected either and some of black women’s behaviors compound their vulnerability if we being REALLY real.
To combat these issues, more blk men risking their lives isn’t the answer, b/c many already do. When I tell black women that they have to learn to protect themselves, that’s not throwing shade at black men. That’s telling people who are physically vulnerable to start putting themselves first. Vet the hell out of men in your circle. Fukk their feelings. Assert yourself. Damn the angry Black woman trope. Don’t have ANYBODY’s babies if they don’t love and cherish you. I don’t care if birthrates drop to the negatives. If they threaten your life, shoot to kill. Get your money up. Stop housing male parasites. Kick him out of your house and off your crib. Stop bringing strangers around your children and crying when they get sexually abused. Stop operating in a deficit mindset when it comes to men and accepting anything b/c you think nobody will want you.
Also protection goes both ways. Black men need your protection too. Keep yourself out of fukked up situations so a black man won’t have to risk his life trying save you from a situation you put urself in. Help keep him out of trouble too.
All of that has to be done by Black women themselves. As for black men protecting Black women, the best way to do this is to stop trying to justify the fukked up shyt some blk men do to black women just b:c you trying to keep a dikk code of silence. Stop thinking shyt sweet with these gangbanger rappers who treated Black women like shyt back in the day just b/c you resonated with their music. Stop trying to adopt alt-right misogyny b/c you not getting the p*ssy you feel like you deserve. Stop putting non-blk women on a pedestal. And if you aren’t guilty of doing any of this, stop getting in the way of accountability for those who are just b/c you don’t want to admit to the fukked up shyt your gender does.
We can do better. But not if we keep lying to ourselves about our flaws.
Plenty of those traditional black women who “submitted” back in the day were getting their asses beaten by our grandfathers, getting children molested, getting cheated on, and those women who “SUBMITTED” just took it. Didn’t say a word. Hell even Dave Chappelle talked about blk women keeping these secrets.
So please miss me with the whole “if u want protection, u gotta submit” when you still holding a dikk wall of silence and are unwilling to call out the dudes in our culture who DO fukk up ur women, all while talking about blk female accountability when many have none for themselves. Women in traditional submissive relationships worldwide get their asses beat. In fact, some of these SUBMIT stooges feel like it’s their right. So already you fukked up with that mentality. Try again.
As for black women, this is going to hurt to acknowledge, but we have NEVER been protected in this country. Not when we were stripped naked and sold on an auction block, not when our children were ripped away from us and used as gator bait, not when we were raped and beaten like men, not when our husbands were lynched and we were hanging from trees.
Our image has never been protected, even as we see some blk men themselves join in to call other races of women submissive and glorify a version of femininity that black women aren’t afforded an opportunity to display. A white woman can fukk a dog, call for a black man to be lynched, be a whore and a porn star, and many in the world including some of our men will STILL pull out a cape in her PAWG defense, but get disgusted at a blk female rocking a weave, even as she feeds him, keeps him from being homeless, raised him when his father went to the store for some cigarettes and takes care of him in his old age.
Our motherhood isn’t protected, as we are experimented on, left alone to die on the childbirth table 3 times more than non-black women. Our bodies and young black girls aren’t protected. Thanks R. Kelly and those who are more willing to call a young girl fast instead of calling out grown ass men who go to the hood to hunt underage girls (And boys) like they trolling for impoverished people to exploit in 3rd world countries.
Smash and dash and pimp culture being glorified in our communities means ZERO accountability for men many who start grooming desperate poor black girls at early ages, while blaming black women for everything. And the worse part is, if black women complain or even say anything, it’s taken as black male hate or bashing.
But guess what? Black men aren’t protected either. Protection and safety comes only exists for whites within white supremacy b/c they are the apex predators of the world.
Saying black women aren’t protected isn’t an indictment of all black men. It’s just a statement of fact when you are racially the farthest from those who represent the pinnacle of power: a white man. Black women get fukked over by white supremacy and some black men and by Black women themselves as much as we don’t want to admit it. And some Black women don’t protect themselves.
So instead of getting emotional about this, just be honest. None of these realities are good black men and black women’s faults. Black men aren’t protected either and some of black women’s behaviors compound their vulnerability if we being REALLY real.
To combat these issues, more blk men risking their lives isn’t the answer, b/c many already do. When I tell black women that they have to learn to protect themselves, that’s not throwing shade at black men. That’s telling people who are physically vulnerable to start putting themselves first. Vet the hell out of men in your circle. Fukk their feelings. Assert yourself. Damn the angry Black woman trope. Don’t have ANYBODY’s babies if they don’t love and cherish you. I don’t care if birthrates drop to the negatives. If they threaten your life, shoot to kill. Get your money up. Stop housing male parasites. Kick him out of your house and off your crib. Stop bringing strangers around your children and crying when they get sexually abused. Stop operating in a deficit mindset when it comes to men and accepting anything b/c you think nobody will want you.
Also protection goes both ways. Black men need your protection too. Keep yourself out of fukked up situations so a black man won’t have to risk his life trying save you from a situation you put urself in. Help keep him out of trouble too.
All of that has to be done by Black women themselves. As for black men protecting Black women, the best way to do this is to stop trying to justify the fukked up shyt some blk men do to black women just b:c you trying to keep a dikk code of silence. Stop thinking shyt sweet with these gangbanger rappers who treated Black women like shyt back in the day just b/c you resonated with their music. Stop trying to adopt alt-right misogyny b/c you not getting the p*ssy you feel like you deserve. Stop putting non-blk women on a pedestal. And if you aren’t guilty of doing any of this, stop getting in the way of accountability for those who are just b/c you don’t want to admit to the fukked up shyt your gender does.
We can do better. But not if we keep lying to ourselves about our flaws.
You miss my point. Currently, as a traditional woman, I'm protected by 98% of bm i encounter. I have little to no fear in these streets (but I'm still on point tho), and nikkas don't do me dirty. Why? Bc i look like a respectable woman. I have literally had nikkas give me that look like shyt about to pop and tell me, 'go in the store, ma.'
So, obviously, bm have some protective instinct. The question becomes how can you tell if a given woman is worthy of protection? Physical markers.
That's how everybody else distinguishes between different classes of their own women. Treat hoes like hoes and respectable women like respectable women. Men are 'allowed' to set standards and limits on their protection.
This is the point of contention. The narrative on social media is that black men should protect any and all black women. So from their perspective, you aren't allowed to have standards or limits.
What is disturbing to me is how this whole discourse started.
1.George Floyd incident happens.
2.Protests occur in MN
3.Riots soon follow
4.The usual suspects come out of the woodwork and state their opinion that there's not enough attention being paid to black women, despite the fact that 90% of the victims of police violence are men.
5. Articles are written to push the narrative that no one cares about black women like Breonna Taylor, despite activism and marches in her name prior to said articles being written
6.Fast forward and that young lady Toyin (BLM protester) is raped and killed in an incident unrelated to the protests.
7. Black women (and probably some white trolls) on Twitter and other social media start to go hard-body on this "Black men don't protect black women" rhetoric and turn Toyin into a martyr, despite the fact that there was no way anyone could even know her situation to protect her if she didn't tell them. Not to mention the fact that she was an autonomous being so you can't just force your protection on her.
8.The same accounts start digging up any random incidents of violence or perceived violence from black men towards black women.
9. Black men don't protect black women narrative starts.
If you follow the chain of events you see that this whole conversation is disingenuous as fukk, and it's main purpose is to divert attention black men are perceived to be getting to black women / trans.
Go into these people's circles, read their discourse and it's glaringly obvious this is the case.
The notion that black men don't protect black women is absurd on its face, and is insulting to all the men who fought, died, or got sent to jail in doing so.
Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
Last edited:
Chicks who say black men don't protect them are the same ones who say they are girl bosses who make 100k but their men should still cover all the bills and their personal expenses. They want to have their cake and eat it too. They want traditional men who'll take care of them but not one who expects the same of them.
HarlemHottie
Uptown Thoroughbred
Yes, but then ain't now. You know good and well, if a bw calls the police on a bm, they coming.
Bw need to stop having Color Purple flashbacks and acclimate to new conditions. If a nikka is whooping somebody ass, there is a veritable plethora of options. We are not our grandmothers.
Now lets build anew.
HarlemHottie
Uptown Thoroughbred
I hear everything you saying and i 100% agree, but bmat is a constant drumbeat in the background at this point. Who can say when it stops and starts?
That's (the bold) bc your cultural 'leaders', rappers, treat us ALL (rhetorically) like hoes undeserving of respect or protection. [Sorry, I don't want rappers leading our boys, but daddy ain't there, so its jew owned radio and the streets (which bm been telling us for decades).] When you talk in ALL terms, distinctions get muddled. So provide clarity.
Women will follow if yall leading. We'd probably actually compete for the privilege, that's what we do. Feminists can't even stop us, so they just gave up sometime btwn the 2nd and 3rd wave.
Like i told @Booksnrain, we are not our grandmothers. So don't be using ancient rationalizations on contemporary populations. Lay down some guidelines and see what happens.I don't mean getting on sm and shytting on bytches that get beat bc xyz.
I mean, independent of any particular situation, just posting females that look respectable but good, whatever that is to yall, and stating facts. A good number of us will 'cooperate', as long as we see the benefit (protection). Yall benefit by influencing bw to present a certain way, thereby elevating your potential pool of partners. Everybody's happy. 
A lot of the stats are due to proximity, poverty, and racism.
The Wolf Among You
Superstar
I think the concept is sound, but it’s biggest pushers are fraudulent.
Black people need to recognize our humanity, and understand that we are a powerful people, but we’re still people.
Not only do we deal with race issues, but we also deal with general life issues.
As a young Black man I believe myself to protect Black women as I stay on code and have Black women’s(and Black men’s) back against an oppressive system, I work to better myself so in turn I can be better to the Black women around me, and in turn making me a better member of my community.
There are plenty of Black men out here doing this and much more, it’s never fair to judge us by the actions of individual degenerates.
Black people need to recognize our humanity, and understand that we are a powerful people, but we’re still people.
Not only do we deal with race issues, but we also deal with general life issues.
As a young Black man I believe myself to protect Black women as I stay on code and have Black women’s(and Black men’s) back against an oppressive system, I work to better myself so in turn I can be better to the Black women around me, and in turn making me a better member of my community.
There are plenty of Black men out here doing this and much more, it’s never fair to judge us by the actions of individual degenerates.
HarlemHottie
Uptown Thoroughbred
Well, yeah. A bw who worked at the damn cdc died like this.
So are bm gonna protest and demand change for the mothers of their children like we be out there for y'all? I feel like regular normal ados women aren't necessarily good at organizing our own defense...?
