I in no way wanna rain on your parade OG but a work collegue?
If you enjoy your job, do not do it breh breh...you've been warned. i know that sweet soppy wet mamacita p*ssy callin you

...but don't do it breh. I've slept with 4 co-workers before i married my wife, EACH TIME it ended badly...just having to see the bytch after i was done with her was the worst thing in the world, seeing her boo'd up with another nikka in the office bothered me not because i was jealous but because i just didnt want to see her face anymore...terrible situation to be in if u enjoy your job...but you'll learn
I just did a quick count and could be slightly off, but I've slept with at least 15-16 women I've worked with.
Met both my BM's at work.
Never got sloppy, and any time it threatened to get that way, I nipped that shyt in the bud. There's a way to do this shyt and be professional about it, might need to film a video for scary nighas who afraid to smash at work.
In every single industry from politics to what I do (restaurants), people smashing and creating life with coworkers is common. There isn't an industry it's uncommon.
The one major rule is if you are in a leadership position, you shouldn't smash on subordinates, but even in that position you can keep it pro.
And yes, a number of coworkers I smashed on, at least 6 of em, I was in a position of leadership/authority over them.
This shyt only messy if you a messy nikka. I ain't one, so I don't be having issues...
You got a side chick so I already know you messy, which explains why you had trouble smashing 4 coworkers
Not coming at you g, just saying!