I'm sure your male family members ARE NOT,at least not in the same manner Kelis and Epps wife want to "live just as good".
These women can "live just as good" as Nas and Mike Epps,and don't need as much money as they are asking for to do so.
As I said,they would need to RENT if its that important to them to keep up with the Jones's for lack of a better word.
the fact you used the words "pitch in more", tells me your male family members situation is nothing like these two instances and shame on you trying to equate the two
This is not "pitching in" this is footing the bill for you to "live just as good".
Maybe you should just lose primary custody if you don't think you live as good as the father because you don't have the same sized mansion or luxury vehicle.
These are Ex WIVES Not babymamas!
Thats where alot of you fukk up at.
You think a gf, a babymom, and wife are all on the same level.
Thats why alot of you dont know what to do with women or how to have a functional household.
I mean this with no disrespect!
Alot of you dont value your family, your kids, or wife.
Hence not getting yourself together and getting to the same tax bracket as a Mike Epps or Nas to even have these kind of issues.
What kind a man are you to not want your kids to live just as well as you do?
Like seriously?
I don’t have no respect for any Man Or Woman that short change their kids. PERIOD!
Itd be a cold day in hell before I’m in a mansion and my shorties living in a small ass house in an unsafe community or going to a piss poor school.
God forbid me or my future husband don’t make it. I’d still contribute to my kids living the best lifestyle they can live.
They not gonna be be eating lobster with me then pack ramen noodles with their dad just because we aren’t together anymore.
But I realized awhile ago I was cut from a different cloth.
I could see a mf not doing it because they don’t have it, but for a mf to have it and still not do it just shows what kind of man you are.
Don’t matter how much money some of y’all touch or how blessed you are some of you just don’t want your money or wealth going to Black Kids or Black women.
I never see these thread when Famous Black men are financing non Black women and their whole damn family.
But every time a Black women and her children are being takedown care of you mfs go out your way to argue how and why a mfs SHOULDNT have to do it.