Tyler Perry Suggests that BW settle....does not go over well
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I’m saying!This motherfukker forgot who his target audience was.
This shyt is CRAZY!
You are not supposed to be married, 8.5months pregnant, worrying about paying the damn mortgage and car note by yourself!
You simply shouldn’t be married!
I think folks are forgetting that everyone ain’t supposed to be a spouse.
You are supposed to be TRAINED by your family because it takes interpersonal skills to MAINTAIN LONGTERM RELATIONSHIPS.
Whether that be friends, extended family, but especially a SPOUSE.
shyt it works in his movies they love so much thoThis motherfukker forgot who his target audience was.
Facts, and that’s without getting into women with attitudes, student loan debt/consumer debt, not feminine or ugly/unattractive, promiscuous …etc
But they’re all a catch who we’re not settling for lol, shyt is insane bro
Ozymandeas
Veteran
I was looking for this comment. An unfortunate amount of black people have not grown up in stable environments, so they model their lives on television. It takes alot of delusion for the brokest, poorest, most economically ravaged demographic to tell people earning $50K to $70K that they're bums. Not only can we look at the BC's income/net worth and see nikkas are lying, their comments imply that half of the U.S. population are bums since that's the median. It's delusion. Meanwhile in other communities, the $70K man and the $50K woman will make a $120K household and keep increasing their incomes over time.
1. The men of other races are able to find them at a substantially higher percentage than in our community.
2. The women who don't qualify for the men who "got it" are the main issue and point of this thread....
3. Both sides harp on the situation...
But only one side uses factually incorrect viewpoints to back their opinion....
The other side's viewpoint is backed by actual data and studies (alot of which i've posted repeatedly throughout this thread)...
Guess which side is which...
like i said... and building on your point....
saying "if a bw can't attract a capable mate then she shouldnt have children" will get you destroyed in our community...
The responses to that statement will be racist tropes and false narratives...
simply because the women who dont qualify wont adjust their delusion to match their actual situation
this is the crux of the whole thread
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This explains it all. Lower and working class people are less likely to marry and more likely to have kids out of wedlock, which truly explains the stats of our community. It’s wild seeing Black men and women posting negative stats about each other to make the other gender appear to be doing worse or better when we are collectively doing bad.I'm so tired of the cap
And no Tyler Perry, the solution isn’t for a middle class woman to try to marry a lower/working class man. Because a working class man typically already has a working class woman who he is living with, has kids with, and already isn’t married to. The solution is to pull Black people out of poverty with better paying jobs where people can have stability and guarantee stability for their families. Being maybe able to pay a light bill is not stability.
can you link the post that was showing factually incorrect stats about black women?
I have been working tirelessly to correct all the incorrect stuff about the men.
I'd like to address the incorrect narratives about the women too... I must have missed them.
I'm so tired of the cap
@Savvir
This is essentially the point.
There’s a small amount of truly marriageable Black MEN and Black WOMEN out here.
I heard Jason Black say that earlier this year, and it’s true. If you are a truly eligible black man or woman you have your pick out here amongst your own race (AND interracially if that’s what you choose)
You talk about there being more women for men of other races to choose from, but there are more men available in other racial groups who are in better financial positions at younger ages. Those 24YO white girls are marrying the 26-27YO plumbers, electricians, accountants and engineers who are still building but STARTED their careers and finished their education. Not the 37YO who just cracked $120k or is just finding his footing.
The black men who are in college/the trades at 18, 19, 20, 21 are the Black men who are starting careers and making decent/good money by 27-30 and are ready to be family men and looking for wives at that age. Not men who are finding their stride at 37 and then saying it’s time to find a 24YO. Our community laughs at the Black men who get married before or at 30 (because they need to have their fun), but those guys are the ones who are actually marriageable and were raised to be prepared for marriage. If a white or Asian dude is 37 getting married it’s probably the SECOND marriage.
Same for women. Those raised in households where they were prepared for marriage might definitely get their education, but they were taught to cook, keep a home and to understand that a young man prepared for marriage is a man who isn’t looking at her earning ability as the main reason to marry her, so she leads with other traits and characteristics at a younger age because the guy who was truly raised to be ready for marriage is the guy who was raised to pursue a career that will set him up to provide for her.
A 24YO black woman with a 26YO electrician or accountant has no complaints. Where are the brehs who are ready to lock it down at that age like the other races? They exist, and the young women who are their counterparts are the women they are with.
When I say there are issues with both sexes that’s what I mean.
Yes, there are more women of other races raised in households where they are prepared for marriage, but there are more men of other races who are prepared to hit the ground running at the age of 30.
If you date interracially you have a greater chance of bumping into a woman who is prepared for marriage. True.
If I date interracially I have a greater chance of bumping into a man who comes from a community with a higher average household/male income. True.
The black community as a whole needs to do better. We have damn near the lowest household income and the most kids out of wedlock. We’re failing on both ends because neither sex is being properly reared and raised for adulthood.
Since the average age gap in American marriages is no more than 4 years:
If all we gotta do is be childless, ready to cook and keep a home by 25, do we have a community with enough financially and mentally prepared 26-30YO males ready to scoop up majority of young women who are 23-26?
Both sides need work. The black men and black women raised to get it right BOTH get it right at younger ages, like the other cultures that are marriage focused.
Other cultures focus on preparing daughters for marriage, but they also focus on pushing their sons into STEM careers or trades so they are financially prepared to start life by their late 20s.
FreshFromATL
Self Made
hmmm...he must bout to start pandering to nikkas the same way he's pandered to women over all these years
When did I say you posted factual incorrect things about Black women? I said Black people are posting negative stats to make the other gender look worse, when we are doing the worst as a race. And those stats are all over showing how we make less money than other races.
Statistics at a Glance: Earnings of Men Aged 20–59, by Race and Ethnicity
Social Security Administration Research, Statistics, and Policy Analysis
www.ssa.gov
I also posted a study earlier explaining how lower and working class people are less likely to marry across racial groups. So the data I just showed would mean that Black people are more likely to be lower and working class, so this theory matches the marriage rate. There’s also recent theories linking the lower marriage rates to economic instability for young men. The article below is a good source to review.
So again, I’m just showing how economics and poverty affect relationships more for Blacks. I’m not trying to punch down on men or women because the issues are mostly institutional. High earners really have to be in the same spaces to find each other. I don’t think the solution is for high earners to marry low earners because they won’t have enough in common in most cases.
1. The men of other races are able to find them at a substantially higher percentage than in our community.
2. The women who don't qualify for the men who "got it" are the main issue and point of this thread....
3. Both sides harp on the situation...
But only one side uses factually incorrect viewpoints to back their opinion....
The other side's viewpoint is backed by actual data and studies (alot of which i've posted repeatedly throughout this thread)...
Guess which side is which...
like i said... and building on your point....
saying "if a bw can't attract a capable mate then she shouldnt have children" will get you destroyed in our community...
The responses to that statement will be racist tropes and false narratives...
simply because the women who dont qualify wont adjust their delusion to match their actual situation
this is the crux of the whole thread
Bingo, the BREHS who have it are becoming passport Brehs or just pumping and dumping chicks because of how the software is setup within some of our BW.
You as a man get tired of going back and forth with a BW about nothing, you take on emotional baggage, you x out being a step dad and the women who don't have children are just as fukked up in the head as the ones with kids.
So men who have it, are usually just sitting in the cut dating younger chicks or going overseas, dating outside of their race or again, going the just kicking it route until she messes up the situation because she gets in her own way
BW, most have it bad when it comes to sabotaging their own relationships. Therapy is much needed, for men too, but for women the most.
Pookiez and Ray Ray or just low bottom freeder men shes dealt with before deciding to leave them alone have done a number on her mind. With that and adding the Disney and sitcoms mindset, as a man, you having to deal with a lot of that within a woman, that's work.
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