Tyler Perry Suggests that BW settle....does not go over well

[The Half-Blood FKA Prince]

And just an fyi, that laundry list of demands shyt straight from the door is a huge fukkin turn off no matter who is doing it.

Third date convo and that is being generous. No one wants to entertain that bullshyt. Its important and all, and we all like to be thought of as the prize, but find out if yall even click before yall get into that shyt, please.

Whether u a man or a woman, no matter how u look, how much u make or whatever, im sure we all agree we want to be appreciated for who we are first and foremost, not just what the fukk we bringing to the table.

This lowkey the problem everyone wanna be the prize. Ok but if thats the case then that kinda leaves no room for any winners.

 

[Organic Trees]

One of my 10 year plus friends has a bachelor degree and makes way more than her dude. The key is that she put him on and he’s currently working on getting his bread up

 

[⠀X ⠀]

I love how they just make up stats and run with them. A few years back Obama blatantly lied about their being a huge wage gap, when there is not, and here is Tyler, who is claiming that there is a huge gap in the opposite way, when there isn’t. They just make up shít to defend their agenda whenever they feel like it

 

[Biscayne]

Double

 

[Biscayne]

BM - You're a fat worthless baby mama who can't get a man. Your degrees and accomplishments mean nothing unless you have a man to "lead" you. Doesn't matter what he has going for himself. You need to see him as a whole person even though he only has to see you as a utility. Oh and when he eventually does you wrong, it's your fault.

BW - I wanna opp out

BM - No no no baby girl. We NEED each other. Black love! I mean do you want to die alone?

BW - My life seems easier without all that

BM - bytch! Oh sorry I meant to say my Blk queen. That's just WS and feminism talking through you. Using reason and logic is the job of a man. Regardless of how it affects you, your goal in life should be to seek my approval. Now quiet down and make me a sandwich. It's God's will.

TP was wrong. Most black women don’t make more than black men. And I agree, no one should have to settle. So all this is much ado about nothing, since BM earn more anyways.

 

[The Wall Is Undefeated!]

No other race of women speak on being independent and not needing men like black women...



other women know and accept that they are expected to fall in line with their men

no other race of women has the concept of "settling" for their own community

/Thread

 

[The Wall Is Undefeated!]

you think women of other races live like Ms Ann, dont pay no bills, do nothing but drink starbucks all day. And all they do is lay on their back.


This is simply not the case.

3 married white male coworkers, all of their women are either lawyers or work in investment banking.


All their women contribute financially on their apartment and they go even or close to it on bills.



This narrative pushed by some black women online is out of touch with reality.



Some black women out here allowing themselves to be used as prostitutes by non black men for a season and let go just because they believe this nonsense



Come on ladies, wake up. All these years of "strong black woman" and "independent women" trope has warped yall minds out of reality.

Damn.

I don't always agree with you but I have to tip my hat to you for this statement.

 

[Squirrel from Meteor Man]

If there was anyone who could tell them how to land a black man, it’s Tyler Perry. They should listen

 

[Squirrel from Meteor Man]

Them warehouse checks ain't hittin like they used to

@Peachstate kind of right Black men have a tendency to pigeonhold ourselves into the most basic medicore type jobs and be content with just that. That mindset has to change.

Also stop saying we make more women then Black women WE ARE MEN we're suppose to thats not some big flex lol and our women aren't and should never be our competition

Black men do not pigeonhole ourselves to those jobs; the majority of people working menial jobs are white people and immigrants.

We can’t even get hired doing those jobs due to systemic oppression, a biased (sometimes actually criminal) judicial system that ruins records, and flat out racism.

EVERYONE should aspire to do their best and be the best, but the issue is we’re the only group actively being pushed back and pushed down.

 

[Gloxina]

the problem is that women "think" they are marrying down if they only qualify for men who make less than them...

but men dont rate women on how much money they make...
women are rated on looks and how good they can make a nikka feel, social etiquette, making life easier, etc.....

if a woman makes alot of money, but she aint got the traits men actually want...

then being with a lower earner isnt marrying down at all...

it's marrying at her level....

This is true and this is actually something that gets glossed over a lot.

This is why some women throw all of their effort into their looks and just being chill (at least for a while ); because they understand the game.

I earn money because I need to make a living, but the man for me doesn’t want me because of my earnings, or that ain’t the man for me

 

[Gloxina]

the whole "abuse is so commonplace that the majority of black men who make money are abusers" narrative is white supremacist branding at its finest.

Here’s the thing- WOMEN are agreeing with you. My comments were based on ol boy who brought up abuse:

Because patriarchy dictates that the MAN provides, not the woman.

I don't know what feminists are trying to do with patriarchy, but I'm good with it.

So you are ok with him telling you what to do, beating you, raping you, and fukking all the women he can afford?

uh... most men in your community make more money than you...

if you worried about men who are making less, it's time to look inward on why the more successful men are passing you over


none of these things have to do with a "patriarchy"

but lets assume it does...

why would the men of a family allow this to happen to their woman?

in a patriarchy it is their duty to defend/protect the women of their family...

so there would be some protection against these things by fathers/grandfathers/uncles/brothers/cousins

or is the patriarchy only there for bad things to happen to women without any of the protections of the documented history of traditional family honor?

Sounded like he was hinting at abuse being excused away if a man is the sole provider

 

[CashmereThoughts]

love all my people but this isn’t a subject I need to hear a gay man opine on

 

[Rell84shots]

Well black men are always being told to settle, so why is it bad advice for black women?

 

[Contrefaire]

BW are too arrogant, I make more than the average man in America , but a bw will think I'm beneath them because I'm not 6 figures yet. I'm far from a bum and got A1 credit, but will literally get looked down upon by single mom in the black community. Make it make sense...

Where is this happening, exactly? How often have you really been "looked down upon" by a single mom in the community because you weren't making six figures but had A1 credit and a good career?? And be honest because these are some wild ass claims...

 

[Silver Surfer]

Tyler been been watching those Kevin Samuel's videos on the low

This nikka got a Billy right?