Washington Post: Hookup Culture Isn’t The Real Problem Facing Singles Today. It’s Math.

Art Barr

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I think we see what we want see, there is a lot of material out there for women to improve themselves and get more of what they want before, during and after relationships. Here are several books that I own:


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Not to mention endless books targeting women about relationships.

There are different schools of thought; some believe in the "accept me as I am", flaws and all and there's the school of "to get what you want, you need to step your game up, etc...".


Your problem like all women is.
Citing the exception to the rule.
Like, you were reared in those welfare bus you to work job programs.
Stop talking about exceptions to the rule,....
That is your problem.
Always worried about one glimmer of hope selfishly.
Instead, of the entire general collective.

All women with project mentality do this and it has to be eliminated.
Stop thinking in exception to the rule and self equating.


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And I have a huge family full of women:shaq2:But I see this daily. The few who got degrees, are looking for similarly-qualified men, while swimming
in a pool of mediocre dudes.

This is why I put my dating on the backburner till 30. Once I get out of debt next spring, imma act a goddamn fool, though:wow:

Got a lot of affection-less years to make up for. Imma sell more dreams than Walt Disney:blessed:
Oh that's where your name comes from :troll:

But breh :gladbron: I thought I was the only one @ the bold

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Oh that's where your name comes from :troll:

But breh :gladbron: I thought I was the only one @ the bold

:myman:
:lawd:Got to. I chose to be single, threw away a lot of p*ssy over the years:shaq2:It wasn't very important to me vs getting my situation right.

When it is:obama:I'm knocking 7's and up down at will if I can. I kept to myself long enough.
 

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I went to UCLA. A school of 36,000 and I never seen no old dude role up on anyone. Stop it. You look silly.

Furthermore tell this shyt to white woman. Black women live in a completely different world where regardless of youth and beauty the generational economic failures of black men mean we have always had to adjust.

This is why black women are being told to date out. Posts like yours are a reason why it's probably an excellent idea. Black women
Shouldn't have to suffer romantically from black men's underachievement.

So brother how long should pookie and ray ray outnumber Jamal?
Ah the OG LadySimone we all know and hate :ohlawd:
 

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Women just need to give up the idea of being married. It doesn't even benefit us anymore. All the "I wanna get married" hoes gonna stay pressed tho :russ:
 

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This is why I've never made getting married or getting a man a priority. Most men are shytty so if you get one, no matter how good you are to him, he will just cheat and treat you like. Even though I'm getting married, It will probably end with him cheating so it doesn't really matter. So I just worry about myself. :yeshrug:There's literally no reason to be a "good woman" because men will just use you then throw you away. Biggest reason why I will never let a man lead me, never be submissive, and never depend on a man. :manny:
 

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This is why I've never made getting married or getting a man a priority. Most men are shytty so if you get one, no matter how good you are to him, he will just cheat and treat you like. Even though I'm getting married, It will probably end with him cheating so it doesn't really matter. So I just worry about myself. :yeshrug:There's literally no reason to be a "good woman" because men will just use you then throw you away. Biggest reason why I will never let a man lead me, never be submissive, and never depend on a man. :manny:
Ok you sound just as sad as some of these dudes congrats
 
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