Washington Post: Hookup Culture Isn’t The Real Problem Facing Singles Today. It’s Math.

[Ashley Banks]

Ok you sound just as sad as some of these dudes congrats

You can't say I'm wrong though.

 

[philmonroe]

You can't say I'm wrong though.

I don't remember saying you were so don't get your point

 

[Kenny West]

This is why I've never made getting married or getting a man a priority. Most men are shytty so if you get one, no matter how good you are to him, he will just cheat and treat you like. Even though I'm getting married, It will probably end with him cheating so it doesn't really matter. So I just worry about myself. There's literally no reason to be a "good woman" because men will just use you then throw you away. Biggest reason why I will never let a man lead me, never be submissive, and never depend on a man.

Lets be hoes

 

[At30wecashout]

You can't say I'm wrong though.

I can Juicy fruit, have you even been hurt yet? Don't let rumors, statistics, worthless brothas, and scorned wenches gig you the wrong idea. You probably just trollin, but giving yourself to someone is only destined to end in misery If you are blind to red flags or you go in with the kinda attitude that poisons things from the jump.

Stop throwing salt at your own future.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Lets be hoes

No thanks

 

[Barnett114]

This is why I've never made getting married or getting a man a priority. Most men are shytty so if you get one, no matter how good you are to him, he will just cheat and treat you like. Even though I'm getting married, It will probably end with him cheating so it doesn't really matter. So I just worry about myself. There's literally no reason to be a "good woman" because men will just use you then throw you away. Biggest reason why I will never let a man lead me, never be submissive, and never depend on a man.

The fukk you getting married for then

 

[Uncle Kingpin]

Black women in general don't get bullshyt degrees breh.
You talking bout white women.
Blakc women are in the American economic pole position of favor and life in America. They get real jobs and real degrees.
When, you pursue a black professional degree having ass woman.
You not getting Becky the equestrian..you getting a board war room Chanel pant suit warrior.
On no day, have I met no black basket weave degree woman.
Black women get degrees in power minded fields and even technical fields.
Sisters are proven smarter bookworm wise and given the keys to trump black men academically on purpose and now professionally.
Ain't no sisters getting wack degrees and you better be on point, mentally.
Like crushing the game from a g point to even speak to these types of women.

I

An office job, a closet of Hillary Clinton pantsuits, and your own cubicle is no achievement. Guys driving trucks at UPS with a GED make more money. But these "educated" sistas with degrees in English, and a Masters in Human Resources.....making $50,000/yr......seem to think they deserve nothing less than a Neurosurgeon or an Investment Banker.

 

[Ashley Banks]

I can Juicy fruit, have you even been hurt yet? Don't let rumors, statistics, worthless brothas, and scorned wenches gig you the wrong idea. You probably just trollin, but giving yourself to someone is only destined to end in misery If you are blind to red flags or you go in with the kinda attitude that poisons things from the jump.

Stop throwing salt at your own future.

I haven't been hurt yet but I feel like it's coming. I've noticed that men tend to not care about how they treat women, so I don't think I'm exempt from being shytted on just because I'm a good person. I'm not throwing salt on my own future, I'm just being realistic, married men have always cheated and I'm not stupid enough to think that my marriage will be different, so I'm prepared for it to end. but at least I know it won't end because of me.

 

[Ashley Banks]

The fukk you getting married for then

idk, I think there's still a little tiny speck of hope that he won't do me wrong.

 

[Art Barr]

An office job, a closet of Hillary Clinton pantsuits, and your own cubicle is no achievement. Guys driving trucks at UPS with a GED make more money. But these "educated" sistas with degrees in English, and a Masters in Human Resources.....making $50,000/yr......seem to think they deserve nothing less than a Neurosurgeon or an Investment Banker.

Act like nikkaz got those blue collar jobs after a recession, breh.

I swear nikkaz living a lie..
Or, in a southern city unaffected by the recession for real.
Talking all this blue color black man working and having disposable bread on par with a black woman.
You, either self equating from your own experience and not real general reality.
ain't no black guys eating better than no black woman in general in america

To even,...think a nikka, who have blue collar jobs with no salary.
on par with sistas is even remotely similar.
It is not fukk'n 1997, anymore.


Art Barr

Most nikkaz were not even successful in affirmative action.
Yet, without affirmative action we got delusion based nikkaz.
thinking they on par with black females given the keys and have matriarch position over us.
Do you nikkaz live in reality?

 

[Art Barr]

Lets be hoes

Men don't typically sell their virtue for sex.
So, in general most guys are not hoes.

Females use a failed model of discussion.
to try to deflect away from virtue.
Then, attempt to make their virtue lacking behavior legal.
By comparing a male being promiscuous and unfaithful in a committal based relationship.
To pimp'n/prostitution wrongly and in complete error.
Men, do not sell their virtue.
when they have sex with another woman out of a committal.
People are cross relating the wrong things in the wrong perspective.
When ,it comes to talks of being faithful in relationships.

Art Barr

As men, we value beauty and virtue as the most important when choosing a female.
Females choose capitalism, over all and that is why they struggle with this topic of comparison.

 

[At30wecashout]

I haven't been hurt yet but I feel like it's coming. I've noticed that men tend to not care about how they treat women, so I don't think I'm exempt from being shytted on just because I'm a good person. I'm not throwing salt on my own future, I'm just being realistic, married men have always cheated and I'm not stupid enough to think that my marriage will be different, so I'm prepared for it to end. but at least I know it won't end because of me.

If you are 100% serious, yes, you will play some part in your own downfall. Trust me, being a pretty nihilistic person myself, i have had those moments of clarity where something that "wasnt my fault" was brought on by my total lack of faith in myself or the other person. Basically, you will be ready to throw the towel in at the smallest things, ruling the relationship as temporary. Sure, relationships dont always last, and many end under some shytty circumstances, but you having that attitude is going to go a relationship is sure to doom that shyt. What you are supposed to care about, you won't. What is a minor thing in the long run, will have you on the side like "mmhmm, just like a man." For real, from what you are saying, you are exactly the kinda girl a man would be warned against marrying,cause your fiancé might be a good dude now, but you just waiting to swallow that poison pill on the relationship, potentially turning a good guy bad with that foolishness. If you really feel this way, be alone.

I joke about it a lot, but i havent been keeping to myself for over 4 years for nothing. My negativity is real, and that shyt can ruin a woman who wants nothing but the best for me. Dont do that to dude, thats selfish. You will be pushing him away, and possibly into someone elses arms. Everyone will call you the victim, when they werent the ones feeling like they gave their all to someone who didnt have faith in them.

 

[Uncle Kingpin]

Act like nikkaz got those blue collar jobs after a recession, breh.

I swear nikkaz living a lie..
Or, in a southern city unaffected by the recession for real.
Talking all this blue color black man working and having disposable bread on par with a black woman.
You, either self equating from your own experience and not real general reality.
ain't no black guys eating better than no black woman in general in america

To even,...think a nikka, who have blue collar jobs with no salary.
on par with sistas is even remotely similar.
It is not fukk'n 1997, anymore.


Art Barr

Most nikkaz were not even successful in affirmative action.
Yet, without affirmative action we got delusion based nikkaz.
thinking they on par with black females given the keys and have matriarch position over us.
Do you nikkaz live in reality?

What the hell are you talking about? Even with black women being more educated on average than black men, there is still a gender gap. Men make more than women across all races.

Andwith that recession talk, I don't even think you know what it means. Because if you did, you would know it's not even relevant to the average black person. There will always be opportunities for the qualified, but there will never any for the unqualified.

 

[NobodyReally]

College educated women

A tradesman is more worth than any college educated woman except the medicine students.

And an uneducated women who gets abandoned or shytted on a husband who knows he always has other options ain't worth more than anyone...

 

[Art Barr]

What the hell are you talking about? Even with black women being more educated on average than black men, there is still a gender gap. Men make more than women across all races.

Andwith that recession talk, I don't even think you know what it means. Because if you did, you would know it's not even relevant to the average black person. There will always be opportunities for the qualified, but there will never any for the unqualified.

You citing stats when stats are flawed past real life and real world sentiment.
As black men we are under matriarch rules and mother matriarch in general live all profit based lives.
We as black men do not live that.
Plus, you citing numbers that are not indicative of real life.


Art Barr