We Are the Generation That Doesn’t Want Relationships

The Mad Titan

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I want a relationship, a healthy one with someone I can trust and build with.


I definitely fall in the OP category tho, mostly because I've been burned so hard by a women I've actually cared for that it takes alot for me to open up and trust someone or they have to be a unicorn.


In this day in age all that is unrealistic, by time you finish to really take the time to get to know someone, they are bored or getting to know someone else and unicorn are so rare they pretty much don't exist, and alot of time if they don't they don't want you in the same way you want them.
 

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I used to want to be in a relationship but my generation is clueless when it comes to that word, let alone understanding the principals and establishing a solid foundation for a true bond between souls.

They are too worried about social media, status, what other people think, etc.

It took a while but I'm fine being alone. The amount of freedom you gain when you truly stop caring is intoxicating. The universe and I are one.
 

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We live in a Whore Culture.

I used to want to be in a relationship but my generation is clueless when it comes to that word, let alone understanding the principals and establishing a solid foundation for a true bond between souls.

They are too worried about social media, status, what other people think, etc.

It took a while but I'm fine being alone. The amount of freedom you gain when you truly stop caring is intoxicating. The universe and I are one.

Reps on back order.
 

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Men want great females for committed relationships but females are gold diggers out here.

Females are the issue,....
There is no punishment for females who have no virtue and all the rewards are for females with no virtue.

Men value virtue and you will be hard pressed to find female with virtue now..
Mostly all females work on cheater swag and you not fooling a real seasoned guy who recognizes a female employing Cheater swag.


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You didn't answer my question

Why SHOULD "meaningful" relationships take effort and hard work?

Why would you put voluntarily put yourself through additional stress when life is already stressful enough?

This is just some feel good Oprah/Tyler Perry rhetoric

"Oh chile work through the tough times if you REALLY luv somebody"

it's all nonsense


This.

After I had a no stress relationship.
I am not goin for none of that bullshyt ever with a female.
If a female reminds me of any bullshyt she gets bushes.
A female is not supposed to be stressing me.
Plus, I been in a relationship where there was no stress ever.
so I know better and lived better, too.

So I ain't going ....
Somebody telling you to endure abuse of any kind for someone is a fool.


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I'm over 30 and I believe my window on finding that one person is ever shrinking. People don't have the patience to build anything with anyone. Not just relationships but friendships, partnerships. They are afraid of failure and struggle. They in this we must win win win or things must be easy easy when life isn't like that. When things go bad instead of dealing with it, they run.
 

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I agree that ppl in that age demographic don't want the hard work of maintaining a relationship, but tbh with the advent of technology and globalization u really can live an exciting and fulfilling life without romantic love. Especially if u can finance it. A trip to Italy, a trip to Spain, a trip to South Africa, etc. A wine and painting class. Indoor skydiving. Running a marathon. Volunteering. U can do all of these things with ur friends (or alone if ur brazen enough). Could they be more fun if done with a spouse? Possibly. But long gone are the days where u need a loving relationship to live a prosperous fulfilling life

Its gonna be A TON of bitter chicks out here 10-15 years from now with this thinking, SMH.
 
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