What Are Your Unpopular RELATIONSHIP Opinions?

The Mad Titan

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Relationships based on one person imposing their will over another aren't relationships at all.
A relationship that doesn't have a mutual respect between two people is one that is bound to fail.
Love and respect go hand in hand in a relationship, you can't have one without the other and be in a happy one.

If your relationship and attraction to a person is highly sexual its probably more the sex than the person
The prettiest people do and say the ugliest things.
Communication is the key to a long lasting happy relationship. Not sex
You don't have to agree with everything your partner doesn't but you should respect it.
 

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I don't want a woman to move in with me until we're engaged .

Stay at home moms shouldn't have any say when it comes to issues like minimum wage, unemployment or welfare.

Some gender roles need to be revisited.
 

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Don't you have a child? You have also spoken quite a bit on male female relationships
My daughter's father and I were just friends who started fukking and we ended up with a kid. When I think relationship, I think "committed"...monogamous or whatever. Never had that.
 

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  • Sex with a woman you don't love or respect can be better than sex with the one that you do love, respect, and care about.

  • Truly seeing your partner as your equal is not a component of most successful and happy relationships.
 

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There is no such thing as a soulmate.

Instead of assuming there is someone perfect out there for you, you can probably make it work with a million different people if you are willing to put in the work.

The idea of a soulmate makes people lazy
 

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Of course you think that, you're a man. Let you be the one that has to be pregnant, give birth, work a full time job, cook, and clean but let the person that does half of that control you and have the final say in everything because he's a "man". not to mention if you got extremely unlucky and ended up with one of those guys that think they should be able to cheat because they're "men". :martin:
Like a typical woman you jump to conclusions about what I mean without knowing the details.

I said certain gender roles...to a degree.
But you're so angry and defensive at the mere mention of gender roles that you jump right into typical complaining templates.

:russell:
 

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  • Men and women are resentful of the opposite sex's preferences but don't want their own to be controlled.
  • I don't feel sorry for men and women who claim they got rejected because they were "good" people or nerds. Usually they have unrealistic standards or crippling social issues that make it hard for them to have friends PERIOD, not just romantic relationships.
  • Men care more about what people will say about their partners than women do. Women will date whoever no matter what people say. In fact the more u tell a woman not to, the more she will oftentimes to her detriment. Men, however, will literally dump somebody they actually like if his friends and family put enuff pressure on him. Both extremes are stupid.
  • Men who genuinely have female friends (not that creeper in the corner trying to fukk out of the friend zone) have healthier perspectives about women.
 

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  • I believe people can meet good people online. People speak down against online dating but I have met many married couples who met online
  • Being promiscuous will very rarely work in a woman's favour
  • Most people are users and want the world but give very little back


You bro.
How's your marriage going?
 

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I can't help but lose respect for men who date/hit on white girls and latinas. We're at war with these people and you're placing your penis over your ethnic pride?

On the other end of the spectrum, I have a tremendous amount of respect for black men who can pull attractive women of other races but choose to settle down with a sista
 

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Define romantic love breh

I think I agree

I know mad single people who believe love = honeymoon phase forever butbimo...it doesnt.

I went through that phase and it still comes and goes but my love for my woman is much deeper now. Like I care and want her to succeed and I can't explain it. But it's not what I once thought love was (movies, music and cliche honeymoon phase) lol
:ehh: Definitely agree with these



Regarding the bolded, yep :yes: it's very useless when trying to build a long-term relationship. Romantic love is fleeting.
 
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