What Do You Choose? Loneliness/Solitude Or A Woman With A Bad Energy/Questionable Past?

[DaRealness]

Solitude doesn't exactly mean loneliness, but I get the point.

It's better to just keep doing you and eventually find someone you vibe with. You don't want negative energy in your life just because you're feeling lonely, no matter what your circumstances are.

 

[UberEatsDriver]

I've never met a single person 20 to 60 who wasn't flawed. Younger people aren't better people than older people. I work with a bunch of young people who are all the way ratchet. Idk why push that narrative.

does being picky equal flawed cause I am picky

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

I been alone 90% of my life

This, some of us just meant to be alone

 

[Shadow King]

Women like older men not OLD men. Guys really confuse this point. We like 5 years old not 15.

At a certain point 5 years isn't even a significant gap.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

does being picky equal flawed cause I am picky

If that makes you unbearable

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

So you expect failure and then get it. Got ya. Now I understand....as for the rest...I just enjoy more than one sided dialogue so I spark up a different point of view. Sorry that triggers you. You can ignore my posts if they bother you so much. I won't be offended.

Again. Putting words in my mouth. But think whatever. You’re a faceless, nameless troll on the internet. You don’t bother me in the slightest. And you quoted me first. This is my thread. So maybe you should follow the advice that you give to others. Goodbye.

 

[Youseenmywork]

no I’m not 33. And when I say youthful appearance I mean looking as good as brehs that haven’t aged look. And yes 40 is far from my age group. I date men between 28-36. Majority of men in their forties look like it. They rarely look as attractive as their younger male counterparts.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Again. Putting words in my mouth. But think whatever. You’re a faceless, nameless troll on the internet. You don’t bother me in the slightest. And you quoted me first. This is my thread. So maybe you should follow the advice that you give to others. Goodbye.

Hello

I am not putting words in your mouth. I am giving you my interpretation of that emotional post you laid out.

But I'm not bothered by you nor do I keep track of your post history like you do with me so why would I bother to ignore you? I don't remember a single post you ever made.

You seem pretty upset in your posts. I can image this translates to your dating results. Maybe if you got out your feelings you would feel better and therefore do better.

 

[Listen]

If that makes you unbearable

On the real though, it’s a fine line between being picky and being an unrepentant dingleberry who thinks their shyt don’t stink and is driving away all the potential partners never realizing they are the reason they are alone.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

On the real though, it’s a fine line between being picky and being an unrepentant dingleberry who thinks their shyt don’t stink and is driving away all the potential partners never realizing they are the reason they are alone.

#facts

 

[ThrobbingHood]

I been alone 90% of my life

This, some of us just meant to be alone

I'm coming to this realisation. I'm cool with a lot of my exes and side pieces. I just don't think commitment is for me. I just get bored and irritable easily. I really can't be around someone too often.

Anytime I'm in a relationship, it's always at its best when I only see her a few times a week. Once you're in my space every single day, I just become really stressed out. I'm sure this feeling isn't unique to me but the idea of cohabitation makes me feel claustrophobic.

If I do settle down, we will have to at the very least sleep in different rooms. It works for a lot of married couples I know.

 

[Balla]

no I’m not 33. And when I say youthful appearance I mean looking as good as brehs that haven’t aged look. And yes 40 is far from my age group. I date men between 28-36. Majority of men in their forties look like it. They rarely look as attractive as their younger male counterparts.

So you saying men usually look good to about late 30s then. So gotta go ham as much as I can by then. No time to chill.

 

[Weaver31]

I've never met a single person 20 to 60 who wasn't flawed. Younger people aren't better people than older people. I work with a bunch of young people who are all the way ratchet. Idk why push that narrative.

Very true....whether young, middle aged or old...a flawed person is still flawed, just at different stages in life.

 

[Balla]

how about coffe and bagels?

I was on it and deleted it the next hour. I didn’t see many girls on there especially bw. It might be a lot better for you since you’re in NYC.

That app has to be the lowest amount of chicks I’ve seen on any app.

I think I saw maybe 20?

Then they have some shyt where you gotta buy coffee beans or something lol.

Try it out though, those women look professional enough.

 

[Commish]

does being picky equal flawed cause I am picky

Nope! Picky means that you are smart. You don’t want just anyone to come into your life. You want what you feel you deserve to get and is willing to wait until you get what you feel you deserve.

Nowadays, you have to vet folks because if you don’t, then you could get caught up in some shyt that may fukk up your bag and/or freedom.