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I know a girl who likes to drink wine. She wanted to be a "Wino" as she called it so I booked a tour of a vinery or whatever the fukk from this one dude I know who had links to that shyt, as a surprise, we made some Wine after crushing the grapes with our feet and drank it over a Steak Dinner between her crying about how much she appreciated it and our getting smashed on the shyt 'cause we made enough for like 5 bottles. She appreciated the gesture, because it came from the heart (romance) and my intentions were supported ONCE they were found out and we had a good time.
I once took a girl I was fukking to a Damien Marley concert like within hours of hearing the shyt 'cause it wasn't TOO far away (We were in Orlando) and he was playing a venue with his Bro (Stephen Marley) and that sealed the deal for me 'cause they get along good together (They had just released the song,
) and decided to take this chick along since I know she liked Jr Gong.
Upon telling her, she told me that she had plans on kicking it with a friend of hers who was in town, but didn't want to leave her alone. So I ended up having to pay for THREE tickets despite the fact that this bytch (her friend) was steady bragging about having bread from her modelling (She looked good, a bit too short, but I could see it). Now while I was trying to get my girl to go with me to a venue I know we would have enjoyed, I decided to pay for her friend, who could afford it, room and board for the night (I ended up getting kicked out of bed
) and kept spending money on a woman who, while not showing outright disdain for what I was doing, had no problem in letting me toss money at a situation that benefited her for the time being as opposed to trying her best to engage in an activity with her man, as a couple, like we should have.
In both stories, my actions were had with good intentions, but as you can clearly see, in the second one I'm not respecting myself enough and my actions are merely movements to keep in the good graces of the woman I'm with or trying to get with.
The line is respect.
If you got to embarrass yourself, try too hard or go above and beyond (even if it's your choice to do so) just to be acknowledged by the person for the time being, you simping in my opinion. Feelings are normally reciprocated and facilitated in romantic gestures, simping is merely appreciated and condoned as long as the benefits flow.
I once took a girl I was fukking to a Damien Marley concert like within hours of hearing the shyt 'cause it wasn't TOO far away (We were in Orlando) and he was playing a venue with his Bro (Stephen Marley) and that sealed the deal for me 'cause they get along good together (They had just released the song,
Upon telling her, she told me that she had plans on kicking it with a friend of hers who was in town, but didn't want to leave her alone. So I ended up having to pay for THREE tickets despite the fact that this bytch (her friend) was steady bragging about having bread from her modelling (She looked good, a bit too short, but I could see it). Now while I was trying to get my girl to go with me to a venue I know we would have enjoyed, I decided to pay for her friend, who could afford it, room and board for the night (I ended up getting kicked out of bed
) and kept spending money on a woman who, while not showing outright disdain for what I was doing, had no problem in letting me toss money at a situation that benefited her for the time being as opposed to trying her best to engage in an activity with her man, as a couple, like we should have.In both stories, my actions were had with good intentions, but as you can clearly see, in the second one I'm not respecting myself enough and my actions are merely movements to keep in the good graces of the woman I'm with or trying to get with.
The line is respect.
If you got to embarrass yourself, try too hard or go above and beyond (even if it's your choice to do so) just to be acknowledged by the person for the time being, you simping in my opinion. Feelings are normally reciprocated and facilitated in romantic gestures, simping is merely appreciated and condoned as long as the benefits flow.
What's the stages of progression here - you buy her all these things then buy her more things when she gives you a kiss on the cheek and says you're special?
