You got to have a life you're comfortable with before trying to let women in it.
Have things you know you like and she can choose whether or not to be a part of it or not.
My girls know I like sports, playing sports, video games, music and hanging out with my friends. I have the most fun doing those things so when someone around me gets that vibe, they follow suit or look like an
@sshole. So next time you ask a girl if she's trying to do something, and she hits you with the "I don't care", you have a plan and you enjoy it. If she doesn't, you've figure out you got a girl who doesn't fit and you can rid your life of that soul sucker.
Women like what the activities represent, we like what the activities do for ourselves. Don't put too much thought into it. If she likes you, she'll be with you