What's a realization / eye-opener you've had lately?

[chosen92GOAT]

I'm my own worst enemy.

I feel u but your also your Best friend to chose wisely

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

Relationships, marriage, procreating is really not worth the drama/trouble/responsibility. It's just another thing to keep you busy til you die. A woman's love is the least secure thing you can desire.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

There are a lot of crazy men out here. Seriously...

 

[Nemesis]

I like cats .... always thought I was a dog person

 

[Shadow King]

We need a thread on this.
Its kinda sad bro.

I think a thread specifically on this topic will be disastrous

 

[mamba]

The corporate world is no place for Black people. The only way to freedom is owning your own.

Real shyt.

 

[Concerning VIolence]

a lot of black people hate reality

 

[JadeB]

That $10 an hour really ain't shyt .Still grateful for having this job though.

 

[Orange cream shake]

I started talking to one of my classmates because I've been on some anti-social ish. We're chopping it up and she shows me her Snapchat with about 5 unopened messages and 3 nikkas she left on read. Her IG? nikkas in her DM's offering to smell her farts for a chance at eye contact with her. She also convinced her ex-in real time-to buy her a $500 Tiffany necklace, while also bragging that she doesn't even fukk him anymore and cheated on him. I thought simps and simping was exaggerated but man what a pathetic showing.
Oh, and being broke translates to almost every other part of life

did you see said necklace? Otherwise I’m calling duck tales, a 500 dollar necklace at Tiffany’s is trash.

 

[JadeB]

That general education is a waste of time and money. You spent 13 years of your life in gen ed, and already figured out that you will never be good at one subject so you focus on the ones that you know you will master but colleges still force you to take two years of bull that will eat up your money and if you are not lucky enough, ruin your GPA .

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

Do not try to be friends with your co-workers. Yes, sure I DO have a couple legit friends from previous jobs, it happens but most of these people just want to complain about everything and get u caught in their own bullshyt and now you are stuck in the gossip.

Work is much more relaxing when u just keep to yourself.

 

[JBoy]

I should have fought harder in high school for myself. Feels like I'm playing catch up and I'm 27

I'm a few years younger and have felt the exact same way these last couple years man

 

[Iceson Beckford]

Having confidence even when you suck at something is the most important thing, second guessing yourself and being afraid to fukk up is a vicious circle of failure.

Approaching women is often far better than being approached by women, very few men will have women approach them openly and they won't be of high quality.

 

[Knowledge]

Society encourages people to get a dregree so you can work for a company for crumbs then that company will work you "hard" and encourage you to invest in a retirement plan so when you finally do retire at 60+, you have to spend all of your retirement income on medical bills and old people shyt until you die

 

[Logic Reigns Supreme]

Accept no sympathy, and show no mercy.