Why do a lot of married men seem so miserable?

Digital Omen

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I went to a destination wedding in PR
building with the groom and he gave me that ol "happy wife, happy life" bullshyt
Thought "I give them 2 years"
lo and behold
exactly 2 years later
dude stepped out on his wife with some IG BBL mutant
his wife's one of them corp VP alpha boss types (think Vanessa Williams in Soul Food)
emasculated him and that's all she wrote
 

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If you only acknowledge the bad situations you see someone else going through then of course its all bad. in order to do that you have to purposely overlook the good times. Acting as if everything is always supposed to be roses is some bullshyt and you are setting yourself up for failure
 

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I went to a destination wedding in PR
building with the groom and he gave me that ol "happy wife, happy life" bullshyt
Thought "I give them 2 years"
lo and behold
exactly 2 years later
dude stepped out on his wife with some IG BBL mutant
his wife's one of them corp VP alpha boss types (think Vanessa Williams in Soul Food)
emasculated him and that's all she wrote

Wives hold that ass hostage

Stop doing things they were doing before they got the ring

Most of my boys cheat on their girls

The homie J fukked up the most. Cheated with a woman at work, got caught, got suspended and eventually fired from his county job.

Sounds like some of these guys are miserable because of a lack of their own discernment, decision making skills, and discipline.

Some guys partner up with the wrong woman (wife) for a job he doesnt have the skills for (husband). Marriaging the wrong woman especially when youre the wrong man can fuk your life up.
 

Ahadi

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They get birds off the clearance rack and expect things to just work

Yep.

You get a woman’s most “honest” self when she’s in her early 20s. It’s like when kids run up to you and tell you exactly what’s on their mind / no filter. Thats them in their 20s.

After that it’s just survival & retirement plan / safe haven hunting.
 

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Yep.

You get a woman’s most “honest” self when she’s in her early 20s. It’s like when kids run up to you and tell you exactly what’s on their mind / no filter. Thats them in their 20s.

After that it’s just survival & retirement plan / safe haven hunting.
The wall forces them to go into pure survival mode. For most women, Dating after the age of 30 will be purely calculating, sober , businesslike, straightforward, strategic, pragmatic and utilitarian. When they are young, They are dating under the influence of unrestricted passion and through the waves of emotions and when they’re older ,they’re dating under the influence of cold reason and with intention.

It won’t be based on love at first sight, raw lust / immediate sexual attraction, primitive/genuine desire, pure fun, social popularity contests, charisma, physical, emotional and visual stimulation, authentic emotional connections and fickle feelings anymore. It will be based on familiarity, reliability, longterm deliberate life planning, pragmatism, etc

I specifically reduce female sexual psychology to the fundamental opposition between these two opposite and ultimate feminine archetypes: the mother and the white.

On one hand, we have the devoted mother, and on the other one, the selfish whore-two natures and two ways of life present in most women. On the one hand, the mother, who seeks physical security and financial stability above anything else in her relationships with adult men and otherwise devotes all her energy, true love, passion, care, time, thoughts and desires to her own child; on the other hand, the selfish and mercenary whore, who seeks fun, adventure and lusts for certain men but she actually doesn’t love men as she only uses them to satisfy her own sexual, social and financial needs. However, most children, no matter how ugly, violent, sick, handicapped, or stupid they are, still receive unconditional love from their own mothers regardless while even the most nice, educated, well- spoken, intelligent, funny, wealthy, charming popular and attractive men can only receive intense lust but ultimately conditional love at best from women who are in whore mode.

At the end of the day, women are pure slaves to their reproductive/sexual functions and desires. All women want to have kids before it’s too late ( beating old age and that biological clock ) and all women are hypergamous and always seek a higher caliber of man. Over enough time, they won’t be satisfied with their man and will be on the lookout for someone better, richer, more handsome etc

Indeed, women live through the prism of socio-sexuality: their conscious and subconscious minds are mostly focused to selfishly satisfy Their own desires for their own gains (attention whoring, validation, clout chasing, raw sexual pleasure ) and use wisely and strategically the sexual functions (pragmatic marriage that leads to planned sexual reproduction and family creation )for longterm mating and dating.

Sex is the only true purpose of their existence—either for herself or as a breeder/bride/matchmaker. This enslavement to her base sexual needs/wants makes her essentially inferior to man. Therefore, she does not need to be liberated from man, but from herself.
 
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