Why do men give up on love so fast?

[dark_magic]

orly and women are any better right?

That's why many of them are medicated .....

 

[Mowgli]

Bullshyt.

Men love hard.

Women love often.

As a man, love is pretty synonomus with putting all eggs in one basket, putting pride, reputation, and esteem on the line. Only way to be vulnerable.

As a woman, you get a clean slate every relationship, have options constantly surrounding you,

/end of thread.

Ok so you're basically saying women are mentally stronger then you.

I been heartbroken but it's always onto the next one. In retrospect it can lead you to happiness

 

[Scott Larock]

Damn nicca go write a book so i can invest in it & get my money right

Dude wrote a goat reality post, I'm older trust me money wasn't lying, when you got no use you tossed in the bushes. Nikkas who ain't right csn feel what I'm saying, it's a learning process especially with many lower income black men no one sees us until get right. By that time you can take no female seriously.

 

[Dr. Narcisse]

A man dont usually fall no more then twice and if he does you'll never know cause he wont say,
for the fear of being fooled taken twice by the heart, it's in his nature, to be afraid, he starts to
wonder if its really right, to let his past take control of his life, maybe I'll run into hope, someone
thats right for me, and she'll love freely and fall in love again


@Raye82

 

[Scott Larock]

I been heartbroken but it's always onto the next one.

You trying to flap your Cape in a direction that the wind ain't blowing breh

You just like most dudes.

 

[Mowgli]

You trying to flap your Cape in a direction that the wind ain't blowing breh

You just like most dudes.

I'm in my 30s.

When you grow up and become a big boy u will see the same thing

 

[Scott Larock]

I'm in my 30s.

When you grow up and become a big boy u will see the same thing

Okay

I can relate to being in my 30s.


Doesn't excuse what I said.

You developed a fukk a bytch attitude and you don't even know it.

You don't trust females and you won't commit till she's worthy of commiting too, different than what the op spoke of.

 

[DEAD7]

It's kinda like this.

Most, not all, but most men were raised to believe women were these angelic, flawless creatures. And we believed we had to be on top of our shyt, basically be the best man we could be in order to attract the best woman.
When that first inevitable betrayal comes, it literally shakes the foundation of a man. You learn that everything you thought women were is a lie. You learn how selfish and cold and callous a woman can be when you no longer have her favor.
Then, the rules change.
You learn that you don't have to be the best man or really even be a good man. All you have to do is be a little bit more exciting and a little bit flashier than the dude she's with now. That's it. There's no honor or depth to it.
You learn that women are as simple as we are.
So we adapt.
We stop giving our all, because it wasn't going to matter anyway.
We stop being honest, because we learn that ya'll don't covet honesty.
We look out for ourselves, because it's what you would do in our situation.

That one woman who got the best of us, well she'll never know, nor would she care.

 

[Brandsdale]

what is love









baby dont hurt me
































dont hurt me


















































no more

 

[YvrzTrvly]

lets let chaz do the talkin

 

[StickStickly]

Honestly though, can't we say the same about men? We are told not only by society but from men here and elsewhere that men lust after women and women are only as good as their youth and physical attractiveness. Then once those are gone the woman is of no use or has less value. But I suppose you guys would say men only act that way because of their first bad romance. Still I think it messes with women's heads; both sexes have social conditioning that warps their views of one another. Imagine growing up believing that you'll only matter to the one you love for as long as you are physically attractive, and when you think about how terminal and subjective attractiveness is that's kind of messed up . Doesn't that mean your partner doesn't really love you. He loves what you look like right now. Men are only as faithful as their options right?


Maybe we are all fukked

(1) "Love"? Love doesn't exist. Women don't love men, they lust men. there's a difference. A woman only stays with a man as long as she can benefit from him. Whether that be great sex or financial security. That's why she only chases after pretty boys or successful men with money. If you're not in one of those categories then you're invisible to them.

(2) One shytty woman? I've had multiple bad experiences, so as a result i stay to myself and will focus on me.

/ Thread

 

[Tim Dripcan]

It's kinda like this.

Most, not all, but most men were raised to believe women were these angelic, flawless creatures. And we believed we had to be on top of our shyt, basically be the best man we could be in order to attract the best woman.
When that first inevitable betrayal comes, it literally shakes the foundation of a man. You learn that everything you thought women were is a lie. You learn how selfish and cold and callous a woman can be when you no longer have her favor.
Then, the rules change.
You learn that you don't have to be the best man or really even be a good man. All you have to do is be a little bit more exciting and a little bit flashier than the dude she's with now. That's it. There's no honor or depth to it.
You learn that women are as simple as we are.
So we adapt.
We stop giving our all, because it wasn't going to matter anyway.
We stop being honest, because we learn that ya'll don't covet honesty.
We look out for ourselves, because it's what you would do in our situation.

That one woman who got the best of us, well she'll never know, nor would she care.

Poetic and true.

 

[My neck and my back]

Do men feel stronger/longer emotions than women?

It seems like they hold grudges and heartbreak longer and that they also pine for "the one that got away" longer.

Women are emotional, but it's usually fleeting. We get over things faster and move on. It seems crazy to men how we have "mood swings". But you just learn not to hold on to things.

It could also be nurture because I've noticed a lot of things men do is ego driven. And when their ego gets bruised, watch out.

men get hit harder because we invest more into relationships than women...it's easy for a woman to move on when all she has to do is pack up her p*ssy and wait for another man to work for it

 

[twan83]

Do men feel stronger/longer emotions than women?

It seems like they hold grudges and heartbreak longer and that they also pine for "the one that got away" longer.

Women are emotional, but it's usually fleeting. We get over things faster and move on. It seems crazy to men how we have "mood swings". But you just learn not to hold on to things.

It could also be nurture because I've noticed a lot of things men do is ego driven. And when their ego gets bruised, watch out.

@Emperor_ReinScarf
song old as shyt but still holds truth till these days

lyrics on the song for those who wanna read it

 

[DMGAINGREEN]

I'm 19 , so for my age I'm a patient cat , but I know how to select my shorties wisely so if im on the verge of fallin i nlove I already know what I'm dealing with off rip . Too bad a nikka never experienced that yet though