Why do men give up on love so fast?

[lightbearerchef]

lower income black men no one sees us until get right. By that time you can take no female seriously.

damn dawg, i thought it was just me. You should write a book 2 nicca

 

[Arithmetic]

It's kinda like this.

Most, not all, but most men were raised to believe women were these angelic, flawless creatures. And we believed we had to be on top of our shyt, basically be the best man we could be in order to attract the best woman.
When that first inevitable betrayal comes, it literally shakes the foundation of a man. You learn that everything you thought women were is a lie. You learn how selfish and cold and callous a woman can be when you no longer have her favor.
Then, the rules change.
You learn that you don't have to be the best man or really even be a good man. All you have to do is be a little bit more exciting and a little bit flashier than the dude she's with now. That's it. There's no honor or depth to it.
You learn that women are as simple as we are.
So we adapt.
We stop giving our all, because it wasn't going to matter anyway.
We stop being honest, because we learn that ya'll don't covet honesty.
We look out for ourselves, because it's what you would do in our situation.

That one woman who got the best of us, well she'll never know, nor would she care.

 

[Arithmetic]

I found me a sweet woman. and i admit i did a few things wrong but i always loved her and never cheated, never disrespected her, but she cheated broke my heart and fukked me over....

I didnt even give her a chance to make it right, she couldnt make a choice between me and her ex, which she was seeing behind my back and making it out to be "just friends" but i know better, I aint fukking stupid.

So I made the choice for her, dumped her over the phone and not looked back... I refuse to be in a relationship possibly ever again. I'm down to pipe and all but as far as emotional and being there for you, and picking you up and taking you out... I'm past that...

Alot of people getting on my nerves with this oh you should date her and whatnot, i aint dating anyone ever again... The only woman i would date would have to be a woman that was into me 100% and shared the same ideals, faithfulness and hobbies i have... if she aint down with that... GTFOH... alot of women are shallow, jumpoffs, crazy, abusive, frigid, materialistic, angry. and i dont have time for that shyt... K.I.M...

 

[Arithmetic]

Because men are mentally feeble by nature. Too much can really damage their mindsets. Theyre not built to handle tough stuff.

You couldn't walk a day in my shoes

 

[Arithmetic]

As you grow old, as a man, you realize most people want you for what you offer right now. Especially in relationships. Most women don't want a guy that's going to tell her about how hard his day was at work, how stressful it is that his whole family relies on him, or that he doesn't know where he wants to go in life. They want a man that's gonna do something for them, whether it be excite them, please them, or protect them. What happened yesterday doesn't mean a thing, and tomorrow ain't here yet. So when you can no longer offer anything, they can no longer offer love. It's that simple. And when a man realizes that a lot of people don't love people, a lot of people love things, that's when he starts being selfish. And he starts looking out for himself first.

 

[Dr. Narcisse]

Lmao You so silly. Let me show you these tiittays. Just kidding

 

[Dr. Narcisse]

Nah, I've never understood holding a whole gender responsible for the actions of one person. Just don't fukk with the person that did you wrong. I understand not trusting as easily as before, that's learning from your mistakes. And women do this too, hence "all men are dogs". Dating is hard outchea

Cat Stevens is one of the Goats

 

[Atlrocafella]

aint no broad gonna love or take care of me better
than me........
besides Ive seen the darkest sides of the female
and will never trust or submit/conform to the
concept of love 100%

I tell women straight up, I will never trust any of them 100%, that shyt fukks with them, but I just can't, I done been through too much bullshyt and seen a lot of nonsense

 

[GoPro]

men get hit harder because we invest more into relationships than women...it's easy for a woman to move on when all she has to do is pack up her p*ssy and wait for another man to work for it

Underrated post. Women think shyt is a game. They want you to court them and spend money on them; you gotta make equal or more money than them, so when they dip they always come out even or ahead; can even use your seed(s) as leverage.

How the hell you expect a man in this day and age to fall in love so haphazardly with such disadvantages against him?

 

[InDePickWest]

Oh shut up, your opinion is irrelevant......

Not an opinion at all. Facts proven by studies and brain diagnostics.

You couldn't walk a day in my shoes

Size 7?

Men often inflate their hardships. Not all the time but alot of men's woes stem from being denied privilege at times they want to exercise it.

"Waaaah! She wouldnt sleep with me"





I think Im sexist now tho

Gotta stop for a bit

 

[Rawtid]

like it or not, we, especially black people, have to have healthy and strong long standing relationships with one another. We NEED each other.

People are scum so heartbreak is inevitable but you don't die from it.

 

[The Mad Titan]

Not an opinion at all. Facts proven by studies and brain diagnostics.

Size 7?

Men often inflate their hardships. Not all the time but alot of men's woes stem from being denied privilege at times they want to exercise it.

"Waaaah! She wouldnt sleep with me"





I think Im sexist now tho

Gotta stop for a bit

Your view on men and what is it to be a man is as twisted as some of these coli nikka's views on women. Ironic since you said you grew up with a bunch of dudes.

 

[Arithmetic]

like it or not, we, especially black people, have to have healthy and strong long standing relationships with one another. We NEED each other.

People are scum so heartbreak is inevitable but you don't die from it.

I'm talking about Life. You couldn't walk a day in my shoes.

 

[BamdaDon]

I honestly don't need love from a women I get that from my Son. Just need women to feed my ego, all that growing old picket fence shyt is for lames. being attracted to one person forever

 

[karim]