Why Do Women Do This? UPDATE IN OP

SheWantTheD

Veteran
Joined
Sep 10, 2015
Messages
40,447
Reputation
2,370
Daps
100,711
I've been through the same situation. That let's me know she's not interested in me and I move on to the next one with out calling or texting.

No need to call or text her more and that was your mistake.
Bro, I got the number. Called her the next day, and texted shortly after in case she's one of them people that don't pikc up the phone when a random number calls.

Didn't send no texts after or call her. And the text just said that I just called and this is my number.
 

Marco Andretti

GRINDHARD
Joined
Sep 7, 2014
Messages
5,170
Reputation
2,716
Daps
14,100
Reppin
NoleNation 904 Jetlife
The fact a nikka can't text after 9 without wanting sex ..


Hoe what if it's Sunday at 9 ..?

nikkas gotta get up in the morning

Fool ain't thinking about ass 247

Daaammmn let a nikka text u when he can

When u text him in your lunch break after reading a hot steamy book Lol

Would u be mad if he don't respond ?

No cuz yal thot ass prolly go text the next nikka smh lol
 

The Devil's Advocate

Call me Dad
Joined
Jun 1, 2012
Messages
36,043
Reputation
7,985
Daps
99,746
Reppin
Better to reign in Hell than serve in Heaven
It was just so she had my number. I was busy the whole day. Ain't like I texted her "come thru" :mjlol:

And why women so thirsty for attention :mindblown:

Ain't even sweating her like that :wtf:
don't ever bother understanding women logic.. they got a set of rules that they make up, for no apparent reason

you text shorty at 9pm... "oh he trying to fukk"

or maybe he just trying to have a conversation cause his day is finally winding down and now he's free



i see women all the time on this dumb shyt...

"damn i wish he'd stop hitting me up"

"well why don't you tell him for one... and why does he even have your number"

"well i thought he'd get the hint.. i only gave it to him so he'd leave me alone"


nikka WHAT :camby:
 

J.E.T.S

Lookahere mayne...
Joined
Nov 30, 2015
Messages
14,051
Reputation
3,607
Daps
57,622
Reppin
Atlanta/Memphis
Damn, just when a nikka wants to try and get back in the field....

shyt like this makes me want to not bother all over again...

It's a tricky game full of hazards breh. You damn near need a psychology and mathematics degree to calculate all the bullshyt and mental gymnastics you're going to experience while meeting women.
 

Afro

Student of life
Supporter
Joined
Feb 8, 2016
Messages
13,716
Reputation
6,907
Daps
54,950
don't ever bother understanding women logic.. they got a set of rules that they make up, for no apparent reason

you text shorty at 9pm... "oh he trying to fukk"

or maybe he just trying to have a conversation cause his day is finally winding down and now he's free



i see women all the time on this dumb shyt...

"damn i wish he'd stop hitting me up"

"well why don't you tell him for one... and why does he even have your number"

"well i thought he'd get the hint.. i only gave it to him so he'd leave me alone"


nikka WHAT :camby:

This communication thing is getting dumber by the minute. I hate texting because it's easier to ignore.

Maybe I want to hear the sound of your voice? Nah, you answer a text six hours later, talkin about "Ya busy".

Or click me to voicemail when I call :wow:

I just called out a girl for texting me hours and hours later. Like, that is not how you have a conversation :what:.

But, you should only deal with people who reciprocate so, you demote that chick and focus on the ones who give a damn.
 

SheWantTheD

Veteran
Joined
Sep 10, 2015
Messages
40,447
Reputation
2,370
Daps
100,711
This communication thing is getting dumber by the minute. I hate texting because it's easier to ignore.

Maybe I want to hear the sound of your voice? Nah, you answer a text six hours later, talkin about "Ya busy".

Or click me to voicemail when I call :wow:

I just called out a girl for texting me hours and hours later. Like, that is not how you have a conversation :what:.

But, you should only deal with people who reciprocate so, you demote that chick and focus on the ones who give a damn.
That's exactly why I called first, fukk that texting shyt. If a grown woman refuses to answer phone calls, she has a bunch of dudes she gives her number to and plays games with.

If my phone were to ring right now, ima answer it because I don't got shyt I'm not hiding from anyone.
 

mikishere

#byrdgang
Supporter
Joined
May 1, 2012
Messages
11,488
Reputation
2,669
Daps
36,902
Reppin
NYC
don't ever bother understanding women logic.. they got a set of rules that they make up, for no apparent reason

you text shorty at 9pm... "oh he trying to fukk"

or maybe he just trying to have a conversation cause his day is finally winding down and now he's free




i see women all the time on this dumb shyt...

"damn i wish he'd stop hitting me up"

"well why don't you tell him for one... and why does he even have your number"

"well i thought he'd get the hint.. i only gave it to him so he'd leave me alone"


nikka WHAT :camby:

smart man... rep
 

SheWantTheD

Veteran
Joined
Sep 10, 2015
Messages
40,447
Reputation
2,370
Daps
100,711
It's a tricky game full of hazards breh. You damn near need a psychology and mathematics degree to calculate all the bullshyt and mental gymnastics you're going to experience while meeting women.
Bruh women's flakiness, unsure-ness, and inability to be upfront and honest almost forces you to have to run a numbers game. Because so many women will flake, play games, use you for attention and whatever else when they aren't interested.

Damn near gotta run a numbers game and approach a good amount of women to have your time wasted as small as possible :snoop:
 

KinksandCoils

African American Queen
Joined
Jul 16, 2013
Messages
11,305
Reputation
2,060
Daps
21,180
Reppin
Locker room
She don't want to reject you because y'all work together and she might not know how you are gonna handle it and the drama that might follow
 

Afro

Student of life
Supporter
Joined
Feb 8, 2016
Messages
13,716
Reputation
6,907
Daps
54,950
She don't want to reject you because y'all work together and she might not know how you are gonna handle it and the drama that might follow

Either way she is rejecting him. This would be a "soft" rejection which helps her (kind of) but makes him confused as hell because it mixed signals.

Direct rejection would dead the "what-ifs" all together and if a dude keeps going after that, it's on him. I understand that women want to be careful, you never know who is crazy and who isn't.

BUT treating every dude like a serial killer isn't the answer neither.
 

Afro

Student of life
Supporter
Joined
Feb 8, 2016
Messages
13,716
Reputation
6,907
Daps
54,950
That's exactly why I called first, fukk that texting shyt. If a grown woman refuses to answer phone calls, she has a bunch of dudes she gives her number to and plays games with.

If my phone were to ring right now, ima answer it because I don't got shyt I'm not hiding from anyone.

I got this number from a girl recently and she ended up calling me instead. I'm like :dwillhuh:

Mind you we exchanged numbers last week and we texted a lil bit on Monday. She called Saturday :ehh:.

She didn't want to come off as weird or needy, I'm like "pfff not a problem at all, glad you called :jawalrus:"

So now I'm going to give her more attention and hit her up on this Monday :manny:
 
Top