That's the bullshyt you tell yourself. Those are subtle minor things that make the difference.
Why Do Women Do This? UPDATE IN OP
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That's the bullshyt you tell yourself. Those are subtle minor things that make the difference.
SheWantTheD
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such as what?
Stop lying you sent her a picture of your dikk and she loss interest. She tryna figure out how to not make this not uncomfortable at work. 
SheWantTheD
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archiving this for laterStop lying you sent her a picture of your dikk and she loss interest. She tryna figure out how to not make this not uncomfortable at work.
Was gonna tell a story but fukk it. Why do women give you their number, not respond to phone calls or text messages but when they see you in person they wanna try and get your attention?
This has happened to me more than once, and I've had a chick go months of trying to get my attention after ignoring my text.
Long story short, I got this stupid thick shorty's number from my job (she's here temporarily). I see her the next day and she's acting weird and avoiding me. I didn't hit her up the same day cause I was busy doing other things. I call her the next day around 9 pm cause one of my homies popped up at my house unexpectedly. Anyways, she don't pick up then I text her shortly after telling her this is my number. Shorty never responds and when I get to work the next day she avoiding me during breaks
I wrote it off as having no interest and kept it moving, ain't got time for games or chasing chicks (let's meet in the middle). Few days later she wants to start talking again
What is it? Another nikka in the picture, fukk buddy, ex she ain't over, playing games, just want attention?
UPDATE: Seems like she expected me to hit her up over the weekend. When I got to work in the morning, she was waiting by the door. I gave her a head nod like hey and she gave me this evil glare.
By lunch time during break, she was flirting with this one dude that has been staring at me when I walk past him for the past week. Saw him talking to her before once.
Weak update. Move on already. If you had other women, this wouldn't be an issue.
What happened to all of the experience with women you claimed to have? In here asking such simple questions.
SheWantTheD
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Move on? What did I invest into this chick that I'd be emotionally attached to her? I don't know her nor do I have feelings for her. When did I say I have other woman? Did I ever say I was a player or a man of many women on here? Did I ever say I have a lot of experience with women?
I've said the exact opposite
Carry on.
Dwight Howard
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I wouldnt read to deeply into it, women have rosters of men tryna get em. They are naturally attracted to the ones that dont really give a shyt. Case and point, I pulled this chick that lived in my apartment about back in March on the elevator. We were texting and when I tried to make plans she went ghost. I was like fukk it cause I was talking to this other chick pretty have at the time so it didnt really bother me. Didnt talk to her for like a month, I saw her out when I was eating brunch with my main chick and waved at her. Fast forward a few days later, she texting me asking if I wanted to hang out. I declined cause I was with my main, but it just goes to show you. There's no universal science to it, people are irrational and have multiple rationals for doing things. But women generally do no like any perceived thirst.
This is why you have to constantly seek new girls. You can't put all your eggs into one basket, because that fukker will break at a moments notice.
If one girl starts ghosting on you, who cares because you should have 3-4 others who you're trying to meet up with.
I'm messing with a girl I met at the gym currently. It's going great, she even let me smash raw a couple times
However I know not to text this girl too much, and at a moments notice she can change her mind of meet another dude. At which point in time, I will have another chick to holler at.
It is what it is
If one girl starts ghosting on you, who cares because you should have 3-4 others who you're trying to meet up with.
I'm messing with a girl I met at the gym currently. It's going great, she even let me smash raw a couple times
However I know not to text this girl too much, and at a moments notice she can change her mind of meet another dude. At which point in time, I will have another chick to holler at.It is what it is
O.T.I.S.
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Sounds like you give a fukk more than she doesMove on? What did I invest into this chick that I'd be emotionally attached to her? I don't know her nor do I have feelings for her. When did I say I have other woman? Did I ever say I was a player or a man of many women on here? Did I ever say I have a lot of experience with women?
I've said the exact opposite
Carry on.
Most likely, she got a lotta nikkas in her phone hitting her up and was probably with one of them then
You hit her up "wassup" and if she didn't respond, thats where you shouldve left the conversation. If she said wassup to you in the halls, say it back and continue doing your thing in life. Guarantee she will hit you up first or start some convo with you at work and even then I wouldn't have hit her up unless she asked or did it first.
Let her avoid you and consider it a blessing if you did nothing crazy. She sounds like drama and you going out of your way to get buns you might regret when shyt is all said and done.
I don't even really fukk with chicks I worked with like that and if I did, never would I chase on some bullshyt. I let them
Know I'm cool to just do small talk and keep it moving.
I had chicks numbers at work and never even hit them up unless it was about work. They hit me up if they wanted to hang and chill, which I did many times but if it was nothing more then I just let her figure her shyt out. She has my number, why chase after what doesnt want to be chased?
O.T.I.S.
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She gave you her number thinking like nikkas do in Spades... You were a possible.
She storing you in the fridge for later if shyt doesn't work out with any other situation at work or in general. It's not even a bad thing either. She most likely just had more of a "sure thing" going on with other nikkas she met first but she like you too she just couldn't juggle an extra nikka as well and overplays her hand.
Hit her up once, thats it. If she doesn't respond, then be cool about it and move on. If she gets desperate she'll hit you up then you can respond on some cool stuff or not respond on some bitter stuff. You texting her more than once looked desperate tho.
Have some self respect and have a code. If I hit a chick ONCE and she doesnt reply back, shes bushed to me until she proves otherwise. I shot my shot... And i'm not being cocky or arrogant but that whole "chase until she gives in" shyt is not my style
She storing you in the fridge for later if shyt doesn't work out with any other situation at work or in general. It's not even a bad thing either. She most likely just had more of a "sure thing" going on with other nikkas she met first but she like you too she just couldn't juggle an extra nikka as well and overplays her hand.
Hit her up once, thats it. If she doesn't respond, then be cool about it and move on. If she gets desperate she'll hit you up then you can respond on some cool stuff or not respond on some bitter stuff. You texting her more than once looked desperate tho.
Have some self respect and have a code. If I hit a chick ONCE and she doesnt reply back, shes bushed to me until she proves otherwise. I shot my shot... And i'm not being cocky or arrogant but that whole "chase until she gives in" shyt is not my style
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Devil Plisken…CMS
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She has no intentions of sleeping with you. You are her ball of yarn to play with. She doesn't want you but doesn't mind you being around. Start working on your next conquest
This is why you have to constantly seek new girls. You can't put all your eggs into one basket, because that fukker will break at a moments notice.
If one girl starts ghosting on you, who cares because you should have 3-4 others who you're trying to meet up with.
I'm messing with a girl I met at the gym currently. It's going great, she even let me smash raw a couple times
It is what it is
The bolded is a learning lesson, also advice every male should be given over and over again, passed on from friends and family.
SheWantTheD
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She was only here temporarily, last day at the building I work at was this past Monday.
Day I got the number, I thought was gonna be her last day which was last week. Ain't even fronting over her, it's just that she was thick af
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She doesn't want the d